But that's close to the beach and restaurants. Were just staying for 3 nights.I'm taking my husband to South Beach for his birthday. Where can we stay that is affordable and clean?
I went last month and stayed at a place called the Deauville. I rented a room with 2 double beds for 2 nights and it came out to a little more than 250. I suppose if you are staying an extra night you might add another 100 to this. We got the booking from Expedia so try there for other recommendations and good prices. You can book online, too.
The Deauville has a large art deco lobby, really cool looking. It is RIGHT on the beach. Beautiful water. They also have their own sun deck, hot tub, and swimming pool. The location is about 15 minutes from South Beach and once you're across the bridge you're in the heart of Miami. The room was nicely decorated and had good views of the city, too.
Saturday, January 9, 2010
Can the medication my husband take be harmful for the baby we are trying to concieve?
He is on heart pressure tablets and movalis can this pass into the sperm?Can the medication my husband take be harmful for the baby we are trying to concieve?
My husband was on blood pressure meds... we are pregnant and all is fine.
You should have him take vitamins though..this can help your chances of conceiving! Make sure you are taking your prenatal vitamins in case you get pregnant and don't know it. : )Can the medication my husband take be harmful for the baby we are trying to concieve?
No, drugs cannot pass into sperm.
The only risk is when the woman is pregnant and taking medications which can cross the placenta and affect the baby.
The medicine may affect the sperms which in turn may affect the chance of conceiving. Check with the professional for advice!
It is not harmful to the baby unless you are taking it.
maybe into the semen, but not into the genes, you're safe.
My husband was on blood pressure meds... we are pregnant and all is fine.
You should have him take vitamins though..this can help your chances of conceiving! Make sure you are taking your prenatal vitamins in case you get pregnant and don't know it. : )Can the medication my husband take be harmful for the baby we are trying to concieve?
No, drugs cannot pass into sperm.
The only risk is when the woman is pregnant and taking medications which can cross the placenta and affect the baby.
The medicine may affect the sperms which in turn may affect the chance of conceiving. Check with the professional for advice!
It is not harmful to the baby unless you are taking it.
maybe into the semen, but not into the genes, you're safe.
Whats the name of the book written by a lady whose husband went to the beach one evening and disappeared?
I believe it happended in 1999. I saw a write up about it in People Magazine. I think she is somewhat a public figure?? If you know what book I am talking about, have you read it? Is it any good?Whats the name of the book written by a lady whose husband went to the beach one evening and disappeared?
Olivia newton John?????
Olivia newton John?????
Has your bf or husband ever gave you a ruler cut to his length with a key ring attached that's his girth size?
I use it as my key ring and I thought it was creative and sexy. What do you think?Has your bf or husband ever gave you a ruler cut to his length with a key ring attached that's his girth size?
Wow, that's an interesting idea to say the least! Where did you get that idea from anyway?
But to answer the question, no, I never have. And really all but two guys in my past along with my current boyfriend would even feel comfy enough about their size to go along with the idea!Has your bf or husband ever gave you a ruler cut to his length with a key ring attached that's his girth size?
So...this all begs the question of, just how long is this ruler then? lol... That'd make me wanna borrow it too!
lol 7 and a half. He's quite proud of himself. I don't complain. ;)
I agree it totally sounds cute and sexy, and a completely brilliant plan for a gift. I think I gotta try that for my wife. I'm sure she'd appreciate that as a contant reminder of my my nicely endowed package that I have.
I have never given out this idea as a gift to my lover, but it is a creative and sexy idea. I agree!!
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if i get something that looks like her box.. xx
Wow, that's an interesting idea to say the least! Where did you get that idea from anyway?
But to answer the question, no, I never have. And really all but two guys in my past along with my current boyfriend would even feel comfy enough about their size to go along with the idea!Has your bf or husband ever gave you a ruler cut to his length with a key ring attached that's his girth size?
So...this all begs the question of, just how long is this ruler then? lol... That'd make me wanna borrow it too!
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lol 7 and a half. He's quite proud of himself. I don't complain. ;)
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I agree it totally sounds cute and sexy, and a completely brilliant plan for a gift. I think I gotta try that for my wife. I'm sure she'd appreciate that as a contant reminder of my my nicely endowed package that I have.
I have never given out this idea as a gift to my lover, but it is a creative and sexy idea. I agree!!
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if i get something that looks like her box.. xx
Should i let my husband have so much liberty?
I am 19 years old and my husband is 21 we have been married for 6 months and he wants to sometimes go out with his friends, i dont think is right because we just got married and i want him to be home with me. when he goes out he comes home early but i still get mad when he doesnt take me. Now he stoped going out but i wonder Im wrong for doing this?? or is this how it should be? what should i do?Should i let my husband have so much liberty?
im 17 and married,i love how you being young has anything to do with your husband going out. People are so stupid!
