I have always loved to sing and imagined singing at my wedding to my new husband since I was a little girl. I am a soprano and I will be singing with an acoustic guitar. I know there are a ton of Love songs out there, but I need something that will fit a wedding and my soprano voice. Suggestions???What would be a good song to sing to my new husband at our wedding? A soprano voice with accoustic guitar.?
';I Got You Babe'; from Sonny and Cher would be really cute, easy to sing and fine with just a guitar.What would be a good song to sing to my new husband at our wedding? A soprano voice with accoustic guitar.?
Okay I Know This Sounds So Childish But Lovebug By Jonas Brothers Are The Best Romantic Song!!!
';At last'; by Ella Fitzgerald- a classic, and it sounds fantastic on guitar, I've done a cover.
I can help with the chords if you need, just send an E-mail. :)
Congradulations!
';The power of love';. by Celine Dion.
How about ';When I'm 64'; lol
you say it best when you say nothing at all,
Friday, April 30, 2010
Should I leave my husband and move into the trailer next door with his brother?
OMG!!!!! His brother is so hot and knows how to take care of a woman, plus he has a great deck that overlooks the little pond in our trailer communityShould I leave my husband and move into the trailer next door with his brother?
Let me guess, you live in Kentucky and his brother is actually your first cousin, right?
Heck yes, move in with him have babies and keep the stupidity gene pool going.
Good grief.Should I leave my husband and move into the trailer next door with his brother?
JERRY JERRY JERRY !!!!
What?! Hell no. That sounds like something that would be on the Murray show. You live in a trailer? Shouldn't you be thinking of going back to school or getting a job?
you are one smart chick, and thats what makes a good trailer community, free bathing, you cant go wrong, damn you got it made
Please move out and into his trailer!
Besides being hot he has 3 teeth one more than your husband.
and i hear he only has 3 cars on blocks in his yard, he's the much better catch.
I THINK I REMEMBER THIS ON THE JERRY SPRINGER SHOW.
Hey what the heck you gotta keep your name up to par';trailer park trash';..go for it..
Sounds like a plan to me!
This is so funny
Let me guess, you live in Kentucky and his brother is actually your first cousin, right?
Heck yes, move in with him have babies and keep the stupidity gene pool going.
Good grief.Should I leave my husband and move into the trailer next door with his brother?
JERRY JERRY JERRY !!!!
What?! Hell no. That sounds like something that would be on the Murray show. You live in a trailer? Shouldn't you be thinking of going back to school or getting a job?
you are one smart chick, and thats what makes a good trailer community, free bathing, you cant go wrong, damn you got it made
Please move out and into his trailer!
Besides being hot he has 3 teeth one more than your husband.
and i hear he only has 3 cars on blocks in his yard, he's the much better catch.
I THINK I REMEMBER THIS ON THE JERRY SPRINGER SHOW.
Hey what the heck you gotta keep your name up to par';trailer park trash';..go for it..
Sounds like a plan to me!
This is so funny
What do you send to someone who was like a grandmother to me growing up for the loss of her husband?
He was a great man who loved me so much. Unfortunately, I can't make it to the funeral out of town and she is going to have so many plants. Any suggestions would be appreciated.What do you send to someone who was like a grandmother to me growing up for the loss of her husband?
I suggest writing a heartfelt note to her.That always means a lot to people.Another idea is to buy her some thank you cards and a sheet of stamps,that way she can write notes to people she wants to thank for the flowers that she receives.Just an idea,hope this helps.how to apply acne
I suggest writing a heartfelt note to her.That always means a lot to people.Another idea is to buy her some thank you cards and a sheet of stamps,that way she can write notes to people she wants to thank for the flowers that she receives.Just an idea,hope this helps.
What would be a good song to sing to my new husband at our wedding? A soprano voice with accoustic guitar.?
I have always loved to sing and imagined singing at my wedding to my new husband since I was a little girl. I am a soprano and I will be singing with an acoustic guitar. I know there are a ton of Love songs out there, but I need something that will fit a wedding and my soprano voice. Suggestions???What would be a good song to sing to my new husband at our wedding? A soprano voice with accoustic guitar.?
';I Got You Babe'; from Sonny and Cher would be really cute, easy to sing and fine with just a guitar.What would be a good song to sing to my new husband at our wedding? A soprano voice with accoustic guitar.?
Okay I Know This Sounds So Childish But Lovebug By Jonas Brothers Are The Best Romantic Song!!!
';At last'; by Ella Fitzgerald- a classic, and it sounds fantastic on guitar, I've done a cover.
I can help with the chords if you need, just send an E-mail. :)
Congradulations!
';The power of love';. by Celine Dion.
How about ';When I'm 64'; lol
you say it best when you say nothing at all,
';I Got You Babe'; from Sonny and Cher would be really cute, easy to sing and fine with just a guitar.What would be a good song to sing to my new husband at our wedding? A soprano voice with accoustic guitar.?
Okay I Know This Sounds So Childish But Lovebug By Jonas Brothers Are The Best Romantic Song!!!
';At last'; by Ella Fitzgerald- a classic, and it sounds fantastic on guitar, I've done a cover.
I can help with the chords if you need, just send an E-mail. :)
Congradulations!
';The power of love';. by Celine Dion.
How about ';When I'm 64'; lol
you say it best when you say nothing at all,
Am I responsible for a credit card debt in my deceased husband's name?
The card was in his name only and he died in 2001. The amt was $5,000 and the bank (credit card) company just sent him a statement that he should include it in his income tax forms. The credit card company had told me I was not responsible for the amount as it was in his name only. Thank you for ;your help.Am I responsible for a credit card debt in my deceased husband's name?
That sounds like you may need to file some kind of return for his estate. Check with a tax person on this.Am I responsible for a credit card debt in my deceased husband's name?
If your name isnt on the card, probably not. They might to file against his estate to recover it, for anything that goes through probate. Ask the probate lawyer.
No, you are not.
That sounds like you may need to file some kind of return for his estate. Check with a tax person on this.Am I responsible for a credit card debt in my deceased husband's name?
If your name isnt on the card, probably not. They might to file against his estate to recover it, for anything that goes through probate. Ask the probate lawyer.
No, you are not.
What qualities are you looking for in your future wife or husband?
please, i'm talking about personality, age range.... not physical.What qualities are you looking for in your future wife or husband?
truthfulness and honesty...and the ability to know the difference between the two and practice both each and every day..after all its what women expect from men, y shouldn't men expect the same in return.What qualities are you looking for in your future wife or husband?
what I honestly love about my husband
his patience (very, very important)
his ability to cope with situations, not throw embarassing public tantrums, or punch anybody
his ability to laugh at life
his ability to not be afraid to admit when he was wrong, and say sorry
his consideration of me
his kindness to all living things
The ability to function without me (still go out with seperate friends, etc, no jealousy issues)
his willingness to work as part of a team, not a mother and son relationship (He irons own workshirt, cooks dinner etc)
his ability to be able to tell a great story and make me laugh and laugh
and last, really least important
his complete sexiness
I want my husband to be considerate of my feelings. I want him to be very strong and charming but I don't want him to be a male slu*t. I want him to be very responsible and pay all of our bills on time. I want him to carry me out every week. I want him to be a very good Dad and spend time with his family. i want him to only love me and respect me and remember that I am his wife. That means I am a very important lady and he better not forget that. She want her husband to iron his own work shirt what type of wife is that? I will iron, cook and clean for him as long as he is faithful and treat me like a Queen. Thank God he didn't waste any more time on you lady you made him iron his own clothes for God sake did he do the dishes too!
Wife must be kind, understanding, warm, humble, soft spoken but confident, quite preserved, cooks well, trustworthy and most of all LOVING.
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truthfulness and honesty...and the ability to know the difference between the two and practice both each and every day..after all its what women expect from men, y shouldn't men expect the same in return.What qualities are you looking for in your future wife or husband?
what I honestly love about my husband
his patience (very, very important)
his ability to cope with situations, not throw embarassing public tantrums, or punch anybody
his ability to laugh at life
his ability to not be afraid to admit when he was wrong, and say sorry
his consideration of me
his kindness to all living things
The ability to function without me (still go out with seperate friends, etc, no jealousy issues)
his willingness to work as part of a team, not a mother and son relationship (He irons own workshirt, cooks dinner etc)
his ability to be able to tell a great story and make me laugh and laugh
and last, really least important
his complete sexiness
I want my husband to be considerate of my feelings. I want him to be very strong and charming but I don't want him to be a male slu*t. I want him to be very responsible and pay all of our bills on time. I want him to carry me out every week. I want him to be a very good Dad and spend time with his family. i want him to only love me and respect me and remember that I am his wife. That means I am a very important lady and he better not forget that. She want her husband to iron his own work shirt what type of wife is that? I will iron, cook and clean for him as long as he is faithful and treat me like a Queen. Thank God he didn't waste any more time on you lady you made him iron his own clothes for God sake did he do the dishes too!
Wife must be kind, understanding, warm, humble, soft spoken but confident, quite preserved, cooks well, trustworthy and most of all LOVING.
Spiritual evolution (both).
honesty faith in god
What happens if my husband doesn't want anymore kids and I do?
We have 2 kids... a 2 1/2 year old and a 5 week old. I don't want another child just yet maybe in a few years, but my husband says he is def done and doesn't want anymore children. When we first were married I said I wanted 3 or 4 and he said he wanted 2. So this isn't a surprise to me. But what do I do if the feeling for wanting more children doesn't go away? And divorce is def out of the question.What happens if my husband doesn't want anymore kids and I do?
Well I think the only thing you can do is hope he changes his mind. Unless you want to get a divorce which you already said is not an option, or secretly get yourself pregnant which is likely to lead to a bad marriage, I think you will just have to accept it. If you find that you are really at turmoil and feel you need more then tell your hubby this. The turmoil you feel may end up trumping the no divorce policy. But I think once you have had time to think about it, you will find that if he doesnt come around to your side, you will come around to his.What happens if my husband doesn't want anymore kids and I do?
If you are a Christian, you pray like crazy. When baby is older and no longer nursing, you can fast and pray. As a couple, hang around people who believe God should decide how many children you should have, especially husbands who believe it.
Just as it isn't a surprise to you that he wanted two, it shouldn't be a surprise to him that you wanted more.
If he is firm in his decision, he needs to be the one to get sterilized, not you. There is no reason that you should go through surgery for his decision. I knew a woman who went into surgery, having her tubes tied, crying the whole time, because her husband decided no more kids.
Your husband may change his mind. It is overwhelming sometimes, to have a new baby. Given time and no pressure, maybe he won't think about it. If he doesn't think about it, he won't prevent it.
And, if he is slow in getting a vasectomy and you end up pregnant, don't abort your baby. Every baby is a gift.
Just take it one day at a time. Don't do anything permanent yet and see what happens in a few years and see how he feels then. If he still feels 2 is enough then you will need to accept that if you want to be together. I know my mom always wanted only 1 child and she stuck to that. Sometimes people just know what they can handle.
You respect his wishes. If you go ahead and surprise him with another, you will probably end up getting divorced. Give him time . . . you've got two babies in the house. Maybe when they're a little bigger, he'll miss having babies, too and you can revisit this conversation.
Best of luck to your family!
When a man says something, I think it's always best to believe him. If a man says, ';I want two kids,'; then I think it's fair to expect that after you have two kids, he'll be done.
Be happy that you have your two children and honor your husband's wishes.
Well, as adults you have to both come to a agreement. And honestly I would say the agreement should be, that you both wait till the future gets here and then decide. Becuz in all honesty he might think he dont want more right now, but then later decided differently. And visa versa....
i would give him some time i mean you just welcomed a new baby and you have a toddler so he might be overwhelmed give him a little while and talk it over and then maybe his mind will change
Wait and see what the future holds for you, dont stress about it yet.
Well I am a tall good looking well hung guy so here's the deal. You buy my plane tickets and give me 10 grand in cash and I will come over and get you pregnant ok?
You married him knowing that.
Well I think the only thing you can do is hope he changes his mind. Unless you want to get a divorce which you already said is not an option, or secretly get yourself pregnant which is likely to lead to a bad marriage, I think you will just have to accept it. If you find that you are really at turmoil and feel you need more then tell your hubby this. The turmoil you feel may end up trumping the no divorce policy. But I think once you have had time to think about it, you will find that if he doesnt come around to your side, you will come around to his.What happens if my husband doesn't want anymore kids and I do?
If you are a Christian, you pray like crazy. When baby is older and no longer nursing, you can fast and pray. As a couple, hang around people who believe God should decide how many children you should have, especially husbands who believe it.
Just as it isn't a surprise to you that he wanted two, it shouldn't be a surprise to him that you wanted more.
If he is firm in his decision, he needs to be the one to get sterilized, not you. There is no reason that you should go through surgery for his decision. I knew a woman who went into surgery, having her tubes tied, crying the whole time, because her husband decided no more kids.
Your husband may change his mind. It is overwhelming sometimes, to have a new baby. Given time and no pressure, maybe he won't think about it. If he doesn't think about it, he won't prevent it.
And, if he is slow in getting a vasectomy and you end up pregnant, don't abort your baby. Every baby is a gift.
Just take it one day at a time. Don't do anything permanent yet and see what happens in a few years and see how he feels then. If he still feels 2 is enough then you will need to accept that if you want to be together. I know my mom always wanted only 1 child and she stuck to that. Sometimes people just know what they can handle.
You respect his wishes. If you go ahead and surprise him with another, you will probably end up getting divorced. Give him time . . . you've got two babies in the house. Maybe when they're a little bigger, he'll miss having babies, too and you can revisit this conversation.
Best of luck to your family!
When a man says something, I think it's always best to believe him. If a man says, ';I want two kids,'; then I think it's fair to expect that after you have two kids, he'll be done.
Be happy that you have your two children and honor your husband's wishes.
Well, as adults you have to both come to a agreement. And honestly I would say the agreement should be, that you both wait till the future gets here and then decide. Becuz in all honesty he might think he dont want more right now, but then later decided differently. And visa versa....
i would give him some time i mean you just welcomed a new baby and you have a toddler so he might be overwhelmed give him a little while and talk it over and then maybe his mind will change
Wait and see what the future holds for you, dont stress about it yet.
Well I am a tall good looking well hung guy so here's the deal. You buy my plane tickets and give me 10 grand in cash and I will come over and get you pregnant ok?
You married him knowing that.
How does a money judgement against my wife by her ex-husband affect either my or our combined assets in NC?
my wife has a money judgement against her from her ex-husband. Can this affect either my individual assets, our company assets, or our combined personal assets?How does a money judgement against my wife by her ex-husband affect either my or our combined assets in NC?
Depending on how the company was legally set up, it is ';probably'; fine but you would have to consult a lawyer on that. As for your individual assets, they are fine BUT any combined and/or joint assets are at risk of being seized to pay the judgement. I would not be putting any money of yours in a joint account until this money is paid off. Good luck.
Depending on how the company was legally set up, it is ';probably'; fine but you would have to consult a lawyer on that. As for your individual assets, they are fine BUT any combined and/or joint assets are at risk of being seized to pay the judgement. I would not be putting any money of yours in a joint account until this money is paid off. Good luck.
Does writing love letters to my wife make me a great husband? Is it unusual?
I'll post one later, I just wanted to know if it made me better than most husbands. Is it such a great thing that it makes my affairs acceptable? Kind of a tradeoff, like carbon credits. I think my letters are good, I get that feeling because my wife, moo moo lovins' always cries when she reads them.Does writing love letters to my wife make me a great husband? Is it unusual?
Dang it...this was a trick...I was looking forward to reading a love letter.
I think love letters makes you a wonderful husband! Does writing love letters to my wife make me a great husband? Is it unusual?
The love letters would be nice if you werent cheating on her, but since you are and have admitted to us you are, you are just hurting her more cause youre driving the knife deeper, cause she's thinking how can he love me this much and cheat on me, does he think this is funny that he could hurt me, so no your not good! Stop cheating on her, then write love letters you abide by and then you will be a good husband. What does any other man have to do with you. Plus sending her the letters after you have cheated on her is mental abuse, stop hurting this poor woman, youre so cruel.
are you serious right now? Just because I have a full time job and still cook for my husband every night does that give me the right to have an affair??? nothing absolutely nothing gives you the right to have an affair and I can't wait for you to get caught, which you will....
oh and please don't bother to post one of your fake a** love letters
I am anticipating the upcoming poem. I know it will be amazing. BTW thanks for answering my Palm question. It was nice to see that you followed me to the PDA category. I thought it was going to be boring.
Like I always say................FRANK YOU ARE FANTASTIC:)
if writing poems to your wife comes from the heart, then do it. it think it is unusual cuz i don't see that anymore. i have had poems written for me by my former lovers. it is romantic, so continue to do so.
i am guessing you a very unusual man. Sad, lame, and scary man but, unusual will do.
Yes in your case it's highly unusual.
FRANK!!!
Personally, I like your poetry better!
fRANK....LORD..ARE YOU WRONG...how to apply acne
Dang it...this was a trick...I was looking forward to reading a love letter.
I think love letters makes you a wonderful husband! Does writing love letters to my wife make me a great husband? Is it unusual?
The love letters would be nice if you werent cheating on her, but since you are and have admitted to us you are, you are just hurting her more cause youre driving the knife deeper, cause she's thinking how can he love me this much and cheat on me, does he think this is funny that he could hurt me, so no your not good! Stop cheating on her, then write love letters you abide by and then you will be a good husband. What does any other man have to do with you. Plus sending her the letters after you have cheated on her is mental abuse, stop hurting this poor woman, youre so cruel.
are you serious right now? Just because I have a full time job and still cook for my husband every night does that give me the right to have an affair??? nothing absolutely nothing gives you the right to have an affair and I can't wait for you to get caught, which you will....
oh and please don't bother to post one of your fake a** love letters
I am anticipating the upcoming poem. I know it will be amazing. BTW thanks for answering my Palm question. It was nice to see that you followed me to the PDA category. I thought it was going to be boring.
