I'm not a bad looking wife, but my husbands been looking at porn and women online. I want him to stop he does it on his phone and deletes it and thinks I don't know. I've found a way to know when's he looks it up he doesn't know, I just want him to stop it makes me feel ugly.How to keep my husband from looking at porn??
Stop worrying about it. The problem is all in your head. Take control of the situation and MYOB. Happiness is within you. This is no big deal, unless you, mentally, make it a big deal. Get yourself under control and blow this off before you screw up an otherwise perfectly good marriage. That is, unless you want to be one of the 50% of people that get divorced, mostly for dumb reasons of one of the partners being upset over dumb stuff. Your choice...How to keep my husband from looking at porn??
you can install NetDog Porn Filter : http://www.netdogsoft.com on the computer, it blocks all porn quitely and automatically when your husband's on the computer.
Men who watch porn are know to be unfaithul husbands. I think your marriage is heading for some troubles.
Truth is, you can't. He has to want to stop on his own. Unless he himself wants to stop on his own (and if thats truly the case, there are plenty of services that offer free help for it) then he will continue to do so.
You can try to plead your case to him and hope he respects you enough to stop for you, failing that.
hmm...well i don't have any real advice for you, but i can tell you my experience with that. my husband also has a thing for porn, which used to really upset me, if he looked at it alone. because we have an awesome love life, and often watch it together, i didn't see the need for him to watch it alone. especially since he always picked girls that were the opposite of me! we have had about 5 big fights about porn. he thinks it's no big deal...i feel betrayed and awful and insecure. i mean, geeze, those girls get their hoo-ha's air brushed! mines not too bad..but it's not air brushed! ugh. and i had kids! so anyway...i gave up, but didn't give in. a few weeks ago i said, hey honey, how would you feel about talking really hot pics of me, or us, and posting them on an anonymous adult site? he was all for it! (of course), so i had some wine, got all dressed up and pretty and we spent the evening taking sexy dirty pics together, and he seemed to suddenly realize i'm kinda pretty. like ';wow honey, these pics are really good';. so, it made me feel really good, it was a whole lot of fun, i got to play dress up and we did it together. the agreement is he can't ever look at the site without me. fair enough. and it's totally anonymous. ours says we live in a totally different country than where we really live, and we have different names also. today i brought it up and we took a bunch more pictures and had a really nice afternoon. better than porn and his hand, i betcha any money!
i know this may not work for everyone...but i just took a chance and said what the hell, i'm his wife, those porn tramps got nothing on me (besides air brushed hoo-ha's!) i'll show him. and it worked! if you feel like this may work for you, i'll be happy to give you the site if you send me an e-mail. you would be really surprised to see how many couples enjoy this, there's thousands of members.
oh and p.s.- when i posted up the new pics from earlier and he heard the computer ding, some goofball sent me an ';add request'; and i was typing a ';not interested'; note..hubby got a little jealous! he said ';what are you doing over there? who are you sending a message to? tell them you just got done with your husband, and have to go do it again!'; it was cute..he was actually a little jealous!
Your feelings are YOURS. He's not ';making'; you feel this way - you've chosen to feel this way.
How do you stop it? Glue his eyes shut.
If he wants to look, he'll do it with or without your consent.
If it's a dealbreaker, tell him it's either you or the porn.
Tell him how you feel. You need to feel good too.
you cant say that ur not bad looking about urself.. u lived with ur face for years so even if ur ugly, u got used to it. consider plastic surgery,,, or maybe its cuz u just plain suck in bed
Talk to him about how that crap makes you feel, and that it hurts you. Ask him how would he like if you watch porn for girls, with hung guys or fat salamis (not that you'll do it but hypothetically speaking). He's manhood will get offended. Or just watch it with him and make comments about the guys, how good they look and things like that, give him a taste of his own medicine. If that don't help, leave him, you deserve better and can find someone who truly loves you. Good luck sweetie.
It is a law of God, if you believe in Him or not, that we can't MAKE anyone do or stop doing anything! It called free-will. If you don't have the courage to stand up for what you believe and who you are,frankly, you deserve what he's doing.I am an older male and I don't care what people think of me when it comes to speaking truth. He's an ignorant man. There are MANY! Maybe he doesn't believe in God. I don't know or care. It's not my business. But, HE'S A HUSBAND!!! What the hell DOES he believe in? That's unfaithfulness! If you tolerate that you're in for a rough ride in life. Women are more emotional than we men. THANK GOD for that because we sure need SOMEBODY to care for our dumb asses! But being tender inside doesn't mean you're stupid! You have to have spine enough to be true to yourself and stand for right - whatever the cost! As long as most men think that all you'll do is ';*****'; then that's a green light to a testosterone laden idiot. Just be sure when you put your foot down that you mean it! Because foolish men WILL test you to know. Many a good woman has been lost because of this stupid, superior, aggressive testing behavior. Porn is addictive! A man's use of it, or a woman's for that matter, is selfishness. His OWN pleasure is all he has in mind. And then some of these stupid men wonder why their marriage fails! Oh, I'm sorry. I forgot. No they don't - It was HER FAULT!
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