Like I always say................FRANK YOU ARE FANTASTIC:)
if writing poems to your wife comes from the heart, then do it. it think it is unusual cuz i don't see that anymore. i have had poems written for me by my former lovers. it is romantic, so continue to do so.
i am guessing you a very unusual man. Sad, lame, and scary man but, unusual will do.
Yes in your case it's highly unusual.
FRANK!!!
Personally, I like your poetry better!
fRANK....LORD..ARE YOU WRONG...
Who pays for my husband to fly home after he graduates AIT?
Hi. My hubby graduates AIT on February 18th and his first assignment is Camp Carroll, Korea with a reporting date of March 14th. Am I wrong in assuming that he will be able to come home in between? If he is able too, do we pay for his flight home? What about his flight to Camp Carroll for his reporting date?
This is all obviously very new to me so any help is greatly appreciated!!!!!!Who pays for my husband to fly home after he graduates AIT?
the Army will only pay for his flight from AIT ot Korea. any interim travel is on his own dime.
He MIGHT be able to have them route the flight from AIT to home to Korea and then he would just pay the difference betrween the total cost and what it would have cost for a direct flight to Korea.
otherwise he has to get a RT ticket from AIT/Home/AIT before flying off to Korea.Who pays for my husband to fly home after he graduates AIT?
The Army will pay for the cost of his plane ticket from AIT to his Port Call at more than likely San Fransisco Air port for futher travel to Korea.
Depending on where you live.
They may pay a prorated portion of his plane ticket home after AIT, ( Instead of a plane ticket from AIT to San Fransisco )
Then he must pay for the plane ticket from home, to San fransisco for his Port Call.
The service member is always responsible for travel cost when on leave.
The military only pays for official travel cost.
He pays out of pocket to get home and get back to his port call location. The military only pays for the ticket to Korea. And he's allowed to take leave after completion of AIT. He just has to go back to his port call location after he's done unless they re-route him to make it easier.
I went through the whole process, when he has his orders to leave and start outprocessing, one of his outpro requirements is to go to port call to get his ticket to Korea, he can tell them when he leaves AIT and how long he intends to take leave and they'll give him a ticket for that date.
He has to pay for his trip home. The military will provide transportation to his duty station in Korea. The military charters airline flights to transport troops to areas.
Your husband will be given time to come home and take care of family business before he leaves. He will be charged leave days for the time he spends there; every service members accrues 30 days leave for every year of service, or 2.5 days per month (it is a government job, so they do get nice perks). He will be indebted those days until he serves enough time to get back to a positive. For example, if he graduates Feb. 18 and starts leave that day, and returns to base for his flight to Korea on the 10th, that would be a 20 day leave; if he does not have 20 days accrued leave, then he will not be able to take any more leave until he serves long enough to get back 20 days. He will be able to take the 20 day leave, but nothing else until he has positive accrued leave days.
he will pay not the military
This is all obviously very new to me so any help is greatly appreciated!!!!!!Who pays for my husband to fly home after he graduates AIT?
the Army will only pay for his flight from AIT ot Korea. any interim travel is on his own dime.
He MIGHT be able to have them route the flight from AIT to home to Korea and then he would just pay the difference betrween the total cost and what it would have cost for a direct flight to Korea.
otherwise he has to get a RT ticket from AIT/Home/AIT before flying off to Korea.Who pays for my husband to fly home after he graduates AIT?
The Army will pay for the cost of his plane ticket from AIT to his Port Call at more than likely San Fransisco Air port for futher travel to Korea.
Depending on where you live.
They may pay a prorated portion of his plane ticket home after AIT, ( Instead of a plane ticket from AIT to San Fransisco )
Then he must pay for the plane ticket from home, to San fransisco for his Port Call.
The service member is always responsible for travel cost when on leave.
The military only pays for official travel cost.
He pays out of pocket to get home and get back to his port call location. The military only pays for the ticket to Korea. And he's allowed to take leave after completion of AIT. He just has to go back to his port call location after he's done unless they re-route him to make it easier.
I went through the whole process, when he has his orders to leave and start outprocessing, one of his outpro requirements is to go to port call to get his ticket to Korea, he can tell them when he leaves AIT and how long he intends to take leave and they'll give him a ticket for that date.
He has to pay for his trip home. The military will provide transportation to his duty station in Korea. The military charters airline flights to transport troops to areas.
Your husband will be given time to come home and take care of family business before he leaves. He will be charged leave days for the time he spends there; every service members accrues 30 days leave for every year of service, or 2.5 days per month (it is a government job, so they do get nice perks). He will be indebted those days until he serves enough time to get back to a positive. For example, if he graduates Feb. 18 and starts leave that day, and returns to base for his flight to Korea on the 10th, that would be a 20 day leave; if he does not have 20 days accrued leave, then he will not be able to take any more leave until he serves long enough to get back 20 days. He will be able to take the 20 day leave, but nothing else until he has positive accrued leave days.
he will pay not the military
How to keep my husband from looking at porn??
I'm not a bad looking wife, but my husbands been looking at porn and women online. I want him to stop he does it on his phone and deletes it and thinks I don't know. I've found a way to know when's he looks it up he doesn't know, I just want him to stop it makes me feel ugly.How to keep my husband from looking at porn??
Stop worrying about it. The problem is all in your head. Take control of the situation and MYOB. Happiness is within you. This is no big deal, unless you, mentally, make it a big deal. Get yourself under control and blow this off before you screw up an otherwise perfectly good marriage. That is, unless you want to be one of the 50% of people that get divorced, mostly for dumb reasons of one of the partners being upset over dumb stuff. Your choice...How to keep my husband from looking at porn??
you can install NetDog Porn Filter : http://www.netdogsoft.com on the computer, it blocks all porn quitely and automatically when your husband's on the computer.
Men who watch porn are know to be unfaithul husbands. I think your marriage is heading for some troubles.
Truth is, you can't. He has to want to stop on his own. Unless he himself wants to stop on his own (and if thats truly the case, there are plenty of services that offer free help for it) then he will continue to do so.
You can try to plead your case to him and hope he respects you enough to stop for you, failing that.
hmm...well i don't have any real advice for you, but i can tell you my experience with that. my husband also has a thing for porn, which used to really upset me, if he looked at it alone. because we have an awesome love life, and often watch it together, i didn't see the need for him to watch it alone. especially since he always picked girls that were the opposite of me! we have had about 5 big fights about porn. he thinks it's no big deal...i feel betrayed and awful and insecure. i mean, geeze, those girls get their hoo-ha's air brushed! mines not too bad..but it's not air brushed! ugh. and i had kids! so anyway...i gave up, but didn't give in. a few weeks ago i said, hey honey, how would you feel about talking really hot pics of me, or us, and posting them on an anonymous adult site? he was all for it! (of course), so i had some wine, got all dressed up and pretty and we spent the evening taking sexy dirty pics together, and he seemed to suddenly realize i'm kinda pretty. like ';wow honey, these pics are really good';. so, it made me feel really good, it was a whole lot of fun, i got to play dress up and we did it together. the agreement is he can't ever look at the site without me. fair enough. and it's totally anonymous. ours says we live in a totally different country than where we really live, and we have different names also. today i brought it up and we took a bunch more pictures and had a really nice afternoon. better than porn and his hand, i betcha any money!
i know this may not work for everyone...but i just took a chance and said what the hell, i'm his wife, those porn tramps got nothing on me (besides air brushed hoo-ha's!) i'll show him. and it worked! if you feel like this may work for you, i'll be happy to give you the site if you send me an e-mail. you would be really surprised to see how many couples enjoy this, there's thousands of members.
oh and p.s.- when i posted up the new pics from earlier and he heard the computer ding, some goofball sent me an ';add request'; and i was typing a ';not interested'; note..hubby got a little jealous! he said ';what are you doing over there? who are you sending a message to? tell them you just got done with your husband, and have to go do it again!'; it was cute..he was actually a little jealous!
Your feelings are YOURS. He's not ';making'; you feel this way - you've chosen to feel this way.
How do you stop it? Glue his eyes shut.
If he wants to look, he'll do it with or without your consent.
If it's a dealbreaker, tell him it's either you or the porn.
Tell him how you feel. You need to feel good too.
you cant say that ur not bad looking about urself.. u lived with ur face for years so even if ur ugly, u got used to it. consider plastic surgery,,, or maybe its cuz u just plain suck in bed
Talk to him about how that crap makes you feel, and that it hurts you. Ask him how would he like if you watch porn for girls, with hung guys or fat salamis (not that you'll do it but hypothetically speaking). He's manhood will get offended. Or just watch it with him and make comments about the guys, how good they look and things like that, give him a taste of his own medicine. If that don't help, leave him, you deserve better and can find someone who truly loves you. Good luck sweetie.
It is a law of God, if you believe in Him or not, that we can't MAKE anyone do or stop doing anything! It called free-will. If you don't have the courage to stand up for what you believe and who you are,frankly, you deserve what he's doing.I am an older male and I don't care what people think of me when it comes to speaking truth. He's an ignorant man. There are MANY! Maybe he doesn't believe in God. I don't know or care. It's not my business. But, HE'S A HUSBAND!!! What the hell DOES he believe in? That's unfaithfulness! If you tolerate that you're in for a rough ride in life. Women are more emotional than we men. THANK GOD for that because we sure need SOMEBODY to care for our dumb asses! But being tender inside doesn't mean you're stupid! You have to have spine enough to be true to yourself and stand for right - whatever the cost! As long as most men think that all you'll do is ';*****'; then that's a green light to a testosterone laden idiot. Just be sure when you put your foot down that you mean it! Because foolish men WILL test you to know. Many a good woman has been lost because of this stupid, superior, aggressive testing behavior. Porn is addictive! A man's use of it, or a woman's for that matter, is selfishness. His OWN pleasure is all he has in mind. And then some of these stupid men wonder why their marriage fails! Oh, I'm sorry. I forgot. No they don't - It was HER FAULT!
Stop worrying about it. The problem is all in your head. Take control of the situation and MYOB. Happiness is within you. This is no big deal, unless you, mentally, make it a big deal. Get yourself under control and blow this off before you screw up an otherwise perfectly good marriage. That is, unless you want to be one of the 50% of people that get divorced, mostly for dumb reasons of one of the partners being upset over dumb stuff. Your choice...How to keep my husband from looking at porn??
you can install NetDog Porn Filter : http://www.netdogsoft.com on the computer, it blocks all porn quitely and automatically when your husband's on the computer.
Men who watch porn are know to be unfaithul husbands. I think your marriage is heading for some troubles.
Truth is, you can't. He has to want to stop on his own. Unless he himself wants to stop on his own (and if thats truly the case, there are plenty of services that offer free help for it) then he will continue to do so.
You can try to plead your case to him and hope he respects you enough to stop for you, failing that.
hmm...well i don't have any real advice for you, but i can tell you my experience with that. my husband also has a thing for porn, which used to really upset me, if he looked at it alone. because we have an awesome love life, and often watch it together, i didn't see the need for him to watch it alone. especially since he always picked girls that were the opposite of me! we have had about 5 big fights about porn. he thinks it's no big deal...i feel betrayed and awful and insecure. i mean, geeze, those girls get their hoo-ha's air brushed! mines not too bad..but it's not air brushed! ugh. and i had kids! so anyway...i gave up, but didn't give in. a few weeks ago i said, hey honey, how would you feel about talking really hot pics of me, or us, and posting them on an anonymous adult site? he was all for it! (of course), so i had some wine, got all dressed up and pretty and we spent the evening taking sexy dirty pics together, and he seemed to suddenly realize i'm kinda pretty. like ';wow honey, these pics are really good';. so, it made me feel really good, it was a whole lot of fun, i got to play dress up and we did it together. the agreement is he can't ever look at the site without me. fair enough. and it's totally anonymous. ours says we live in a totally different country than where we really live, and we have different names also. today i brought it up and we took a bunch more pictures and had a really nice afternoon. better than porn and his hand, i betcha any money!
i know this may not work for everyone...but i just took a chance and said what the hell, i'm his wife, those porn tramps got nothing on me (besides air brushed hoo-ha's!) i'll show him. and it worked! if you feel like this may work for you, i'll be happy to give you the site if you send me an e-mail. you would be really surprised to see how many couples enjoy this, there's thousands of members.
oh and p.s.- when i posted up the new pics from earlier and he heard the computer ding, some goofball sent me an ';add request'; and i was typing a ';not interested'; note..hubby got a little jealous! he said ';what are you doing over there? who are you sending a message to? tell them you just got done with your husband, and have to go do it again!'; it was cute..he was actually a little jealous!
Your feelings are YOURS. He's not ';making'; you feel this way - you've chosen to feel this way.
How do you stop it? Glue his eyes shut.
If he wants to look, he'll do it with or without your consent.
If it's a dealbreaker, tell him it's either you or the porn.
Tell him how you feel. You need to feel good too.
you cant say that ur not bad looking about urself.. u lived with ur face for years so even if ur ugly, u got used to it. consider plastic surgery,,, or maybe its cuz u just plain suck in bed
Talk to him about how that crap makes you feel, and that it hurts you. Ask him how would he like if you watch porn for girls, with hung guys or fat salamis (not that you'll do it but hypothetically speaking). He's manhood will get offended. Or just watch it with him and make comments about the guys, how good they look and things like that, give him a taste of his own medicine. If that don't help, leave him, you deserve better and can find someone who truly loves you. Good luck sweetie.
It is a law of God, if you believe in Him or not, that we can't MAKE anyone do or stop doing anything! It called free-will. If you don't have the courage to stand up for what you believe and who you are,frankly, you deserve what he's doing.I am an older male and I don't care what people think of me when it comes to speaking truth. He's an ignorant man. There are MANY! Maybe he doesn't believe in God. I don't know or care. It's not my business. But, HE'S A HUSBAND!!! What the hell DOES he believe in? That's unfaithfulness! If you tolerate that you're in for a rough ride in life. Women are more emotional than we men. THANK GOD for that because we sure need SOMEBODY to care for our dumb asses! But being tender inside doesn't mean you're stupid! You have to have spine enough to be true to yourself and stand for right - whatever the cost! As long as most men think that all you'll do is ';*****'; then that's a green light to a testosterone laden idiot. Just be sure when you put your foot down that you mean it! Because foolish men WILL test you to know. Many a good woman has been lost because of this stupid, superior, aggressive testing behavior. Porn is addictive! A man's use of it, or a woman's for that matter, is selfishness. His OWN pleasure is all he has in mind. And then some of these stupid men wonder why their marriage fails! Oh, I'm sorry. I forgot. No they don't - It was HER FAULT!
Does anyone have any good suggestions for audio books for my husband and I to listen to on a road trip?
We like mystery and thrillers. I have listened to most all of James Patterson's novels already and love them, so I am looking for something like that!!!!Does anyone have any good suggestions for audio books for my husband and I to listen to on a road trip?
Our favorites are Carl Hiassen's novels (not sure I spelled his name right). They're mysteries of a sort, but with crazy characters and bizarre situations. They can also be a little raunchy. But the humor is wonderful and really makes the miles fly by.Does anyone have any good suggestions for audio books for my husband and I to listen to on a road trip?
YAKiToMe! is a free website that has a bunch of podcast books you can download. I like the Sherlock Holmes classics, myself.
YAKiToMe! also turns any electronic text into a free audio book podcast. It reads in multiple languages, with male and female voices of the best quality, and at whatever reading speed suits you. Check it out.
Velocity by Dean Koontz! Super scary and thrilling. So fast paced you will want the Narrator to speed up just to find out what happens next! I will post a link from Amazon so you can read the synopsis if you want. I just loved it!
Crocodile on the Sandbank by Elizabeth Peters. This is the first book in an excellent series. An archeological mystery with a bit of unwimpy romance.
Amelia Peabody is not a shrinking violet. She carries a parasol with an iron spine and is quite good at clobbering people when necessary (including the hero she later marries). Except for an absolute talent for stumbling over dead bodies (ancient and quite fresh), she's a believable person.
Professor Emerson is an already established Egyptologist with a passion for accuracy. He denounces many of the early names in archeology for shoddy work and hates having that delectable amateur (Peabody) in the way of his dig. When bodies start turning up, things get sticky. Some are not mummies.
These books and authors have all been suggested by readers advisory librarians as read-a-likes for James Patterson. Harlan Coben's ';Tell No One,'; Douglas Kennedy's ';The Big Picture,'; and Joseph Garber's ';Vertical Run';. ';Prey'; series by John Sandford, ';Mortal Fear'; by Greg Iles, Ridley Pearson's ';Middle of Nowhere,'; and Jeff Deaver's ';The Devil's Teardrop';
This is not a mystery or thriller, but I found it entertaining without being too distracting while on a long road trip.
Life on the Mississipi by Mark Twain.
It is a long rambling tale of the history all along the river. Some of the ';facts'; should be taken with a grain of salt, but it is all colorful, and you'll feel like you've experienced life in a different era.
Our favorites are Carl Hiassen's novels (not sure I spelled his name right). They're mysteries of a sort, but with crazy characters and bizarre situations. They can also be a little raunchy. But the humor is wonderful and really makes the miles fly by.Does anyone have any good suggestions for audio books for my husband and I to listen to on a road trip?
YAKiToMe! is a free website that has a bunch of podcast books you can download. I like the Sherlock Holmes classics, myself.
YAKiToMe! also turns any electronic text into a free audio book podcast. It reads in multiple languages, with male and female voices of the best quality, and at whatever reading speed suits you. Check it out.
Velocity by Dean Koontz! Super scary and thrilling. So fast paced you will want the Narrator to speed up just to find out what happens next! I will post a link from Amazon so you can read the synopsis if you want. I just loved it!
Crocodile on the Sandbank by Elizabeth Peters. This is the first book in an excellent series. An archeological mystery with a bit of unwimpy romance.
Amelia Peabody is not a shrinking violet. She carries a parasol with an iron spine and is quite good at clobbering people when necessary (including the hero she later marries). Except for an absolute talent for stumbling over dead bodies (ancient and quite fresh), she's a believable person.
Professor Emerson is an already established Egyptologist with a passion for accuracy. He denounces many of the early names in archeology for shoddy work and hates having that delectable amateur (Peabody) in the way of his dig. When bodies start turning up, things get sticky. Some are not mummies.
These books and authors have all been suggested by readers advisory librarians as read-a-likes for James Patterson. Harlan Coben's ';Tell No One,'; Douglas Kennedy's ';The Big Picture,'; and Joseph Garber's ';Vertical Run';. ';Prey'; series by John Sandford, ';Mortal Fear'; by Greg Iles, Ridley Pearson's ';Middle of Nowhere,'; and Jeff Deaver's ';The Devil's Teardrop';
This is not a mystery or thriller, but I found it entertaining without being too distracting while on a long road trip.
Life on the Mississipi by Mark Twain.
It is a long rambling tale of the history all along the river. Some of the ';facts'; should be taken with a grain of salt, but it is all colorful, and you'll feel like you've experienced life in a different era.
What to buy my husband for Valentines Day?
He likes flowers sent to the office, but he will be traveling the week after and he does not work a full Friday. He likes cigars and I was thinking maybe of purchasing a couple of nice ones. We are staying home that night and having a nice romantic dinner. Please do not answer with inappropriate answers. I can still send him flowers, but maybe I should send him a plant or give both.What to buy my husband for Valentines Day?
For my other half I went to ThingsRembered.com and got a pocket knife with his initials engraved in it. The have very nice lighters and a few cigar things too. Not to expensive, less than flowers i've found and last a long time. The zipoo (sp?) lighters they have are a huge hit with guys. And if you order by tonight they will still make it to you by V-day.
Good Luck and Happy V-DayWhat to buy my husband for Valentines Day?
well ....if you have keys to his car you can always go up there on that friday that he is there and put a bouquet of flowers in his car so when he goes to his car he will be surprised. Or you can also do that before he leaves for work in the morning just get up real early and you can put the flowers in the car then, too. then for the cigars you can get a really nice box for them and wrap them up real nice and give them to him after he eats his dinner then you can sit outside together while he smokes one and you drink a glass of whine or you can go somewhere where you really see a stary sky and he can smoke his cigar and the two of you can just star gaze : )
I'm not sure if cigars are good if you want him to quit. Even if you don't mind, get him something some what healthy. Dinner and a movie is always good. Or if you want to do something really romantic, a cruise would be perfect. If u want something not really expencive just go for the movie and dinner.
I would never send flowers to guy, that is almost silly.
If he likes cigars have them waiting for after dinner.
Valentine's Day isn't important as much as how you treat your husband the other days of the year.
Do a nice little thing for him the whole week.
Like maybe watch a movie he really likes together tonight. Then candy on another day, flowers on another, cigars, dinner, et cetera.
that would be nice...
flowers usually mean i am sorry...
chocolates mean i love you!
who doesn't love chocolate?
another great idea that my husband loves is gift certificates for a massage!
I say send him a box of nice cigars with flowers. Get flowers that will stay alive the longest and cigars that will be the best.
yourself.you are the answer.
For my other half I went to ThingsRembered.com and got a pocket knife with his initials engraved in it. The have very nice lighters and a few cigar things too. Not to expensive, less than flowers i've found and last a long time. The zipoo (sp?) lighters they have are a huge hit with guys. And if you order by tonight they will still make it to you by V-day.
Good Luck and Happy V-DayWhat to buy my husband for Valentines Day?
well ....if you have keys to his car you can always go up there on that friday that he is there and put a bouquet of flowers in his car so when he goes to his car he will be surprised. Or you can also do that before he leaves for work in the morning just get up real early and you can put the flowers in the car then, too. then for the cigars you can get a really nice box for them and wrap them up real nice and give them to him after he eats his dinner then you can sit outside together while he smokes one and you drink a glass of whine or you can go somewhere where you really see a stary sky and he can smoke his cigar and the two of you can just star gaze : )
I'm not sure if cigars are good if you want him to quit. Even if you don't mind, get him something some what healthy. Dinner and a movie is always good. Or if you want to do something really romantic, a cruise would be perfect. If u want something not really expencive just go for the movie and dinner.
I would never send flowers to guy, that is almost silly.
If he likes cigars have them waiting for after dinner.
Valentine's Day isn't important as much as how you treat your husband the other days of the year.
Do a nice little thing for him the whole week.
Like maybe watch a movie he really likes together tonight. Then candy on another day, flowers on another, cigars, dinner, et cetera.
that would be nice...
flowers usually mean i am sorry...
chocolates mean i love you!
who doesn't love chocolate?
another great idea that my husband loves is gift certificates for a massage!
I say send him a box of nice cigars with flowers. Get flowers that will stay alive the longest and cigars that will be the best.
yourself.you are the answer.
Should I divorce my husband when i catch him talking to other women i dont know about?
Every year he seems to have given a women his telephone, and when i talk to the woman they say he didn't tell me he was married. So what should I do?Should I divorce my husband when i catch him talking to other women i dont know about?
best to leave him now because it really doesn't get any better once they begin to cheat, and tell other women they aren't even married. eventually he is going to hook up with a woman who doesn't care that he is married.Should I divorce my husband when i catch him talking to other women i dont know about?
I would arrange a meeting with him, the other woman and your self. Act like you are his sister and you want to surprise him. Have her meet you at a certain location and get her to call him and invite him to the same location. I'd love to see his reaction when he shows up and he's could be girl-friend is sitting at the same table with his wife. Ooh, that's mean.
well, not for that. I mean he's talking to them, but it doesn't seem like he's doing anything physical, YET. you should go to him and tell him to knock it off. :] Tell him that that kind of behavior is unacceptable. Set some rules and get some marriage counseling (that's optional, but helpful) If he keeps on doing it, he might actually cheat!!! Stop him before it happens!!! ^__^ Good luck!
Why did you get married to someone who doesn't want to be married? Does he not wear a ring on his finger? Or does he put it in his pocket? No fan of divorce when there hasn't been any infidelity, but it doesn't sound like he is married yet. Are you sure you are married?
Unfortunately your husband doesn't sound to sorry for cheating and flirting around on you. Since he keeps doing it. I would say you should seriously consider leaving him. He is only going to keep doing this and you deserve better.
Well, are you providing for his needs, or have you like all other wives, decided you no longer need sex and therefore neither does he, and sent him to her.
Do you mean that he is cheating on you? If so, leave him. The saying Once a cheater, always a cheater is true. My ex husband has just proved that.
do the same what is good for the goose is good for the gander My mom used to say that.and I Always wanted to say it too.
Divorce
He is a liar and a cheater and most likely slept with them
protect yourself
Better leave him now before it causes further grief. This behaviour only going to get worse. Not the right foundation of an ideal marriage.
This is not good, like playing with fire. Should take a serious talk with your spouse and try to understand why. If possible, go and meet a marriage counseling
He just talks only.Be cool.talk to your husband about this.Then go for divorce.Ok.
IT SEEMS THAT YOUR HUSBAND IS FRAUD AND IS CHEATING YOU AND OTHER WOMENS PLEASE BE CAREFUL
He forgets often huh? Make him get a tattoo on his forehead ';
';MARRIED';
Get out and Find someone whom wants to be in a one on one relationship.
Call me! LOL
best to leave him now because it really doesn't get any better once they begin to cheat, and tell other women they aren't even married. eventually he is going to hook up with a woman who doesn't care that he is married.Should I divorce my husband when i catch him talking to other women i dont know about?
I would arrange a meeting with him, the other woman and your self. Act like you are his sister and you want to surprise him. Have her meet you at a certain location and get her to call him and invite him to the same location. I'd love to see his reaction when he shows up and he's could be girl-friend is sitting at the same table with his wife. Ooh, that's mean.
well, not for that. I mean he's talking to them, but it doesn't seem like he's doing anything physical, YET. you should go to him and tell him to knock it off. :] Tell him that that kind of behavior is unacceptable. Set some rules and get some marriage counseling (that's optional, but helpful) If he keeps on doing it, he might actually cheat!!! Stop him before it happens!!! ^__^ Good luck!
Why did you get married to someone who doesn't want to be married? Does he not wear a ring on his finger? Or does he put it in his pocket? No fan of divorce when there hasn't been any infidelity, but it doesn't sound like he is married yet. Are you sure you are married?
Unfortunately your husband doesn't sound to sorry for cheating and flirting around on you. Since he keeps doing it. I would say you should seriously consider leaving him. He is only going to keep doing this and you deserve better.
Well, are you providing for his needs, or have you like all other wives, decided you no longer need sex and therefore neither does he, and sent him to her.
Do you mean that he is cheating on you? If so, leave him. The saying Once a cheater, always a cheater is true. My ex husband has just proved that.
do the same what is good for the goose is good for the gander My mom used to say that.and I Always wanted to say it too.
Divorce
He is a liar and a cheater and most likely slept with them
protect yourself
Better leave him now before it causes further grief. This behaviour only going to get worse. Not the right foundation of an ideal marriage.
This is not good, like playing with fire. Should take a serious talk with your spouse and try to understand why. If possible, go and meet a marriage counseling
He just talks only.Be cool.talk to your husband about this.Then go for divorce.Ok.
IT SEEMS THAT YOUR HUSBAND IS FRAUD AND IS CHEATING YOU AND OTHER WOMENS PLEASE BE CAREFUL
He forgets often huh? Make him get a tattoo on his forehead ';
';MARRIED';
Get out and Find someone whom wants to be in a one on one relationship.
Call me! LOL
How to know why husband doesnot communicate much?
My husband doesnot communicate and everythings if we need to assume its bit difficult and how to control those feelingsHow to know why husband doesnot communicate much?
We don't communicate the same way as women do. Are you a great listener? if not become one. If he feels you truly value what he has to say, and care about his emotions without judgment or fear of you saying ';honey, that is stupid'; then he will open up moreHow to know why husband doesnot communicate much?
Dear pal,
I'm going to tell you the truth about men and verbal communication. Men are not like women. You can't keep looking out your woman-is-the-standard window forever. SIXGUN spent the summer of his sixteenth year at a gold mine in northern Nevada with one other guy. We worked the mine, hunted game, and seldom spoke more than ten words in a day. It was a beautiful place to be young and rough鈥攆eral almost. No two women could do this, she'd have to talk, jabber, jabber until one killed the other.
Maybe your husband doesn't have too much to say. Maybe if you met him naked with a can of whipped cream he's warm up to you. Maybe if you were to ask him about his day, his day he might talk. Maybe if you sounded interested in his day without trying to one-up-him, with ';you think you had a rough day, the baby cried all day, my breasts are sore (what else are they ever, ever) my mother called and she said 鈥︹€︹€?quot; snore. See what I'm driving at?
WOMEN-
Please listen. 98% of men want this. Sorry, but, true. When he comes home he wants no noise or questions. Tell him that everyday when he gets home he will get 1.5 hours of quiet. However, when you sit down you want to know about his day. Listen - then tell him you want to tell him about your day.
There is more, but, this should be good for now.
He will tell you things - DONT force it. Try this....
But, men are communicators. Look at the President, politicians, news caster, talk shows, etc....... the world over. But for some, many close up at home. Some men feel as though they are above you with their conversational skills. Or, it's the type of communicating between male and female that involves emotion and they clam up. If you bring over a big chested tall blonde, I can bet he will talk to her!! Go figure.
Men are not as verbally in-tune as women, and some men really hate talking unless they have to. It sounds preachy, but try asking him about his day and try to take an interest in him. It's all in the approach; sound cheerful and interested. Men shut down as soon as they sense nagging or criticism.
You aren't communicating so well either.
Men aren't big communicators.
im never gettign marreid againhow to apply acne
We don't communicate the same way as women do. Are you a great listener? if not become one. If he feels you truly value what he has to say, and care about his emotions without judgment or fear of you saying ';honey, that is stupid'; then he will open up moreHow to know why husband doesnot communicate much?
Dear pal,
I'm going to tell you the truth about men and verbal communication. Men are not like women. You can't keep looking out your woman-is-the-standard window forever. SIXGUN spent the summer of his sixteenth year at a gold mine in northern Nevada with one other guy. We worked the mine, hunted game, and seldom spoke more than ten words in a day. It was a beautiful place to be young and rough鈥攆eral almost. No two women could do this, she'd have to talk, jabber, jabber until one killed the other.
Maybe your husband doesn't have too much to say. Maybe if you met him naked with a can of whipped cream he's warm up to you. Maybe if you were to ask him about his day, his day he might talk. Maybe if you sounded interested in his day without trying to one-up-him, with ';you think you had a rough day, the baby cried all day, my breasts are sore (what else are they ever, ever) my mother called and she said 鈥︹€︹€?quot; snore. See what I'm driving at?
WOMEN-
Please listen. 98% of men want this. Sorry, but, true. When he comes home he wants no noise or questions. Tell him that everyday when he gets home he will get 1.5 hours of quiet. However, when you sit down you want to know about his day. Listen - then tell him you want to tell him about your day.
There is more, but, this should be good for now.
He will tell you things - DONT force it. Try this....
But, men are communicators. Look at the President, politicians, news caster, talk shows, etc....... the world over. But for some, many close up at home. Some men feel as though they are above you with their conversational skills. Or, it's the type of communicating between male and female that involves emotion and they clam up. If you bring over a big chested tall blonde, I can bet he will talk to her!! Go figure.
Men are not as verbally in-tune as women, and some men really hate talking unless they have to. It sounds preachy, but try asking him about his day and try to take an interest in him. It's all in the approach; sound cheerful and interested. Men shut down as soon as they sense nagging or criticism.
You aren't communicating so well either.
Men aren't big communicators.
im never gettign marreid again
What are the rights of a muslim married woman if the husband passes away?
The country is saudi arabia.What are the rights of a muslim married woman if the husband passes away?
Sorry, but the words 'rights', 'muslim' and 'woman' don't belong in the same sentence.What are the rights of a muslim married woman if the husband passes away?
She has the right to cover her face and be raped by her family members whenever they feel like it
Do not take answer from women who do not even know their own country. Maybe somebody local can help you.
hah, you're funny. muslim women don't have any rights!
your still suppose to wear a viel over your face and muslims don't need any rights
Sorry, but the words 'rights', 'muslim' and 'woman' don't belong in the same sentence.What are the rights of a muslim married woman if the husband passes away?
She has the right to cover her face and be raped by her family members whenever they feel like it
Do not take answer from women who do not even know their own country. Maybe somebody local can help you.
hah, you're funny. muslim women don't have any rights!
your still suppose to wear a viel over your face and muslims don't need any rights
What to do my husband totally forgot today is my birthday!?
I am so angry and upset my husband completly forgot that today is my birthday! Maybe I am making too much of it I am 6 months pregnant also so emotions are on high. All I wanted was a happy Birthday or a card nothing extravegant. Should I be pissed?What to do my husband totally forgot today is my birthday!?
First off:
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaappy birthday to you
happy birthday to you...
I'd put his butt on a couch for a loooooooooong time.What to do my husband totally forgot today is my birthday!?
It does happen---he has a lot on his mind also--I mean he is probably worried about you and the baby also, and providing for you both.
So give him a big hug and tell him that you had a wonderful birthday you watch a great movie/went to the park/ had an ice cream cone--something and then tell him that he was great for not bothering you with phone calls on your birthday because you had a wonderful time---now mean this when you say it don't say it with anger or anything else in your voice. He will feel bad about it, don't let him. He will not forget again.
Yes you can be upset, but your marriage will be better off in the long run if you don't show it. I don't think men understand how sensitive a women can be over things like that. He may wake up one day and realize how insensitive he was and how lucky he is to have you, so don't show it and he will be the one to tell you how sorry he was and not you.
There has never been a greater gift to a man than a women and I'm sure your husband knows that, so don't be sad because he has a bad memory, I am sure he loves you more than you know. Happy Birthday
I don't blame you for being upset. I would definitely be hurt, angry, and befuddled as to how my husband could do that. However, are there any circumstances that may have distracted him or kept him from remembering? Sometimes when people are stressed, they can have a one-track mind. With that said, I would question him as to how/why he forgot and then I'd proceed to celebrate myself by purchasing something that I've been wanting. After all, your probably beautiful and glowing and deserve it. Happy Birthday! Hope your day is wonderful!!
Some guys really are not good with these sort of things. I suspect you haven't been married for very long.
Have you been giving him hints lately? Sometimes you have to give them hints. For about a week prior to the event that you want to be ';special';.
He probably feels terrible about it.
Let him off the hook.
In the future, if you want him to remember a special time for you, (anniversary, Valentine's, and YES, birthday!) give him reminders and hints for about a week before.
In fact, sometimes it's best if YOU just go ahead and tell them, ';I've been wanting to go to that new (restaurant, play, club, etc.), I thought maybe we could go on my birthday next week. I made us reservations for next (whatever day it is), OK?';
That's his cue to DO something, like NOT go bowling that night, or get home early from work, or get a card, whatever he needs to do.
Don't be too hard on him, some guys really just can't get the hang of it.
If I want my husband to make a big damn deal out of something, I practically have to set it up myself, but then, I've also been married for about 20 years now and I KNOW that he WILL forget, and he WILL feel terrible about it, and there is absolutely no point in my being disappointed about something that he really can't help. So, I make the reservations, he will usually remember to get some really great jewelry or something nice for me, a card at the very least, but usually something more.
So, you have to kinda know whether or not they have the capacity to pull off a good birthday or holiday for you. If they DON'T, please, PLEASE remember this: IT DOESN'T MEAN HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!! IT JUST MEANS HE'S BEING A GUY!!
Mmm'kay??
Sweetie ... men's brains are not wired the same way ours are. They aren't detail oriented, and they don't remember dates, addresses, phone numbers and other minutae as easily as we do.
Chances are that you didn't remind him - did you? If you didn't remind him, then PLEASE don't make a big fuss. Just tell him, ';John, honey, I know we've been busy lately getting ready for the baby, and I know I should have reminded you ... but today's my birthday. Can we do something tomorrow or this weekend to make up for it?'; If you handle it like a mature, grown-up instead of having a hissy fit, everything will be all better.
Having said that, I want to ask you if he's forgotten other dates in the past, like if this is typical behavior. If he does forget ... then it's no biggie. If he usually does NOT forget, then you might have to have a conversation but not getting all emotional about it. Granted, in your hormonally crazed state, this will be hard to do, but try try try. Men, when they see a woman crying, all they want is for it to stop, even if it's for a good reason. If it's for something they did, it's like adding insult to injury.
You should be upset, but not yelling/crying/hysterical. Unless you married a jerk, once you tell him that it was today, he will probably feel awful. Give him a chance to make it right.
Now, for future dates, get a calendar, and put it on the wall where he sees it every day. Circle important dates in red, and start kidding him about them weeks in advance. ';Hey, baby, our anniversary is in 84 days - what do you wanna do?'; ';Darling, my birthday is 22 weeks from next Thursday. What should we do';? That way, it's in his mind, but you're not harping on it ... you know what I mean? HOPEFULLY, he will laugh at himself.
*big hug* HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!!!!! *passing you some cake*
:D Best of luck and congrats on the baby !!
Just remind him. It alwayse seems worse when you're pregnant.
Everyone forgets dates every now and then. My own mother forgot my birthday once. My 15th. I lived with her. And I didn't even get wished a happy birthday until about 8:00 that night when she saw that I looked upset, and she asked what was wrong with me. No one else had remembered either, except for my father who happened to be out of state at the time, but had called to wish me a happy birthday. If mothers can forget, why not spouses? Things happen. I'm sorry he forgot your birthday
Happy birthday from me, for what its worth.
My wife always says there is no excuse for someone forgetting your Birthday - how did you let them forget?? She starts reminding us several weeks before hand. ';I wonder what we will do for my birthday';? Wow! It's only 2 weeks till my B'day';. etc etc. No excuse - you need to remind him.
Men think differently to women - it's not wrong, just different. That's why we fit together so nicely (when people accept the differences).
Happy Birthday!
Tell him. You're allowed to be mad. But if you wait for him to remember, it could be a week and you'll have spent that whole time mad.
Just give him a call, or if he's home, go up to him and say ';FYI it's my birthday. Did you forget? I'm ready for you to make it up to me';
He should feel awful about it. If he doesn't, he's a jerk.
pregnant or not there are just some things you don't forget in a marriage date wise . One your anniversary and two your spouses' bday. Cool down and then simply remind him by saying '; for my birthday i think we should go out to dinner'; don't throw it in his face but just remind him.
He can't help it that he forgot. If I were you I wouldn't say anything. I'm sorry he forgot your birthday but it's really n ot the end of the world. Don't you love your husband? Your having children with him so you must care about him. If you really love him then why be angry over this?
The day isn't over yet. I wouldn't say anything till tomorrow cuz then he can't suddenly pretend he had something planned - or you'll feel bad if he really does have something planned for tonight. If he never remembers...girl, let 'em have it! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!
You can be angry, but don't let it fester. Talk to him and tell him it hurt you. Ask him to take you out to dinner or do something special to make it up to you.
Go buy yourself something nice, some flowers or something. When he asks about it, just smile and sweetly say, ';SOMEONE had to remember my birthday, and since you couldn't be bothered, I did it';.
I'd be a little pissed loll! Don't fret ...the day's not over yet. If he doesn't say anything today...I'd be sure to remind him tomorrow! I wouldn't get that upset over it though. Guys...well they don't remember those dates like we do.
1st thing Happy Birthday :)
yes you shouls be pissed off, he would prob moan saying no1 loves me etc etc so yes you have a right to be pissed off!!!
yes he's your husband and he should remember theses special things.
Happy B-Day by the way:)
it happens...... just remind him... and see what happens.
hell ******* yes....how could he forget that the mother of his soon to be child....birthday was a fool!!! curse him out.
better pissed off than pissed on,
First off:
haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaappy birthday to you
happy birthday to you...
I'd put his butt on a couch for a loooooooooong time.What to do my husband totally forgot today is my birthday!?
It does happen---he has a lot on his mind also--I mean he is probably worried about you and the baby also, and providing for you both.
So give him a big hug and tell him that you had a wonderful birthday you watch a great movie/went to the park/ had an ice cream cone--something and then tell him that he was great for not bothering you with phone calls on your birthday because you had a wonderful time---now mean this when you say it don't say it with anger or anything else in your voice. He will feel bad about it, don't let him. He will not forget again.
Yes you can be upset, but your marriage will be better off in the long run if you don't show it. I don't think men understand how sensitive a women can be over things like that. He may wake up one day and realize how insensitive he was and how lucky he is to have you, so don't show it and he will be the one to tell you how sorry he was and not you.
There has never been a greater gift to a man than a women and I'm sure your husband knows that, so don't be sad because he has a bad memory, I am sure he loves you more than you know. Happy Birthday
I don't blame you for being upset. I would definitely be hurt, angry, and befuddled as to how my husband could do that. However, are there any circumstances that may have distracted him or kept him from remembering? Sometimes when people are stressed, they can have a one-track mind. With that said, I would question him as to how/why he forgot and then I'd proceed to celebrate myself by purchasing something that I've been wanting. After all, your probably beautiful and glowing and deserve it. Happy Birthday! Hope your day is wonderful!!
Some guys really are not good with these sort of things. I suspect you haven't been married for very long.
Have you been giving him hints lately? Sometimes you have to give them hints. For about a week prior to the event that you want to be ';special';.
He probably feels terrible about it.
Let him off the hook.
In the future, if you want him to remember a special time for you, (anniversary, Valentine's, and YES, birthday!) give him reminders and hints for about a week before.
In fact, sometimes it's best if YOU just go ahead and tell them, ';I've been wanting to go to that new (restaurant, play, club, etc.), I thought maybe we could go on my birthday next week. I made us reservations for next (whatever day it is), OK?';
That's his cue to DO something, like NOT go bowling that night, or get home early from work, or get a card, whatever he needs to do.
Don't be too hard on him, some guys really just can't get the hang of it.
If I want my husband to make a big damn deal out of something, I practically have to set it up myself, but then, I've also been married for about 20 years now and I KNOW that he WILL forget, and he WILL feel terrible about it, and there is absolutely no point in my being disappointed about something that he really can't help. So, I make the reservations, he will usually remember to get some really great jewelry or something nice for me, a card at the very least, but usually something more.
So, you have to kinda know whether or not they have the capacity to pull off a good birthday or holiday for you. If they DON'T, please, PLEASE remember this: IT DOESN'T MEAN HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!! IT JUST MEANS HE'S BEING A GUY!!
Mmm'kay??
Sweetie ... men's brains are not wired the same way ours are. They aren't detail oriented, and they don't remember dates, addresses, phone numbers and other minutae as easily as we do.
Chances are that you didn't remind him - did you? If you didn't remind him, then PLEASE don't make a big fuss. Just tell him, ';John, honey, I know we've been busy lately getting ready for the baby, and I know I should have reminded you ... but today's my birthday. Can we do something tomorrow or this weekend to make up for it?'; If you handle it like a mature, grown-up instead of having a hissy fit, everything will be all better.
Having said that, I want to ask you if he's forgotten other dates in the past, like if this is typical behavior. If he does forget ... then it's no biggie. If he usually does NOT forget, then you might have to have a conversation but not getting all emotional about it. Granted, in your hormonally crazed state, this will be hard to do, but try try try. Men, when they see a woman crying, all they want is for it to stop, even if it's for a good reason. If it's for something they did, it's like adding insult to injury.
You should be upset, but not yelling/crying/hysterical. Unless you married a jerk, once you tell him that it was today, he will probably feel awful. Give him a chance to make it right.
Now, for future dates, get a calendar, and put it on the wall where he sees it every day. Circle important dates in red, and start kidding him about them weeks in advance. ';Hey, baby, our anniversary is in 84 days - what do you wanna do?'; ';Darling, my birthday is 22 weeks from next Thursday. What should we do';? That way, it's in his mind, but you're not harping on it ... you know what I mean? HOPEFULLY, he will laugh at himself.
*big hug* HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!!!!! *passing you some cake*
:D Best of luck and congrats on the baby !!
Just remind him. It alwayse seems worse when you're pregnant.
Everyone forgets dates every now and then. My own mother forgot my birthday once. My 15th. I lived with her. And I didn't even get wished a happy birthday until about 8:00 that night when she saw that I looked upset, and she asked what was wrong with me. No one else had remembered either, except for my father who happened to be out of state at the time, but had called to wish me a happy birthday. If mothers can forget, why not spouses? Things happen. I'm sorry he forgot your birthday
Happy birthday from me, for what its worth.
My wife always says there is no excuse for someone forgetting your Birthday - how did you let them forget?? She starts reminding us several weeks before hand. ';I wonder what we will do for my birthday';? Wow! It's only 2 weeks till my B'day';. etc etc. No excuse - you need to remind him.
Men think differently to women - it's not wrong, just different. That's why we fit together so nicely (when people accept the differences).
Happy Birthday!
Tell him. You're allowed to be mad. But if you wait for him to remember, it could be a week and you'll have spent that whole time mad.
Just give him a call, or if he's home, go up to him and say ';FYI it's my birthday. Did you forget? I'm ready for you to make it up to me';
He should feel awful about it. If he doesn't, he's a jerk.
pregnant or not there are just some things you don't forget in a marriage date wise . One your anniversary and two your spouses' bday. Cool down and then simply remind him by saying '; for my birthday i think we should go out to dinner'; don't throw it in his face but just remind him.
He can't help it that he forgot. If I were you I wouldn't say anything. I'm sorry he forgot your birthday but it's really n ot the end of the world. Don't you love your husband? Your having children with him so you must care about him. If you really love him then why be angry over this?
The day isn't over yet. I wouldn't say anything till tomorrow cuz then he can't suddenly pretend he had something planned - or you'll feel bad if he really does have something planned for tonight. If he never remembers...girl, let 'em have it! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!
You can be angry, but don't let it fester. Talk to him and tell him it hurt you. Ask him to take you out to dinner or do something special to make it up to you.
Go buy yourself something nice, some flowers or something. When he asks about it, just smile and sweetly say, ';SOMEONE had to remember my birthday, and since you couldn't be bothered, I did it';.
I'd be a little pissed loll! Don't fret ...the day's not over yet. If he doesn't say anything today...I'd be sure to remind him tomorrow! I wouldn't get that upset over it though. Guys...well they don't remember those dates like we do.
1st thing Happy Birthday :)
yes you shouls be pissed off, he would prob moan saying no1 loves me etc etc so yes you have a right to be pissed off!!!
yes he's your husband and he should remember theses special things.
Happy B-Day by the way:)
it happens...... just remind him... and see what happens.
hell ******* yes....how could he forget that the mother of his soon to be child....birthday was a fool!!! curse him out.
better pissed off than pissed on,
How long can your Husband to stare at another women before you get upset, what do you say?
lets you are out shopping
and he sees a pretty women
how long is it ok to look
before you get upset?How long can your Husband to stare at another women before you get upset, what do you say?
2 seconds tops! I say, ';take a picture, it lasts longer!';How long can your Husband to stare at another women before you get upset, what do you say?
Anything more than a lingering glance is disrespect to me and to her. Unless she's some kind of knock-out beauty and we're both staring just because you don't see people like that everyday!
I wouldn't get upset about it, but I used to say to my second husband, ';so, is she going to be washing your skidmark underwear from now on instead of me?'; Crude, yes. But it sure brought him back to reality.
Men admire beauty. But if he oogling over her than get in his eye sight quick. If he's looking for too long you'll know it and he'll remember he's not supposed to do that. And for the love of humanity DO NOT ';MOM'; HIM. Or he'll just rebel like a SON and it could lead to worse things. Think of the men you look at. And then think of what he's doing. It's just a normal thing.
lol im not that insecure either.to me it would be a problem if she was flirting with him and he was egging he on.My man doesnt really even do more than a quick glance unless she barely got any clothes on or has boobs hanging on.Then he usually looks for a sec and moves on before I say ****! if I looked like that Id be covering that **** up ;)
Isn't it amazing that only the women on Answers don't care?
LOL!
All the women on Answers are totally 110% secure and look like Victoria's Secret Models and give BJ's to their husbands wearing a sexy costumes every day....
LOL!!!
10 seconds, think about it staring at a stranger 10 seconds is long enough, i dont get upset i just dont like it.
Valerie you're so right, the wives on here are so ''secure,'' yeah right. they all KNOW he wouldnt ever do anything, lol
He has never stared at anyone. Looking is fine, we both do it. You notice people and I think that it is natural. Starring on the other hand is rude to you and to her.
If women did not want men to look, why do women spend so much money on make up, hair color, clothes...........
Have fun with your husband instead of getting mad for enjoying the view of a pretty woman.
I have actually never seen my husband stare at another woman and out of respect for him I try my best not to stare at an attractive man
If he says it to me once or twice i dont mind because i trust him a lot ... I know he finds me the prettiest of the whole lot in the world ...
And u know he knows i trust him a lot so its ok ....
When His neck has to turn all the way around . Its funny because when there is an attractive guy , women don't even look and men are already saying what you looking at .
I'm not that insecure - just because ones on a diet doesn't mean they can't ogle the menu -
This of course goes both ways - he doesn't seem to mind either
Forever. I could care less if he looks at a pretty woman in the mall. I'm quite secure in our relationship.
My wife would say ';He can stare as long as he wants if he doesn't mind the kick in the balls that he's about to get.';
a quick glance and that's it,
anything longer than that is disrespectful to me and the poor woman he's staring at.
Probably about 30 seconds. He can look and admire, but he cannot gawk.
men will men, but when around you they should not stare. It's about respect! You should tell him how you feel.
A glance is okay. Attractive people are hard to miss. But STARING is not acceptable.
I just ignore it and go on with my business. I point out hotties for him sometimes we look together. I don't care.
My boyfriend can look all he wants, just can't touch. LOL
I ask him...who is the bigger boob, you or her left one...
Thank god for sunglasses!...lol..am I right?!
and he sees a pretty women
how long is it ok to look
before you get upset?How long can your Husband to stare at another women before you get upset, what do you say?
2 seconds tops! I say, ';take a picture, it lasts longer!';How long can your Husband to stare at another women before you get upset, what do you say?
Anything more than a lingering glance is disrespect to me and to her. Unless she's some kind of knock-out beauty and we're both staring just because you don't see people like that everyday!
I wouldn't get upset about it, but I used to say to my second husband, ';so, is she going to be washing your skidmark underwear from now on instead of me?'; Crude, yes. But it sure brought him back to reality.
Men admire beauty. But if he oogling over her than get in his eye sight quick. If he's looking for too long you'll know it and he'll remember he's not supposed to do that. And for the love of humanity DO NOT ';MOM'; HIM. Or he'll just rebel like a SON and it could lead to worse things. Think of the men you look at. And then think of what he's doing. It's just a normal thing.
lol im not that insecure either.to me it would be a problem if she was flirting with him and he was egging he on.My man doesnt really even do more than a quick glance unless she barely got any clothes on or has boobs hanging on.Then he usually looks for a sec and moves on before I say ****! if I looked like that Id be covering that **** up ;)
Isn't it amazing that only the women on Answers don't care?
LOL!
All the women on Answers are totally 110% secure and look like Victoria's Secret Models and give BJ's to their husbands wearing a sexy costumes every day....
LOL!!!
10 seconds, think about it staring at a stranger 10 seconds is long enough, i dont get upset i just dont like it.
Valerie you're so right, the wives on here are so ''secure,'' yeah right. they all KNOW he wouldnt ever do anything, lol
He has never stared at anyone. Looking is fine, we both do it. You notice people and I think that it is natural. Starring on the other hand is rude to you and to her.
If women did not want men to look, why do women spend so much money on make up, hair color, clothes...........
Have fun with your husband instead of getting mad for enjoying the view of a pretty woman.
I have actually never seen my husband stare at another woman and out of respect for him I try my best not to stare at an attractive man
If he says it to me once or twice i dont mind because i trust him a lot ... I know he finds me the prettiest of the whole lot in the world ...
And u know he knows i trust him a lot so its ok ....
When His neck has to turn all the way around . Its funny because when there is an attractive guy , women don't even look and men are already saying what you looking at .
I'm not that insecure - just because ones on a diet doesn't mean they can't ogle the menu -
This of course goes both ways - he doesn't seem to mind either
Forever. I could care less if he looks at a pretty woman in the mall. I'm quite secure in our relationship.
My wife would say ';He can stare as long as he wants if he doesn't mind the kick in the balls that he's about to get.';
a quick glance and that's it,
anything longer than that is disrespectful to me and the poor woman he's staring at.
Probably about 30 seconds. He can look and admire, but he cannot gawk.
men will men, but when around you they should not stare. It's about respect! You should tell him how you feel.
A glance is okay. Attractive people are hard to miss. But STARING is not acceptable.
I just ignore it and go on with my business. I point out hotties for him sometimes we look together. I don't care.
My boyfriend can look all he wants, just can't touch. LOL
I ask him...who is the bigger boob, you or her left one...
Thank god for sunglasses!...lol..am I right?!
How can I transfer parental rights from my ex to my husband without lawyers?
I'm trying to find the easiest way to do this (and least exspensive). Short version: my ex took off when he found out I was pregnant and said he wanted nothing to do with the baby. My husband and I then started dating and he has been ';the dad'; for the entire pregnancy and first year and half of her life. We want to have all legal rights signed over form the ';biological'; father (who is very willing to do it) to my husband, so when we have the money he can officially adopt her.How can I transfer parental rights from my ex to my husband without lawyers?
You cannot transfer parental rights from one person to another without an adoption. And, if your ex will consent to it, it doesn't cost a lot of money. Just talk to a lawyer to see what needs to be done and get an estimate of what it will cost.
Also, think of it this way: What is best for the child? If having your husband adopt her is the best, then find the money to do it. You may have to sacrifice a few things, but if it is the best thing for your child, it is worth the sacrifice.
.How can I transfer parental rights from my ex to my husband without lawyers?
I believe your current husband would have to adopt the child before any rights are transferred. The bio-father can give up his rights simply by not having anything to do with the child.
I would strongly recommend that you have an attorney do this for you. I would not want to have to explain to the child that the adoption got messed up and this other guy is your real father because of a paperwork error.
I know lawyers are expensive, but worth every penny to make these important events happen the way they are supposed to happen.
This is a tough question to deal with... in the state I live in (Virginia) a parent cannot sign his rights away unless there is another party willing to step in i.e. adopt the child. What you're saying is doing something prior to the adoption which at least where I live, doesn't exist.
You need to contact an attorney. Many attorney's offer a free consultation. If it's free, you're spending no money and just a little of your time instead. It is worth it for your child.
The relinquishment of rights and adoption can take place at the same time. Both require you to file legal documents with the court. If your ex is willing to cooperate with the adoption the process should not be too expensive. Most lawyers will give you an initial consultation free of charge. AT that time (or shortly after) they can tell you how much the whole process will cost.
As long as the biological father is willing to sign away his parental rights, there should be no issue. However, you do need to file papers with the courts. Go to the courthouse and see if these are forms you can file without representation by an attorney.
You can't you need a lawyer at all cost its safer everything needs to be made legal!
Transfer parental rights? Why not just take the kid down to the auction house and sell him off?
It doesn't work that way, sister.
You cannot transfer parental rights from one person to another without an adoption. And, if your ex will consent to it, it doesn't cost a lot of money. Just talk to a lawyer to see what needs to be done and get an estimate of what it will cost.
Also, think of it this way: What is best for the child? If having your husband adopt her is the best, then find the money to do it. You may have to sacrifice a few things, but if it is the best thing for your child, it is worth the sacrifice.
.How can I transfer parental rights from my ex to my husband without lawyers?
I believe your current husband would have to adopt the child before any rights are transferred. The bio-father can give up his rights simply by not having anything to do with the child.
I would strongly recommend that you have an attorney do this for you. I would not want to have to explain to the child that the adoption got messed up and this other guy is your real father because of a paperwork error.
I know lawyers are expensive, but worth every penny to make these important events happen the way they are supposed to happen.
This is a tough question to deal with... in the state I live in (Virginia) a parent cannot sign his rights away unless there is another party willing to step in i.e. adopt the child. What you're saying is doing something prior to the adoption which at least where I live, doesn't exist.
You need to contact an attorney. Many attorney's offer a free consultation. If it's free, you're spending no money and just a little of your time instead. It is worth it for your child.
The relinquishment of rights and adoption can take place at the same time. Both require you to file legal documents with the court. If your ex is willing to cooperate with the adoption the process should not be too expensive. Most lawyers will give you an initial consultation free of charge. AT that time (or shortly after) they can tell you how much the whole process will cost.
As long as the biological father is willing to sign away his parental rights, there should be no issue. However, you do need to file papers with the courts. Go to the courthouse and see if these are forms you can file without representation by an attorney.
You can't you need a lawyer at all cost its safer everything needs to be made legal!
Transfer parental rights? Why not just take the kid down to the auction house and sell him off?
It doesn't work that way, sister.
What to send my husband serving in Iraq for his B-day?
He has been there for about a month and a half, and doesnt ask for anything. He has access to a BX to buy essentials, and also movies and other media things for cheap. I want to send him something special to let him know I am thinking of him, but cant think of anything. Any good ideas?What to send my husband serving in Iraq for his B-day?
send naughty pictures of you, in cute outfits. you don't need to be naked.What to send my husband serving in Iraq for his B-day?
My husband is deployed as well, so first of all thank you and him especially. It's hard!
As far as care packages I love to do themed care packages. For birthdays here are some ideas..
*Cake in a jar-http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Cake-in-a-J鈥?/a>
*Little Debbies Cakes
*Confetti
*Hard candy-wrap in wrapping paper (so he has something to open)
*Box of candles
*Birthday cards signed from family members
*Plates- Birthday plates
*Etc.
Decorate the inside of the box.. go to the scrapbook store and glue it to the inside of the box. Oh, and find little games and things from the dollar store!
Best of luck!
Here are some pics of ideas :)
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sending maybe a nice photo of yourself to him, send stuff that isnt essential possible his fav candy bar or something, maybe a voice recorded message telling him how much you miss him that would be nice cards are cool an all but a voice message is just so much better, tho I dunno how you would do that :P thats all I can think of :3
I'd have a professional photograph taken of yourself (and any children, if you have any) and send the family portrait to him in a nice unbreakable frame to keep with him.
Tons of goodies. Bake him homemade cookies and a cake. Bday card. Get a group card and have all his family and friends sign it.
if he likes your cooking which i assume he does of course send him cookies and stuff plus some naughty things to remind him of you and something made by your kids if you have them ;
a bag of pretzels, some cheese-wiz, Ritz crackers, a pair of frilly panties, and a picture....
Write him a love letter on a pillow case and spray it with perfume....he'll have a nice place to lay his head at night. :)
How about a book on morals and how initiating violence is bad. Well then again you may be force the initiating violence against people, but if you are not, go to youtube.com and the video called ' A handout for statists ' by stefbot.
Honestly, I wouldn't send him anything more than a card or something you wouldn't mind getting lost. Lets face it, if it does get lost over there, its gone.
send naughty pictures of you, in cute outfits. you don't need to be naked.What to send my husband serving in Iraq for his B-day?
My husband is deployed as well, so first of all thank you and him especially. It's hard!
As far as care packages I love to do themed care packages. For birthdays here are some ideas..
*Cake in a jar-http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Cake-in-a-J鈥?/a>
*Little Debbies Cakes
*Confetti
*Hard candy-wrap in wrapping paper (so he has something to open)
*Box of candles
*Birthday cards signed from family members
*Plates- Birthday plates
*Etc.
Decorate the inside of the box.. go to the scrapbook store and glue it to the inside of the box. Oh, and find little games and things from the dollar store!
Best of luck!
Here are some pics of ideas :)
http://www.militarysos.com/forum/showthr鈥?/a>
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sending maybe a nice photo of yourself to him, send stuff that isnt essential possible his fav candy bar or something, maybe a voice recorded message telling him how much you miss him that would be nice cards are cool an all but a voice message is just so much better, tho I dunno how you would do that :P thats all I can think of :3
I'd have a professional photograph taken of yourself (and any children, if you have any) and send the family portrait to him in a nice unbreakable frame to keep with him.
Tons of goodies. Bake him homemade cookies and a cake. Bday card. Get a group card and have all his family and friends sign it.
if he likes your cooking which i assume he does of course send him cookies and stuff plus some naughty things to remind him of you and something made by your kids if you have them ;
a bag of pretzels, some cheese-wiz, Ritz crackers, a pair of frilly panties, and a picture....
Write him a love letter on a pillow case and spray it with perfume....he'll have a nice place to lay his head at night. :)
How about a book on morals and how initiating violence is bad. Well then again you may be force the initiating violence against people, but if you are not, go to youtube.com and the video called ' A handout for statists ' by stefbot.
Honestly, I wouldn't send him anything more than a card or something you wouldn't mind getting lost. Lets face it, if it does get lost over there, its gone.
Can you get pregnant after you had a tubal and your husband had a vasectomy?
This may seem crazy, but i had a tubal three years ago and my husband had a vasectomy 20 years ago. I am now wondering if I am pregnant. I have missed one period. I am eating like a horse, extremely tired, breasts are swollen and sore, stomach seems bloated....does anyone know of this happening?Can you get pregnant after you had a tubal and your husband had a vasectomy?
i think so not really sure but i know vasectomies can reverse themselves not too sure about tubals you might want to check with your doctor and use protection if you wanna be extra safe.Can you get pregnant after you had a tubal and your husband had a vasectomy?
Yes, a vasectomy and a tubal ligation are not 100% effective. The only things that are is castration and removal of the ovaries. So it is possible. I don't know of anybody who has had both and gotten pregnant, but I know of vasectomy and tubal cases that have had pregnacies separately. I guess if you put the two together it is possible.
YOU CAN'T DENY FATE!
I recommend that you use a pregnancy test to be sure. Older vasectomy procedures may involve the tying of the vas deferens (the spermatic cord that delivers sperm during ejaculation), which is not 100% (usually about 85% success rate at preventing future pregnancies).
Regardless of the test result, I would still recommend that you go see a doctor ASAP!
I do not think you can get pregnant after he had a vasectomy, but there is a small chance that he could have produced one or two sperms. Although out of 1,000,000 sperms a baby is produced, you never really know. Try taking a pregnancy test, or just simply see a doctor.
It is extremely rare (especially since you both got it done), but it can happen. Take a pregnancy test to find out for sure.
My aunt got pregnant after my uncle had a vasectomy... and yes, she is his.
EDIT: Both are around 99% effective, but there is always that 1%.
ITS HIGHLY UNLIKELY BUT POSSIBLE. YOU HAVE ALL THE SYMPTOMS OF PREGNANY, THIS COULD BE BECAUSE YOU ARE WORRIED BOUT BEING PREGNANT SO WORRIED THAT YOUR BODY IS SHOWING ALL THE SIGNS. DON'T UNDERESTIMATE HOW STRONG OUR UNCONCIOUS CAN BE! THE OTHER OPTION IS THAT YOU ARE PREGNANT. HAVE A HOME PREGNANY TEST DONE AND GO SEE YOUR DR!
It is possible. But very, very, very, unlikely. Your body may have a chemical imbalance that has made your body think it is pregnant. This is much more likely the case.
When I had my vasectomy, my doctor warned me that there have been cases where the vas deferens healed itself. So as remote as it may seem, it is possible.
It lowers the risk by a lot. But it's still possible to get pregnant. There is no true fool prove method of sexual protection. Only abstinence works 100%.
I know someone that had their tubes tied and got pregnant because it wasn't done properly. It's possible, but a tube tie AND a vasectomy would make it really slim.
it's extremely extremely rare but i've heard it happening
you have sex with the phone too much,just kidding,no idea,but it is unlikely,(not impossible),unlikely.
It would be very very unlikely. Are you sure you aren't just going threw menopause.
umm no you can't
it is possible that it can self correct itsself. ik a few ppl its happened to. nd it does sound like u r pregnant. if so...congrats!!!
SEE A DOCTOR! why are u asking people on yahoo who have no medical experience?
do u want to hear a yes to ur question?! cuz thats wat people are gonna say
It could happen, but the chances of it are very small
Yes it is rare but it does happen.
id say that anything is possible.... i have heard of it happening
i didnt know that it was possible but anything can happen try going to the doctor
some people of the worst of luck...get a pregnancy test
did you do it with another man?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
hmm...
could be u never know..how to apply acne
i think so not really sure but i know vasectomies can reverse themselves not too sure about tubals you might want to check with your doctor and use protection if you wanna be extra safe.Can you get pregnant after you had a tubal and your husband had a vasectomy?
Yes, a vasectomy and a tubal ligation are not 100% effective. The only things that are is castration and removal of the ovaries. So it is possible. I don't know of anybody who has had both and gotten pregnant, but I know of vasectomy and tubal cases that have had pregnacies separately. I guess if you put the two together it is possible.
YOU CAN'T DENY FATE!
I recommend that you use a pregnancy test to be sure. Older vasectomy procedures may involve the tying of the vas deferens (the spermatic cord that delivers sperm during ejaculation), which is not 100% (usually about 85% success rate at preventing future pregnancies).
Regardless of the test result, I would still recommend that you go see a doctor ASAP!
I do not think you can get pregnant after he had a vasectomy, but there is a small chance that he could have produced one or two sperms. Although out of 1,000,000 sperms a baby is produced, you never really know. Try taking a pregnancy test, or just simply see a doctor.
It is extremely rare (especially since you both got it done), but it can happen. Take a pregnancy test to find out for sure.
My aunt got pregnant after my uncle had a vasectomy... and yes, she is his.
EDIT: Both are around 99% effective, but there is always that 1%.
ITS HIGHLY UNLIKELY BUT POSSIBLE. YOU HAVE ALL THE SYMPTOMS OF PREGNANY, THIS COULD BE BECAUSE YOU ARE WORRIED BOUT BEING PREGNANT SO WORRIED THAT YOUR BODY IS SHOWING ALL THE SIGNS. DON'T UNDERESTIMATE HOW STRONG OUR UNCONCIOUS CAN BE! THE OTHER OPTION IS THAT YOU ARE PREGNANT. HAVE A HOME PREGNANY TEST DONE AND GO SEE YOUR DR!
It is possible. But very, very, very, unlikely. Your body may have a chemical imbalance that has made your body think it is pregnant. This is much more likely the case.
When I had my vasectomy, my doctor warned me that there have been cases where the vas deferens healed itself. So as remote as it may seem, it is possible.
It lowers the risk by a lot. But it's still possible to get pregnant. There is no true fool prove method of sexual protection. Only abstinence works 100%.
I know someone that had their tubes tied and got pregnant because it wasn't done properly. It's possible, but a tube tie AND a vasectomy would make it really slim.
it's extremely extremely rare but i've heard it happening
you have sex with the phone too much,just kidding,no idea,but it is unlikely,(not impossible),unlikely.
It would be very very unlikely. Are you sure you aren't just going threw menopause.
umm no you can't
it is possible that it can self correct itsself. ik a few ppl its happened to. nd it does sound like u r pregnant. if so...congrats!!!
SEE A DOCTOR! why are u asking people on yahoo who have no medical experience?
do u want to hear a yes to ur question?! cuz thats wat people are gonna say
It could happen, but the chances of it are very small
Yes it is rare but it does happen.
id say that anything is possible.... i have heard of it happening
i didnt know that it was possible but anything can happen try going to the doctor
some people of the worst of luck...get a pregnancy test
did you do it with another man?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
hmm...
could be u never know..
Why Is finding a husband difficult for some women?
For some of us It seams so hard to find a guy who want to marry and settle. Why?Why Is finding a husband difficult for some women?
you are looking in the wrong places...stop looking and let it find you.Why Is finding a husband difficult for some women?
Depends. What are your circumstances? What are you like as a person? There are a lot of variables that go into the equation of love. If you are bipolar or have borderline personality disorder, then I can speak for myself in saying that I definitely wouldn't marry you-been there done that, and it wasn't pretty. Most men feel the same way. Do you push people away? You need to give more information for me to answer your question. Oh and for the record I don't have anything against bipolar women, I just would never marry one again. NEVER, EVER!
Maybe you seem like you want marriage too much? I know if I was a guy and it seemed like the woman I was dating was having a case of the bio clock going off I would feel like her interest in me had more to do with her desire for a white dress than me personally.
I think too many people are pre-occupied with the act of getting married, and they don't stop to think that it drives away potential partners.
IDK....I married at 38, and kissed more than my share of frogs before I met my prince. The thing we me, though, was that I wasn't nearly as interested in being married as I was with being with the right man for me. I never wanted to be one of those miserable but married women. What's the point in that?
I used to think the same thing about just finding a guy that would care about me. Now I realize that he was with me all along. Trying to reach me. Don't look, he may already be right by your side.
Its very simple. When a person tries too hard to find the right person, they can not find them. If you relax, the right person will come when you least expect.
I think every woman ponders this question as least once in their lifetime. I really wish I had a good response for you.
you are looking in the wrong places...stop looking and let it find you.Why Is finding a husband difficult for some women?
Depends. What are your circumstances? What are you like as a person? There are a lot of variables that go into the equation of love. If you are bipolar or have borderline personality disorder, then I can speak for myself in saying that I definitely wouldn't marry you-been there done that, and it wasn't pretty. Most men feel the same way. Do you push people away? You need to give more information for me to answer your question. Oh and for the record I don't have anything against bipolar women, I just would never marry one again. NEVER, EVER!
Maybe you seem like you want marriage too much? I know if I was a guy and it seemed like the woman I was dating was having a case of the bio clock going off I would feel like her interest in me had more to do with her desire for a white dress than me personally.
I think too many people are pre-occupied with the act of getting married, and they don't stop to think that it drives away potential partners.
IDK....I married at 38, and kissed more than my share of frogs before I met my prince. The thing we me, though, was that I wasn't nearly as interested in being married as I was with being with the right man for me. I never wanted to be one of those miserable but married women. What's the point in that?
I used to think the same thing about just finding a guy that would care about me. Now I realize that he was with me all along. Trying to reach me. Don't look, he may already be right by your side.
Its very simple. When a person tries too hard to find the right person, they can not find them. If you relax, the right person will come when you least expect.
I think every woman ponders this question as least once in their lifetime. I really wish I had a good response for you.
Question Nine: What time should you go to bed if your husband goes to bed at eight pm?
Do you go to bed with him, so that you can spend time with him, or do you stay up super late and make as much noise as possible?Question Nine: What time should you go to bed if your husband goes to bed at eight pm?
go to bed with him. I want some hanky panky.Question Nine: What time should you go to bed if your husband goes to bed at eight pm?
I would be worried if he was in bed by eight. I usually fall asleep before him, while he's playing video games. But if he were to go to bed super early I would join him.
My hubby is in the sack watching tv as long as he is at home so I stay up pretty late, but, don't make too much noise in hopes that he is getting some sleep.
It is always so enduring when the noise goes on and on.
I'd go to bed with him, unless it was because he wasn't feeling well and just wanted to be left alone.
I go to bed whenever I feel like it.
my Fiance and I go to bed at the same time there is no way I would let him go to our bed with out being with him EVER unless he was sick and I am not
11 make him wait for it!! ;)
go to bed with him. I want some hanky panky.Question Nine: What time should you go to bed if your husband goes to bed at eight pm?
I would be worried if he was in bed by eight. I usually fall asleep before him, while he's playing video games. But if he were to go to bed super early I would join him.
My hubby is in the sack watching tv as long as he is at home so I stay up pretty late, but, don't make too much noise in hopes that he is getting some sleep.
It is always so enduring when the noise goes on and on.
I'd go to bed with him, unless it was because he wasn't feeling well and just wanted to be left alone.
I go to bed whenever I feel like it.
my Fiance and I go to bed at the same time there is no way I would let him go to our bed with out being with him EVER unless he was sick and I am not
11 make him wait for it!! ;)
I have a 1990 Acura Integra that shut off while my husband was driving. What could be the problem?
My husband was driving in our neighborhood when the car just shut off. It turns over, but won't start. The lights work on it. My husband thinks it might be the fuel pump. Could this be the problem or should we look for another problem before we replace the fuel pump? If so, where should we start?I have a 1990 Acura Integra that shut off while my husband was driving. What could be the problem?
I m not a car expert, but that car is extremely old. Its 20 year anniversary is coming soon. The car is dying on you. Find a auto mechanic first before doing anything, See how much it cost to fix the car, Cause sometimes its better not to fix the car, since its so old, once you fix it; there's a high likely chance something else goes broken.I have a 1990 Acura Integra that shut off while my husband was driving. What could be the problem?
Could also be a broken timing belt, among many other things.
Sounds like a place to start.
I m not a car expert, but that car is extremely old. Its 20 year anniversary is coming soon. The car is dying on you. Find a auto mechanic first before doing anything, See how much it cost to fix the car, Cause sometimes its better not to fix the car, since its so old, once you fix it; there's a high likely chance something else goes broken.I have a 1990 Acura Integra that shut off while my husband was driving. What could be the problem?
Could also be a broken timing belt, among many other things.
Sounds like a place to start.
Do you believe the husband should have the final say in marriage decisions?
Since two people can make decisions that cancel out each other, there must always be one who has the final say. The bible says this is the husband (as long as the decision isn't to commit a sin).Do you believe the husband should have the final say in marriage decisions?
yes
mark kDo you believe the husband should have the final say in marriage decisions?
The bible also says that a slave should obey his master. Should he or shouldn't he? We live in different times my friend. The bible also says that a man should love his wife as Christ loved the church. If a man is expecting obedience without giving his wife unconditional love then how can a woman obey him? Everything must be taken into context. Compromise is what works these days.
Ummm gee let me think. You are ok with me paying half the bills, getting to orgasum half as often as you and doing all the house work. I think I probley deserve at least equal say.
As it has been explained to me it isn't that the husband always has final say. The husband isn't Lord and master. God made woman from a man's rib so she would always be near his heart.
It is more...';hey honey listen...there is a tiger in the back yard. He looks hungry and I think he might eat you or the kids so you stay here Iam going to go fight him...with a stick';
That women are suppose to listen to. A penis isn't a magic wand that gives correct responses. If it was my EX husband would have had the correct answer to questions like ';should I run up my wife's visa?'; '; Is it ok for me to sleep with the neighbor girl?' and many many others. Thanks for sharing. NEXT CALLER we are talking to Bob from Minnesota.
I think it really depends on how important it is. If its whats for dinner, or something lame one of the people in the marriage shouldn't be petty and just give in. If its going to be something serious, there needs to be a compromise.
Nope. I believe that a husband and wife are a team, neither one superior to the other at all. They can work things out and find a way that they are both happy with the decision.
No I don't think so but it doesn't matter I will never get married because it's a load of crap. I am fine on my own. I own everything I need and I have an amazing career I don't need a man living off me.
wait, where does the bible say that? can u find it for me and show me? i do NOT think that the guy should have the final say. u gotta give a little to get a little. COMPROMISE!
hahahaha! u have 22 points! thats hilarious!!!! hehe, im jk :D ily %26lt;333
No....in my marriage we're each better at different things.
So we let the person who knows the most about that particular thing have the final say.
Marriage should be equal.....and I don't believe in the Bible
Both parties should be involved in the decision process.
He can have the final say, but compromise goes a long ways towards making a healthy partnership.
no, sometimes he can be a dumass and not have the smartest decisions lol
its true though.
some men just lack common sence lol
I said it depends on the decision thats being made.
depends... the most logical thing would be to let the one with the best judgement have the final word
no, mutual agreement!
only if he likes sleeping on the couch. After a while he might end up half his stuff.
no, it should be a split decision.
Not in my house. I always have the final say.
No, I think there is always a compromise.
No. Ever heard of compromise? Yeah..really..that's something people do when both parties are in disagreement.
No i do not
Yes
This is gonna be some fun readin.....
Ye I agree with the bible while being a woman ..
lol I'm going to wet myself.
yes
mark kDo you believe the husband should have the final say in marriage decisions?
The bible also says that a slave should obey his master. Should he or shouldn't he? We live in different times my friend. The bible also says that a man should love his wife as Christ loved the church. If a man is expecting obedience without giving his wife unconditional love then how can a woman obey him? Everything must be taken into context. Compromise is what works these days.
Ummm gee let me think. You are ok with me paying half the bills, getting to orgasum half as often as you and doing all the house work. I think I probley deserve at least equal say.
As it has been explained to me it isn't that the husband always has final say. The husband isn't Lord and master. God made woman from a man's rib so she would always be near his heart.
It is more...';hey honey listen...there is a tiger in the back yard. He looks hungry and I think he might eat you or the kids so you stay here Iam going to go fight him...with a stick';
That women are suppose to listen to. A penis isn't a magic wand that gives correct responses. If it was my EX husband would have had the correct answer to questions like ';should I run up my wife's visa?'; '; Is it ok for me to sleep with the neighbor girl?' and many many others. Thanks for sharing. NEXT CALLER we are talking to Bob from Minnesota.
I think it really depends on how important it is. If its whats for dinner, or something lame one of the people in the marriage shouldn't be petty and just give in. If its going to be something serious, there needs to be a compromise.
Nope. I believe that a husband and wife are a team, neither one superior to the other at all. They can work things out and find a way that they are both happy with the decision.
No I don't think so but it doesn't matter I will never get married because it's a load of crap. I am fine on my own. I own everything I need and I have an amazing career I don't need a man living off me.
wait, where does the bible say that? can u find it for me and show me? i do NOT think that the guy should have the final say. u gotta give a little to get a little. COMPROMISE!
hahahaha! u have 22 points! thats hilarious!!!! hehe, im jk :D ily %26lt;333
No....in my marriage we're each better at different things.
So we let the person who knows the most about that particular thing have the final say.
Marriage should be equal.....and I don't believe in the Bible
Both parties should be involved in the decision process.
He can have the final say, but compromise goes a long ways towards making a healthy partnership.
no, sometimes he can be a dumass and not have the smartest decisions lol
its true though.
some men just lack common sence lol
I said it depends on the decision thats being made.
depends... the most logical thing would be to let the one with the best judgement have the final word
no, mutual agreement!
only if he likes sleeping on the couch. After a while he might end up half his stuff.
no, it should be a split decision.
Not in my house. I always have the final say.
No, I think there is always a compromise.
No. Ever heard of compromise? Yeah..really..that's something people do when both parties are in disagreement.
No i do not
Yes
This is gonna be some fun readin.....
Ye I agree with the bible while being a woman ..
lol I'm going to wet myself.
A married woman whose husband is recovering from cancer wants me to impregnate her. What should I do?
I know this is a very rare question but it is real. The woman says she will raise the kid in her family and that no one will know about it. She loves her husband but due to the sickness and recovery he is not capable to father a baby. I was shocked at the beginning when I as offered this unsual deal. I am single guy, had girlfriends but no kids. I am not sure about the legal consequences either though she says everything will be taken care of. Any suggestions and thoughts?A married woman whose husband is recovering from cancer wants me to impregnate her. What should I do?
Child support. Plain and simple. Regardless of any promises or claims she (or her spouse) may make the State doesn't negotiate or take in to account ANY sort of ';arrangements'; to avoid child support obligations. They can and will garnish up to 50% of your income to support the child. Don't do it. Save this special ability to conceive for when you are ready to be a parent on your own.
During such an emotional and stressful time in her life ~ wanting to conceive is the last thing she should be concerning herself with!
It sounds as if she doesn't want to disclose to her spouse that the baby isn't his ~ dishonesty this blatant is a definite RED FLAG.
My opinion: Steer clear!A married woman whose husband is recovering from cancer wants me to impregnate her. What should I do?
Don't you think this sounds shady? If the woman would not tell her husband, she is not an open and honest person. Would you want a dishonest person raising YOUR child? YOUR ONLY child???
WHOA WHOA WHOA WHOA!,NO NO NO NO!...DONT DO IT MAN IT WILL HURT LATER! THAT DONT SOUND LIKE THE RIGHT THING TO DO
If you want to help (and you seriously need to think about this), you need to get a legal document prepared stating that you are in no way responsible for the child. If her husband dies, she might go after you for child support, no matter how good of a friend you are. Just remember, you may feel an emotional bond with this baby knowing it's yours, and you need to be sure you can keep your distance.
are you people serious? you just wanna make ';cheating'; a something easy to do without having any morals ';take a lawyer with you??!!!';..... what the...??, and if she really love her husband or whatever, she won't even think about such a thing. And shame on you man to have a relation with a married woman what is gonna be your feelings if you were in her husband's shoes and you wanna take our opinion about this? what is the wrong with you???!!
I would definitely get a lawyer involved just to be safe. Also, only if the husband is aware and agrees to it.
You don't want to get stuck with child support!!!
Don't do it! she might put child support on you
make sure a lawyer is involved... it can be handled as a sperm donation....how to apply acne
Child support. Plain and simple. Regardless of any promises or claims she (or her spouse) may make the State doesn't negotiate or take in to account ANY sort of ';arrangements'; to avoid child support obligations. They can and will garnish up to 50% of your income to support the child. Don't do it. Save this special ability to conceive for when you are ready to be a parent on your own.
During such an emotional and stressful time in her life ~ wanting to conceive is the last thing she should be concerning herself with!
It sounds as if she doesn't want to disclose to her spouse that the baby isn't his ~ dishonesty this blatant is a definite RED FLAG.
My opinion: Steer clear!A married woman whose husband is recovering from cancer wants me to impregnate her. What should I do?
Don't you think this sounds shady? If the woman would not tell her husband, she is not an open and honest person. Would you want a dishonest person raising YOUR child? YOUR ONLY child???
WHOA WHOA WHOA WHOA!,NO NO NO NO!...DONT DO IT MAN IT WILL HURT LATER! THAT DONT SOUND LIKE THE RIGHT THING TO DO
If you want to help (and you seriously need to think about this), you need to get a legal document prepared stating that you are in no way responsible for the child. If her husband dies, she might go after you for child support, no matter how good of a friend you are. Just remember, you may feel an emotional bond with this baby knowing it's yours, and you need to be sure you can keep your distance.
are you people serious? you just wanna make ';cheating'; a something easy to do without having any morals ';take a lawyer with you??!!!';..... what the...??, and if she really love her husband or whatever, she won't even think about such a thing. And shame on you man to have a relation with a married woman what is gonna be your feelings if you were in her husband's shoes and you wanna take our opinion about this? what is the wrong with you???!!
I would definitely get a lawyer involved just to be safe. Also, only if the husband is aware and agrees to it.
You don't want to get stuck with child support!!!
Don't do it! she might put child support on you
make sure a lawyer is involved... it can be handled as a sperm donation....
Anyone got any creative ideas on how I can tell my husband I am pregnant?
I just found out that I am pregnant with our second child. My daughter will be turning one at the end of July. Anyone got any creative ideas on how I can tell my hubby tonight?Anyone got any creative ideas on how I can tell my husband I am pregnant?
My cousin take a test then put in a small box wit a bow. When u opened it he was surprised.Anyone got any creative ideas on how I can tell my husband I am pregnant?
Place another chair at the dinner table with a stuffed pink/blue animal in it and a child's plate, cup, spoon. In the plate, put a name tag that says, ';Guest arriving in 8/9 months';.
Make a shirt for your daughter that says ';I'm going to be a big Sister';. Or you can get him a few baby ting and put them in a cute bag and on the label put ';You are going to be a daddy again';
Make him a dinner with things like baby carrots, baby corn, baby back ribs, Maybe he will get the connection. Congrats and Good Luck
gift wrap a pacifier with a brand new rattle and set it on his pillow, or in his car b4 he goes to work.
memma96's idea about the baby carrots, spinach, etc is really cute. only my b/f would never get it. he does not think when he eats....lol
congrats.
Say 'You know how the average family has 2.4 children and we are 5/12ths there? Well in a few months time we'll be 10/12ths there.'
Congratulations! When I got pregnat with our second child, I got a plain white shirt for my son and wrote, in huge colourful letters, ';I'm gonna be a Big Brother'; on it and let my hubby figure it out for himself! It worked very very well!
i have no ideas, personally,
BUT i love the idea of your daughter wearing the ';big sister'; t-shirt and the ';baby'; themed dinner. of course, you'll give him some wine, but none for you.....
or you could play charades...that could be fun....
Everyone here gave you some really cute ideas. The T-shirt. Etc. For our Second Child My wife did this. She got a card that read Happy Fathers Day. My wife had found out she was pregnant in August which meant Fathers day had passed about 2 months prior to that.
On the inside of the card it read. Dear Daddy, you will not meet me for about 7 months yet, but I wanted to tell you I was so happy when the Angel in Charge of us little Cerubs told me I was going to be your little girl. I love you ......Baby Girl
One other thing you might want to be aware of, My wife knew it was a girl from the moment of conception. I don't know how but she knew. By the way, my Baby Girl is now 25 years old and owns her own business.
I told my husband that he had a designated driver for nine months.
Ha ha, my partner nearly died of a heart attack in the pub when I told him. We'd only been trying a few weeks, everybody knew we were trying. We went to the pub one nigt with all our friends, there was about 8 of us stood at the bar and he turned round and said 'What are you having?' I couldn't resist and said'A baby'. The look on his face was a picture. Karen McDonald did the same thing to Steve in Coronation Street.
I left the pt test in the bathroom on the counter in plain sight and told him to go get something from in their that was near it... he then came out w/ what i sent him for and acted as though he hadnt seen it all the way up to till we went to bed then he asked me whos it was.. i said it was the dogs due to the fact my dog is the only female in the house.. he got all excited and caught on.. but he didnt want to seem dum...
i told him this last time by buying a cake and having them write Daddy acrossed it with lil ballons.. and baby dec.
you can do the same.. and write soon to be daddy 2 num. 2... or even make one yourself... this one he caught on easily...
Aww! Congrats! I've always wanted to do something like this. Since you already have a little one, why don't you have her tell him. Go to Hallmark and find a card for expecting fathers and take a picture of the pregnancy test. Place the picture in the card. Lastly, get your daughter one of those ';Big Sister'; tee-shirts to wear when she presents it to him when he least expects it. Good luck!
have a candle-lit dinner with baby carrots, baby spinach, baby ribs, ect. he should figure it out on his own if you do that
Best way I can think of is a great home cooked meal for him. With a baby theme, baby carrots, baby back ribs, and so forth it will put a fun spin on dinner and make a good guessing game for you husband.
My cousin take a test then put in a small box wit a bow. When u opened it he was surprised.Anyone got any creative ideas on how I can tell my husband I am pregnant?
Place another chair at the dinner table with a stuffed pink/blue animal in it and a child's plate, cup, spoon. In the plate, put a name tag that says, ';Guest arriving in 8/9 months';.
Make a shirt for your daughter that says ';I'm going to be a big Sister';. Or you can get him a few baby ting and put them in a cute bag and on the label put ';You are going to be a daddy again';
Make him a dinner with things like baby carrots, baby corn, baby back ribs, Maybe he will get the connection. Congrats and Good Luck
gift wrap a pacifier with a brand new rattle and set it on his pillow, or in his car b4 he goes to work.
memma96's idea about the baby carrots, spinach, etc is really cute. only my b/f would never get it. he does not think when he eats....lol
congrats.
Say 'You know how the average family has 2.4 children and we are 5/12ths there? Well in a few months time we'll be 10/12ths there.'
Congratulations! When I got pregnat with our second child, I got a plain white shirt for my son and wrote, in huge colourful letters, ';I'm gonna be a Big Brother'; on it and let my hubby figure it out for himself! It worked very very well!
i have no ideas, personally,
BUT i love the idea of your daughter wearing the ';big sister'; t-shirt and the ';baby'; themed dinner. of course, you'll give him some wine, but none for you.....
or you could play charades...that could be fun....
Everyone here gave you some really cute ideas. The T-shirt. Etc. For our Second Child My wife did this. She got a card that read Happy Fathers Day. My wife had found out she was pregnant in August which meant Fathers day had passed about 2 months prior to that.
On the inside of the card it read. Dear Daddy, you will not meet me for about 7 months yet, but I wanted to tell you I was so happy when the Angel in Charge of us little Cerubs told me I was going to be your little girl. I love you ......Baby Girl
One other thing you might want to be aware of, My wife knew it was a girl from the moment of conception. I don't know how but she knew. By the way, my Baby Girl is now 25 years old and owns her own business.
I told my husband that he had a designated driver for nine months.
Ha ha, my partner nearly died of a heart attack in the pub when I told him. We'd only been trying a few weeks, everybody knew we were trying. We went to the pub one nigt with all our friends, there was about 8 of us stood at the bar and he turned round and said 'What are you having?' I couldn't resist and said'A baby'. The look on his face was a picture. Karen McDonald did the same thing to Steve in Coronation Street.
I left the pt test in the bathroom on the counter in plain sight and told him to go get something from in their that was near it... he then came out w/ what i sent him for and acted as though he hadnt seen it all the way up to till we went to bed then he asked me whos it was.. i said it was the dogs due to the fact my dog is the only female in the house.. he got all excited and caught on.. but he didnt want to seem dum...
i told him this last time by buying a cake and having them write Daddy acrossed it with lil ballons.. and baby dec.
you can do the same.. and write soon to be daddy 2 num. 2... or even make one yourself... this one he caught on easily...
Aww! Congrats! I've always wanted to do something like this. Since you already have a little one, why don't you have her tell him. Go to Hallmark and find a card for expecting fathers and take a picture of the pregnancy test. Place the picture in the card. Lastly, get your daughter one of those ';Big Sister'; tee-shirts to wear when she presents it to him when he least expects it. Good luck!
have a candle-lit dinner with baby carrots, baby spinach, baby ribs, ect. he should figure it out on his own if you do that
Best way I can think of is a great home cooked meal for him. With a baby theme, baby carrots, baby back ribs, and so forth it will put a fun spin on dinner and make a good guessing game for you husband.
Do you and your husband share email passwords with each other?
i.e. does your husband know your email password and do you know his?
do you think this is necessary?Do you and your husband share email passwords with each other?
if he asked for it...I wouldnt have a problem giving it to him....I have nothing to hide.....but I dont feel that it is necessary cheers : )Do you and your husband share email passwords with each other?
yeah. in fact there is a paper sitting next to the computer that has both our passwords and my passwords for other stuff. - i'd forget them if i didn't write them down. it isn't a big deal it's not like we snoop on each other. we also look at each others phones. -in front of each other- we look at the forwards we get from people because they are funny. it's not about snooping. we trust each other and have nothing to hide so what is the big deal?
edit:i'm really suprised how many couples don't share this info with eachother. i thought everyone did i didn't realize so many people thought it was a trust or privacy thing.my husband has even looked at my Y!A profile out of curiousity and that didn't bother me at all and that was more personal than my email which is just full of junk.
We use the same password for our personal email accounts. We have access to each other's email, in the event we need to be in the account, but neither of us really bother to look at each other's email. There is nothing to hide, so we just thought it easier to have the same password. A decision made nine years ago when we got married.
No we do not know each others email passwords. I think I have told him mine, but that was to access bills online. I trust my husband totally and have no need to know his passwords. If I asked he would tell me and it would be no big deal. From our first time talked we made a promise to always be totally honest, we still are to this day.
Yes, he knows mine and I know his. No, I do not think it is necessary. I only have his because a few years ago he needed some info in an e-mail and he was not anywhere that had internet access. He knows mine because I have a post-it on my monitor.
No because we are not tied at the hip and people need to have something of their own even if they are married. Note: If you don't have trust, you have nothing.
Nope - I am a computer genius - nothing is hidden from me, except for what is in plain sight, and the fact that my children are of a different colour to me.
What are you saying?
My husband watches everything I do :) :) :)
hell yea! I report to him every second of every day of my life. I can't even take a shiit without informing him of it.
Seriously, seek a marriage councilor
No we don't. Nor do we read each others mail. I do however insist on knowing (I've not yet felt I had to use)passwords of my minor children.
We have a joint email and myspace. Its is boh of ours so yes we both have the passwords.
Hell no! I do not want him knowing about all the other dudes I cam with.
no
unless I think there is something going on (cheating)
do you think this is necessary?Do you and your husband share email passwords with each other?
if he asked for it...I wouldnt have a problem giving it to him....I have nothing to hide.....but I dont feel that it is necessary cheers : )Do you and your husband share email passwords with each other?
yeah. in fact there is a paper sitting next to the computer that has both our passwords and my passwords for other stuff. - i'd forget them if i didn't write them down. it isn't a big deal it's not like we snoop on each other. we also look at each others phones. -in front of each other- we look at the forwards we get from people because they are funny. it's not about snooping. we trust each other and have nothing to hide so what is the big deal?
edit:i'm really suprised how many couples don't share this info with eachother. i thought everyone did i didn't realize so many people thought it was a trust or privacy thing.my husband has even looked at my Y!A profile out of curiousity and that didn't bother me at all and that was more personal than my email which is just full of junk.
We use the same password for our personal email accounts. We have access to each other's email, in the event we need to be in the account, but neither of us really bother to look at each other's email. There is nothing to hide, so we just thought it easier to have the same password. A decision made nine years ago when we got married.
No we do not know each others email passwords. I think I have told him mine, but that was to access bills online. I trust my husband totally and have no need to know his passwords. If I asked he would tell me and it would be no big deal. From our first time talked we made a promise to always be totally honest, we still are to this day.
Yes, he knows mine and I know his. No, I do not think it is necessary. I only have his because a few years ago he needed some info in an e-mail and he was not anywhere that had internet access. He knows mine because I have a post-it on my monitor.
No because we are not tied at the hip and people need to have something of their own even if they are married. Note: If you don't have trust, you have nothing.
Nope - I am a computer genius - nothing is hidden from me, except for what is in plain sight, and the fact that my children are of a different colour to me.
What are you saying?
My husband watches everything I do :) :) :)
hell yea! I report to him every second of every day of my life. I can't even take a shiit without informing him of it.
Seriously, seek a marriage councilor
No we don't. Nor do we read each others mail. I do however insist on knowing (I've not yet felt I had to use)passwords of my minor children.
We have a joint email and myspace. Its is boh of ours so yes we both have the passwords.
Hell no! I do not want him knowing about all the other dudes I cam with.
no
unless I think there is something going on (cheating)
What happens If my Husband joins the army and dies. Do me and our kids get any help?
my husband wants to join an says that if he dies we will be taken care of. an hes convinced that he wont be sent to the war but is that true? Does he have to be in the army a certain amount of time before he gets benefits? and does he start getting paid immediately? i know that a alot of men and women want to fight for the country an i support them i just dont know how i feel about him doing that now that we have to small children..One last question how long do you have to enlist for?What happens If my Husband joins the army and dies. Do me and our kids get any help?
He's right. You will be taken care of, maybe not the best at times but is something to lean on. Be sure you read all the fine print.What happens If my Husband joins the army and dies. Do me and our kids get any help?
Heck they don't even take care of you before you die, why do you think it would be different after he is gone (God forbid). If he is seriously injured (physically or mentally) his care will be minimal.
Tell him to find another occupation other than killing people and putting himself in harms way. He should have done this before he married you and had dependents if that was his hearts desire.
During boot camp, you will not receive money, you get those checks at the end. Benefits are great, start somewhere in the mid of boot camp. If he goes to war (probably will), and dies, you will receive $250,000.00 and benefits for the rest of your life. Hope that helps.
benfits kick in immediately, he probably will be shipped off, the army lie to you to get you join. i wouldnt do it
enlistment is usually 3 years
Death benefits are normally around $400,000
he does get paid, but wont recieve anything till after basic training. Bennifits are from swearing in on.
I'm sorry your husband wants to run off on you. But yes he is right, if he dies you and your children will be set for life. You enlist for life.
All of these people that answered you are all a little right. But not totally. Yes the day you go to boot camp your benefits start. You start getting paid immediately. But in boot camp what do you need money for? so they dont give you an account til about half way through. Life insurance coverage is 400,000 dollars only while you are deployed to a combat zoone. i,e, iraq. and 250,000 back in the states. You should let him do it but ask him to pick a MOS that is not infantry. Something like motor T or avionics or even admin. Just for at least 4 years. If he gets out it will be such an honor. He will get support and benefits from every angle. If he gets hurt while he is in then when he gets out he can and will get paid for life. I got out of the Marines and said I had ringing in my ears(true) about 2 times a week. Also I have a few sunspots on my skin. I know get a check for 650.00 every month til I die. Imagine if you loose a leg! Just stand by his side you have to be strong.
You deserve an honest answer. No matter what the benefits/insurance, you are NOT set for life! 250,000.00 goes NO WHERE today. And that is if he is killed....more likely, if he is hit, he will be maimed, and the army does NOT take care of their own. If he sustains a head injury, he could be a helpless vegetable for the rest of his life, and the army has a great way of treating those wounded..they deny all responsibility! This is NOT one of his wiser decisions ! With the way the Army is treating veterans, I wouldn't enlist for anything! And he can sign up for 4 years, but that does NOT mean he will get out in 4 years...once in, they can keep you for as long as they want!
Kind of a crazy question!?!?
Yea, you are set if (God forbid) he dies at war. The amount depends on what he has as life insurance and other choices he has made.
You don't get paid till half way through boot camp, the other girl is right. They can send him to war when they want to. After boot camp and the 3 month mobilization time, he is fair game.
You usually enlist for 4 years, but most re-enlist with a bonus and it goes on from there.
Being an Army wife has its benefits, but as a Army wife with a husband in Iraq for the 2nd time, I can tell you it is not easy. Girl, if I could only tell you how not easy it is.
He's right. You will be taken care of, maybe not the best at times but is something to lean on. Be sure you read all the fine print.What happens If my Husband joins the army and dies. Do me and our kids get any help?
Heck they don't even take care of you before you die, why do you think it would be different after he is gone (God forbid). If he is seriously injured (physically or mentally) his care will be minimal.
Tell him to find another occupation other than killing people and putting himself in harms way. He should have done this before he married you and had dependents if that was his hearts desire.
During boot camp, you will not receive money, you get those checks at the end. Benefits are great, start somewhere in the mid of boot camp. If he goes to war (probably will), and dies, you will receive $250,000.00 and benefits for the rest of your life. Hope that helps.
benfits kick in immediately, he probably will be shipped off, the army lie to you to get you join. i wouldnt do it
enlistment is usually 3 years
Death benefits are normally around $400,000
he does get paid, but wont recieve anything till after basic training. Bennifits are from swearing in on.
I'm sorry your husband wants to run off on you. But yes he is right, if he dies you and your children will be set for life. You enlist for life.
All of these people that answered you are all a little right. But not totally. Yes the day you go to boot camp your benefits start. You start getting paid immediately. But in boot camp what do you need money for? so they dont give you an account til about half way through. Life insurance coverage is 400,000 dollars only while you are deployed to a combat zoone. i,e, iraq. and 250,000 back in the states. You should let him do it but ask him to pick a MOS that is not infantry. Something like motor T or avionics or even admin. Just for at least 4 years. If he gets out it will be such an honor. He will get support and benefits from every angle. If he gets hurt while he is in then when he gets out he can and will get paid for life. I got out of the Marines and said I had ringing in my ears(true) about 2 times a week. Also I have a few sunspots on my skin. I know get a check for 650.00 every month til I die. Imagine if you loose a leg! Just stand by his side you have to be strong.
You deserve an honest answer. No matter what the benefits/insurance, you are NOT set for life! 250,000.00 goes NO WHERE today. And that is if he is killed....more likely, if he is hit, he will be maimed, and the army does NOT take care of their own. If he sustains a head injury, he could be a helpless vegetable for the rest of his life, and the army has a great way of treating those wounded..they deny all responsibility! This is NOT one of his wiser decisions ! With the way the Army is treating veterans, I wouldn't enlist for anything! And he can sign up for 4 years, but that does NOT mean he will get out in 4 years...once in, they can keep you for as long as they want!
Kind of a crazy question!?!?
Yea, you are set if (God forbid) he dies at war. The amount depends on what he has as life insurance and other choices he has made.
You don't get paid till half way through boot camp, the other girl is right. They can send him to war when they want to. After boot camp and the 3 month mobilization time, he is fair game.
You usually enlist for 4 years, but most re-enlist with a bonus and it goes on from there.
Being an Army wife has its benefits, but as a Army wife with a husband in Iraq for the 2nd time, I can tell you it is not easy. Girl, if I could only tell you how not easy it is.
Is it possible to have twins when neither you or your husband was one yourselves?
I'm no where near getting married or having kids, but I have always dreamed that when I do, I would have twins. I dont have a twin and if my future husband doesnt either, is it possible to have that?Is it possible to have twins when neither you or your husband was one yourselves?
Twins are born to non-twin parents all the time.
There are artificial ways of increasing the odds of having twins.Is it possible to have twins when neither you or your husband was one yourselves?
Yes. It has nothing to do with this kind of history.
Also note that there are two kinds of twins: identical and non-identical. This is in fact additional info not related to your question, but it should help to show that the answer to the question is more complicated in case you want to do additional research.
An interesting site with anecdotal info is here:
http://www.keepkidshealthy.com/twins/twi鈥?/a>
yes of course it is usually people that have twins are not even a twin theirselves it doesnt even have to run in your family it all depends on the way your body reacts to your husbands spirm
anything could happen!
Remember miracles happen everyday!
Yep! While coming from a family with a history of twins does increase your chances of having twins, it is possible for people without that genetic tendency to produce twins too. Identical twins happen when a fertilized egg divides into two separate embryos; Fraternal twins happen when at ovulation the mother releases two eggs from her ovaries instead of one.
yes that can happen my grandmother had a set of twins it competely skipped a generation and my aunt that was a twin didnt even have twins her brother did there are two types of twins faternal and identical as were my aunt was an identical twin her brother my uncles two were faternal a boy and a girl
yes if it is in your genes. Does he or you have a seviral biological family members or relatives who have a twins? if the ans is yes then it is possible because one of you has the genes needed for you to have a twince.
Sometimes it can run in the family, my great grandmother was a twin. And she had twins her first time pregnant, unfotunetly they both died. Her second time pregnant she had twins again, but onhly one lived, and her third time she had twins again, but again only one lived. Before her there were a lot of twins in the family but there haven't been any since then. I hope i'm not the one to pick up the trait again!
Twins are born to non-twin parents all the time.
There are artificial ways of increasing the odds of having twins.Is it possible to have twins when neither you or your husband was one yourselves?
Yes. It has nothing to do with this kind of history.
Also note that there are two kinds of twins: identical and non-identical. This is in fact additional info not related to your question, but it should help to show that the answer to the question is more complicated in case you want to do additional research.
An interesting site with anecdotal info is here:
http://www.keepkidshealthy.com/twins/twi鈥?/a>
yes of course it is usually people that have twins are not even a twin theirselves it doesnt even have to run in your family it all depends on the way your body reacts to your husbands spirm
anything could happen!
Remember miracles happen everyday!
Yep! While coming from a family with a history of twins does increase your chances of having twins, it is possible for people without that genetic tendency to produce twins too. Identical twins happen when a fertilized egg divides into two separate embryos; Fraternal twins happen when at ovulation the mother releases two eggs from her ovaries instead of one.
yes that can happen my grandmother had a set of twins it competely skipped a generation and my aunt that was a twin didnt even have twins her brother did there are two types of twins faternal and identical as were my aunt was an identical twin her brother my uncles two were faternal a boy and a girl
yes if it is in your genes. Does he or you have a seviral biological family members or relatives who have a twins? if the ans is yes then it is possible because one of you has the genes needed for you to have a twince.
Sometimes it can run in the family, my great grandmother was a twin. And she had twins her first time pregnant, unfotunetly they both died. Her second time pregnant she had twins again, but onhly one lived, and her third time she had twins again, but again only one lived. Before her there were a lot of twins in the family but there haven't been any since then. I hope i'm not the one to pick up the trait again!
Do you and your husband share email passwords with each other?
i.e. does your husband know your email password and do you know his?
do you think this is necessary?Do you and your husband share email passwords with each other?
if he asked for it...I wouldnt have a problem giving it to him....I have nothing to hide.....but I dont feel that it is necessary cheers : )Do you and your husband share email passwords with each other?
yeah. in fact there is a paper sitting next to the computer that has both our passwords and my passwords for other stuff. - i'd forget them if i didn't write them down. it isn't a big deal it's not like we snoop on each other. we also look at each others phones. -in front of each other- we look at the forwards we get from people because they are funny. it's not about snooping. we trust each other and have nothing to hide so what is the big deal?
edit:i'm really suprised how many couples don't share this info with eachother. i thought everyone did i didn't realize so many people thought it was a trust or privacy thing.my husband has even looked at my Y!A profile out of curiousity and that didn't bother me at all and that was more personal than my email which is just full of junk.
We use the same password for our personal email accounts. We have access to each other's email, in the event we need to be in the account, but neither of us really bother to look at each other's email. There is nothing to hide, so we just thought it easier to have the same password. A decision made nine years ago when we got married.
No we do not know each others email passwords. I think I have told him mine, but that was to access bills online. I trust my husband totally and have no need to know his passwords. If I asked he would tell me and it would be no big deal. From our first time talked we made a promise to always be totally honest, we still are to this day.
Yes, he knows mine and I know his. No, I do not think it is necessary. I only have his because a few years ago he needed some info in an e-mail and he was not anywhere that had internet access. He knows mine because I have a post-it on my monitor.
No because we are not tied at the hip and people need to have something of their own even if they are married. Note: If you don't have trust, you have nothing.
Nope - I am a computer genius - nothing is hidden from me, except for what is in plain sight, and the fact that my children are of a different colour to me.
What are you saying?
My husband watches everything I do :) :) :)
hell yea! I report to him every second of every day of my life. I can't even take a shiit without informing him of it.
Seriously, seek a marriage councilor
No we don't. Nor do we read each others mail. I do however insist on knowing (I've not yet felt I had to use)passwords of my minor children.
We have a joint email and myspace. Its is boh of ours so yes we both have the passwords.
Hell no! I do not want him knowing about all the other dudes I cam with.
no
unless I think there is something going on (cheating)
do you think this is necessary?Do you and your husband share email passwords with each other?
if he asked for it...I wouldnt have a problem giving it to him....I have nothing to hide.....but I dont feel that it is necessary cheers : )Do you and your husband share email passwords with each other?
yeah. in fact there is a paper sitting next to the computer that has both our passwords and my passwords for other stuff. - i'd forget them if i didn't write them down. it isn't a big deal it's not like we snoop on each other. we also look at each others phones. -in front of each other- we look at the forwards we get from people because they are funny. it's not about snooping. we trust each other and have nothing to hide so what is the big deal?
edit:i'm really suprised how many couples don't share this info with eachother. i thought everyone did i didn't realize so many people thought it was a trust or privacy thing.my husband has even looked at my Y!A profile out of curiousity and that didn't bother me at all and that was more personal than my email which is just full of junk.
We use the same password for our personal email accounts. We have access to each other's email, in the event we need to be in the account, but neither of us really bother to look at each other's email. There is nothing to hide, so we just thought it easier to have the same password. A decision made nine years ago when we got married.
No we do not know each others email passwords. I think I have told him mine, but that was to access bills online. I trust my husband totally and have no need to know his passwords. If I asked he would tell me and it would be no big deal. From our first time talked we made a promise to always be totally honest, we still are to this day.
Yes, he knows mine and I know his. No, I do not think it is necessary. I only have his because a few years ago he needed some info in an e-mail and he was not anywhere that had internet access. He knows mine because I have a post-it on my monitor.
No because we are not tied at the hip and people need to have something of their own even if they are married. Note: If you don't have trust, you have nothing.
Nope - I am a computer genius - nothing is hidden from me, except for what is in plain sight, and the fact that my children are of a different colour to me.
What are you saying?
My husband watches everything I do :) :) :)
hell yea! I report to him every second of every day of my life. I can't even take a shiit without informing him of it.
Seriously, seek a marriage councilor
No we don't. Nor do we read each others mail. I do however insist on knowing (I've not yet felt I had to use)passwords of my minor children.
We have a joint email and myspace. Its is boh of ours so yes we both have the passwords.
Hell no! I do not want him knowing about all the other dudes I cam with.
no
unless I think there is something going on (cheating)
What happens If my Husband joins the army and dies. Do me and our kids get any help?
my husband wants to join an says that if he dies we will be taken care of. an hes convinced that he wont be sent to the war but is that true? Does he have to be in the army a certain amount of time before he gets benefits? and does he start getting paid immediately? i know that a alot of men and women want to fight for the country an i support them i just dont know how i feel about him doing that now that we have to small children..One last question how long do you have to enlist for?What happens If my Husband joins the army and dies. Do me and our kids get any help?
He's right. You will be taken care of, maybe not the best at times but is something to lean on. Be sure you read all the fine print.What happens If my Husband joins the army and dies. Do me and our kids get any help?
Heck they don't even take care of you before you die, why do you think it would be different after he is gone (God forbid). If he is seriously injured (physically or mentally) his care will be minimal.
Tell him to find another occupation other than killing people and putting himself in harms way. He should have done this before he married you and had dependents if that was his hearts desire.
During boot camp, you will not receive money, you get those checks at the end. Benefits are great, start somewhere in the mid of boot camp. If he goes to war (probably will), and dies, you will receive $250,000.00 and benefits for the rest of your life. Hope that helps.
benfits kick in immediately, he probably will be shipped off, the army lie to you to get you join. i wouldnt do it
enlistment is usually 3 years
Death benefits are normally around $400,000
he does get paid, but wont recieve anything till after basic training. Bennifits are from swearing in on.
I'm sorry your husband wants to run off on you. But yes he is right, if he dies you and your children will be set for life. You enlist for life.
All of these people that answered you are all a little right. But not totally. Yes the day you go to boot camp your benefits start. You start getting paid immediately. But in boot camp what do you need money for? so they dont give you an account til about half way through. Life insurance coverage is 400,000 dollars only while you are deployed to a combat zoone. i,e, iraq. and 250,000 back in the states. You should let him do it but ask him to pick a MOS that is not infantry. Something like motor T or avionics or even admin. Just for at least 4 years. If he gets out it will be such an honor. He will get support and benefits from every angle. If he gets hurt while he is in then when he gets out he can and will get paid for life. I got out of the Marines and said I had ringing in my ears(true) about 2 times a week. Also I have a few sunspots on my skin. I know get a check for 650.00 every month til I die. Imagine if you loose a leg! Just stand by his side you have to be strong.
You deserve an honest answer. No matter what the benefits/insurance, you are NOT set for life! 250,000.00 goes NO WHERE today. And that is if he is killed....more likely, if he is hit, he will be maimed, and the army does NOT take care of their own. If he sustains a head injury, he could be a helpless vegetable for the rest of his life, and the army has a great way of treating those wounded..they deny all responsibility! This is NOT one of his wiser decisions ! With the way the Army is treating veterans, I wouldn't enlist for anything! And he can sign up for 4 years, but that does NOT mean he will get out in 4 years...once in, they can keep you for as long as they want!
Kind of a crazy question!?!?
Yea, you are set if (God forbid) he dies at war. The amount depends on what he has as life insurance and other choices he has made.
You don't get paid till half way through boot camp, the other girl is right. They can send him to war when they want to. After boot camp and the 3 month mobilization time, he is fair game.
You usually enlist for 4 years, but most re-enlist with a bonus and it goes on from there.
Being an Army wife has its benefits, but as a Army wife with a husband in Iraq for the 2nd time, I can tell you it is not easy. Girl, if I could only tell you how not easy it is.how to apply acne
He's right. You will be taken care of, maybe not the best at times but is something to lean on. Be sure you read all the fine print.What happens If my Husband joins the army and dies. Do me and our kids get any help?
Heck they don't even take care of you before you die, why do you think it would be different after he is gone (God forbid). If he is seriously injured (physically or mentally) his care will be minimal.
Tell him to find another occupation other than killing people and putting himself in harms way. He should have done this before he married you and had dependents if that was his hearts desire.
During boot camp, you will not receive money, you get those checks at the end. Benefits are great, start somewhere in the mid of boot camp. If he goes to war (probably will), and dies, you will receive $250,000.00 and benefits for the rest of your life. Hope that helps.
benfits kick in immediately, he probably will be shipped off, the army lie to you to get you join. i wouldnt do it
enlistment is usually 3 years
Death benefits are normally around $400,000
he does get paid, but wont recieve anything till after basic training. Bennifits are from swearing in on.
I'm sorry your husband wants to run off on you. But yes he is right, if he dies you and your children will be set for life. You enlist for life.
All of these people that answered you are all a little right. But not totally. Yes the day you go to boot camp your benefits start. You start getting paid immediately. But in boot camp what do you need money for? so they dont give you an account til about half way through. Life insurance coverage is 400,000 dollars only while you are deployed to a combat zoone. i,e, iraq. and 250,000 back in the states. You should let him do it but ask him to pick a MOS that is not infantry. Something like motor T or avionics or even admin. Just for at least 4 years. If he gets out it will be such an honor. He will get support and benefits from every angle. If he gets hurt while he is in then when he gets out he can and will get paid for life. I got out of the Marines and said I had ringing in my ears(true) about 2 times a week. Also I have a few sunspots on my skin. I know get a check for 650.00 every month til I die. Imagine if you loose a leg! Just stand by his side you have to be strong.
You deserve an honest answer. No matter what the benefits/insurance, you are NOT set for life! 250,000.00 goes NO WHERE today. And that is if he is killed....more likely, if he is hit, he will be maimed, and the army does NOT take care of their own. If he sustains a head injury, he could be a helpless vegetable for the rest of his life, and the army has a great way of treating those wounded..they deny all responsibility! This is NOT one of his wiser decisions ! With the way the Army is treating veterans, I wouldn't enlist for anything! And he can sign up for 4 years, but that does NOT mean he will get out in 4 years...once in, they can keep you for as long as they want!
Kind of a crazy question!?!?
Yea, you are set if (God forbid) he dies at war. The amount depends on what he has as life insurance and other choices he has made.
You don't get paid till half way through boot camp, the other girl is right. They can send him to war when they want to. After boot camp and the 3 month mobilization time, he is fair game.
You usually enlist for 4 years, but most re-enlist with a bonus and it goes on from there.
Being an Army wife has its benefits, but as a Army wife with a husband in Iraq for the 2nd time, I can tell you it is not easy. Girl, if I could only tell you how not easy it is.
Is it possible to have twins when neither you or your husband was one yourselves?
I'm no where near getting married or having kids, but I have always dreamed that when I do, I would have twins. I dont have a twin and if my future husband doesnt either, is it possible to have that?Is it possible to have twins when neither you or your husband was one yourselves?
Twins are born to non-twin parents all the time.
There are artificial ways of increasing the odds of having twins.Is it possible to have twins when neither you or your husband was one yourselves?
Yes. It has nothing to do with this kind of history.
Also note that there are two kinds of twins: identical and non-identical. This is in fact additional info not related to your question, but it should help to show that the answer to the question is more complicated in case you want to do additional research.
An interesting site with anecdotal info is here:
http://www.keepkidshealthy.com/twins/twi鈥?/a>
yes of course it is usually people that have twins are not even a twin theirselves it doesnt even have to run in your family it all depends on the way your body reacts to your husbands spirm
anything could happen!
Remember miracles happen everyday!
Yep! While coming from a family with a history of twins does increase your chances of having twins, it is possible for people without that genetic tendency to produce twins too. Identical twins happen when a fertilized egg divides into two separate embryos; Fraternal twins happen when at ovulation the mother releases two eggs from her ovaries instead of one.
yes that can happen my grandmother had a set of twins it competely skipped a generation and my aunt that was a twin didnt even have twins her brother did there are two types of twins faternal and identical as were my aunt was an identical twin her brother my uncles two were faternal a boy and a girl
yes if it is in your genes. Does he or you have a seviral biological family members or relatives who have a twins? if the ans is yes then it is possible because one of you has the genes needed for you to have a twince.
Sometimes it can run in the family, my great grandmother was a twin. And she had twins her first time pregnant, unfotunetly they both died. Her second time pregnant she had twins again, but onhly one lived, and her third time she had twins again, but again only one lived. Before her there were a lot of twins in the family but there haven't been any since then. I hope i'm not the one to pick up the trait again!
Twins are born to non-twin parents all the time.
There are artificial ways of increasing the odds of having twins.Is it possible to have twins when neither you or your husband was one yourselves?
Yes. It has nothing to do with this kind of history.
Also note that there are two kinds of twins: identical and non-identical. This is in fact additional info not related to your question, but it should help to show that the answer to the question is more complicated in case you want to do additional research.
An interesting site with anecdotal info is here:
http://www.keepkidshealthy.com/twins/twi鈥?/a>
yes of course it is usually people that have twins are not even a twin theirselves it doesnt even have to run in your family it all depends on the way your body reacts to your husbands spirm
anything could happen!
Remember miracles happen everyday!
Yep! While coming from a family with a history of twins does increase your chances of having twins, it is possible for people without that genetic tendency to produce twins too. Identical twins happen when a fertilized egg divides into two separate embryos; Fraternal twins happen when at ovulation the mother releases two eggs from her ovaries instead of one.
yes that can happen my grandmother had a set of twins it competely skipped a generation and my aunt that was a twin didnt even have twins her brother did there are two types of twins faternal and identical as were my aunt was an identical twin her brother my uncles two were faternal a boy and a girl
yes if it is in your genes. Does he or you have a seviral biological family members or relatives who have a twins? if the ans is yes then it is possible because one of you has the genes needed for you to have a twince.
Sometimes it can run in the family, my great grandmother was a twin. And she had twins her first time pregnant, unfotunetly they both died. Her second time pregnant she had twins again, but onhly one lived, and her third time she had twins again, but again only one lived. Before her there were a lot of twins in the family but there haven't been any since then. I hope i'm not the one to pick up the trait again!
Do you think my husband should be talking to the ladies at the office?
My husband talks to a couple of ladies at his office. He works out in the field not in the office. The ladies he says are a couple years older then him. I ask him if they are pretty and he says no. He told them that I am going to make just hot wings as a meal and bean dip as an appetizer. That is what I am making when his family comes over. The ladies laughed and said for the meal all she is making is hot wings and nothing else. The ladies said isn't hot wings already appetizer. First of all I don't see why my husband has to talk to the ladies.Do you think my husband should be talking to the ladies at the office?
Sounds like you have jealousy issues...and it sounds like your husband enjoys stirring you up by telling you every detail of his conversations.
Ugg..you two need to give the games a rest at least for Christmas holidays.Do you think my husband should be talking to the ladies at the office?
Grow up, your husband can talk to whomever he wants at work. He is just being friendly. If he loves and comes home to you and you have no reason to believe he is cheating, why do you care who he has as friends at work.
You need to get your jealousy under control or you could drive him away. Is he not supposed to be sociable. Just because he's married he can't talk to anyone? If you trust him then what little talk of wings and appetizers with women is going to hurt. Trust is everything.
Tell him to shut his mouth or you are gonna start looking for friend elsewhere..male or female. And I suggest making something more. If you have the means to do so.
There is nothing wrong with conversing with others but he shouldn't be complaining about what you are making...if that in fact is what he was doing.
He works with them. Grow up and stop making his job difficult.
Talking to people is a necessary part of a job.
There is a social aspect to working too and that is what your husband is doing.
You have a large jealousy streak and you need to get this under control. If you love and support your husband and work at having a good marriage, chances are you will. If you let jealousy rule your relationship with your husband, your marriage will be in jeopardy.
You worry to much, he really doesn't have a choice because he works with them.
First of all I don't see why you are going to marry some one being so insecure and jealous! Your husband is grown up enough to talk to whoever he wants to. See a therapist. And a marriage counselor. I feel bad for your husband.
They're his co-workers. Of course he talks to them.
You have some serious jealousy issues.
first off, hot wings can be whatever you want to make them. you husband better had took up for you. the reason he may talk to them is because they are older and always holding conversation. older women love to talk to younger men, even if it is just for conversation. does he show signs of a cheating husband, if not, do not worry.
you are very insecure and jealous... nothing wrong with talking to people in your company... good business practice...
perhaps you should look to yourself before judging his actions...
All he is doing is talking to them. I think you are blowing him talking to them out of proportion because of your jealousy. Also you might want to make a little more when his family comes over, if you are able to do so.
Talking is no crime. Seems you might be getting upset over something they said and you don't know the context it was said in. Personally I'd tell hubby to keep it at the office. You don't care to hear what they've got to say and he should keep his personal life at home. They don't need to know what you say or do.
Nobody wants a jealous spouse. Jealousy ruins a marriage. Control it or there'll be trouble ahead.
I wonder what he said when they reacted that way? I would think he should stick up for you and its none of their concern what you decide to make. The ladies were out of line and picturing the event myself, not the people you want your husband talking to. My husband works in the field too but he needs to go in the office now and then and Im sure your husband wouldnt be keeping his job if he was always chatting it up and npt doing his job. from my view its hard to tell if he's flirting with them or if theyre even anything to flirt with or if they are just people to have a quick chat with. The women that work at my husband's plant are very nice(actually, theres just one),she's very nice, I know he talks to her occasionally but I know thats it. If your aching to know, I know its hard to fight jealousy but you have to understand alot of what jealousy is made up of is in our heads. Can you bring him lunch one day as a suprise, it would be great for your relationship,too and bonus,you can meet these women yourself. You may see, theres nothing to worry about :) And actually if he comes home after work,then really you need to get this out of your head, If he's coming home, he isnt cheating.
Good luck with this. Coming from a very jealous person I understand your anger with this. To me when a woman disses a mans wife or finds problems to point out to the husband then she is looking to cause problems. Being a friend to a married man is fine until you take any shot toward the wife. Woman know better! Good luck ...
Sounds like you have jealousy issues...and it sounds like your husband enjoys stirring you up by telling you every detail of his conversations.
Ugg..you two need to give the games a rest at least for Christmas holidays.Do you think my husband should be talking to the ladies at the office?
Grow up, your husband can talk to whomever he wants at work. He is just being friendly. If he loves and comes home to you and you have no reason to believe he is cheating, why do you care who he has as friends at work.
You need to get your jealousy under control or you could drive him away. Is he not supposed to be sociable. Just because he's married he can't talk to anyone? If you trust him then what little talk of wings and appetizers with women is going to hurt. Trust is everything.
Tell him to shut his mouth or you are gonna start looking for friend elsewhere..male or female. And I suggest making something more. If you have the means to do so.
There is nothing wrong with conversing with others but he shouldn't be complaining about what you are making...if that in fact is what he was doing.
He works with them. Grow up and stop making his job difficult.
Talking to people is a necessary part of a job.
There is a social aspect to working too and that is what your husband is doing.
You have a large jealousy streak and you need to get this under control. If you love and support your husband and work at having a good marriage, chances are you will. If you let jealousy rule your relationship with your husband, your marriage will be in jeopardy.
You worry to much, he really doesn't have a choice because he works with them.
First of all I don't see why you are going to marry some one being so insecure and jealous! Your husband is grown up enough to talk to whoever he wants to. See a therapist. And a marriage counselor. I feel bad for your husband.
They're his co-workers. Of course he talks to them.
You have some serious jealousy issues.
first off, hot wings can be whatever you want to make them. you husband better had took up for you. the reason he may talk to them is because they are older and always holding conversation. older women love to talk to younger men, even if it is just for conversation. does he show signs of a cheating husband, if not, do not worry.
you are very insecure and jealous... nothing wrong with talking to people in your company... good business practice...
perhaps you should look to yourself before judging his actions...
All he is doing is talking to them. I think you are blowing him talking to them out of proportion because of your jealousy. Also you might want to make a little more when his family comes over, if you are able to do so.
Talking is no crime. Seems you might be getting upset over something they said and you don't know the context it was said in. Personally I'd tell hubby to keep it at the office. You don't care to hear what they've got to say and he should keep his personal life at home. They don't need to know what you say or do.
Nobody wants a jealous spouse. Jealousy ruins a marriage. Control it or there'll be trouble ahead.
I wonder what he said when they reacted that way? I would think he should stick up for you and its none of their concern what you decide to make. The ladies were out of line and picturing the event myself, not the people you want your husband talking to. My husband works in the field too but he needs to go in the office now and then and Im sure your husband wouldnt be keeping his job if he was always chatting it up and npt doing his job. from my view its hard to tell if he's flirting with them or if theyre even anything to flirt with or if they are just people to have a quick chat with. The women that work at my husband's plant are very nice(actually, theres just one),she's very nice, I know he talks to her occasionally but I know thats it. If your aching to know, I know its hard to fight jealousy but you have to understand alot of what jealousy is made up of is in our heads. Can you bring him lunch one day as a suprise, it would be great for your relationship,too and bonus,you can meet these women yourself. You may see, theres nothing to worry about :) And actually if he comes home after work,then really you need to get this out of your head, If he's coming home, he isnt cheating.
Good luck with this. Coming from a very jealous person I understand your anger with this. To me when a woman disses a mans wife or finds problems to point out to the husband then she is looking to cause problems. Being a friend to a married man is fine until you take any shot toward the wife. Woman know better! Good luck ...
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