Neway, my husband and i have a rule, the only time we go out without each other is when the other cant go. (work, tired, w.e)
if you dont feel comfortable with him going out by himself, try to talk to him! You guys are newlyweds so I totally understand!
Its natural for you to want him for yourself !!
I personally dont think its right for him to be at the bar or club, but maybe at a friends watching sports or something i could understand.
My husband and i had a long talk before we got married and went over what was ok with us!
I think its time for you guys to do the same!!
Good Luck and congratulations!!!! I think its awesome your married young, you have the rest of your lives together!!!!!!
Just to add my husband doesnt hangout with any single men, we thought that woulb be another good thing so we are both comfortable!Should i let my husband have so much liberty?
If you continue to stifle your husband by ';chaining'; him to you 24 hours a day and not allow him to have friends outside of your marriage you run the risk of having him dislike you and more. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership. That means that he should be able to continue to see his friends so long as he respects you and spends time with you as his primary but he can interract with friends as well. By the same token there is no reason why you can't continue to see your girlfriends so long as you don't do so at the exclusion of your husband. You'll have your time with each other too. You just have to manage your time like every other married couple.
No, you are not wrong for feeling the way you do. Long-term marriages are successful when couples do everything on weekends as a couple. He's trying to have it all--married benefits and a bachelor's weekend.
But you are newlyweds, so it will probably take a little time for him to sever the male friendships he has. However, be aware that if his friends are still single, he is going to be put in some awkward situations. The more is gets out with his buddies on the weekend, the more he's going to feel like a bachelor again, and that's not healthy for a married man.
Keep wearing him down, and keep a close eye on him. Don't let him go out when you intuition tells you that there could be trouble where his friends are going. Long-term, he should be able to get out with guy friends less than a dozen times per year, but even then, most of his guy friends need to be married as well.
I am not being mean here, but if you don't know the answer to this you had no business getting married to begin with. I know from my own experience that getting married, having children are really the biggest things in most people's lives. People who get married as young as you have, have a fairytale approach to marriage. Little cottage, white picket fence and all. But the reality sets in sooner or later it does not work that way. You are already treading in dangerous waters with the inference in your question about YOU giving him liberty. You are not over him nor he you. But it is a partnership. You state he does not stay out late and he only wants to go out sometimes, you should count your blessings. Now, what would you think or feel if it was you wanting to go out with your friends and he got all upset? You two fell in love with the persons you are. don't try and change each other and don't try and control each other! If you push this, he will resent you and start pulling away from you.
I understand that you are newly married but you have to understand too that a man needs his friends just as much as a woman needs hers. They love you and they come home to you but they need that alone time and even though you may not realize it now you will want that girl time as well. My husband is a homebody but every now and then one of his friends will ask him to go out and the first thing he does is ask me if that is alright. I trust him and love him very much and as long as he doesn't lie to me about where he is going then I don't care what he does. A strong relationship has to have trust and communication or it will eventually fall apart. Give him this time alone with just the guys until he proves that he can't do it. Don't limit him because if you do it will push him farther away a little at a time. You are young and so is he and I am willing to bet there is a little dis trust between the two of you and that is probably why you feel that it is not right to go out with the guys. There should be no problem as long as it is not a every night thing. Good Luck
you need to let him go out. Obviously you got married to young and didnt realize that just because you are married does not mean that you cannot have friends and have nights out with those friends. You husband has every right to go out without you and you have every right to go out with ur friends. If you make him stay home all the time he is going to start getting pissed about it. I mean he comes home early, he doesnt come home trashed, he isnt cheating on you so what is the issue with him going out?
You haven't been married long enough to figure out how to live with each other and yet you are trying to conceive...Good luck with that.
He's right to want to go out with his friends. He is himself outside of your marriage...Marriage doesn't mean you stop being who you are or stop hanging out with friends or stop watching movies your wife doesn't like. It means you commit to another person - not submit yourself over to their every whim.
Until you can figure that out - stop trying to make a baby - a baby will rip apart an already troubled marriage.
You should give him some freedom but a good leeway. Always ask him to text you or call you on where he is and who he is with, and when he is coming home. Don't get too paranoid because a lot of times men get scared away that way. You just got married and I understand that there are insecurities. When he doesn't take you just be calm and ask him the details and try to look in to what he says. It helps a lot with your judgment. If he stopped for you, good for both of you. Just trust him and try to make the most of building a healthy and happy marriage.
I'm no psychologist but this is out of seeing other peoples many mistakes.
You both are going to have to compromise. You don't want to suffocate him by not letting him ever go out with friends. However, he is married now and can't go out all the time like he is single again.
The answer is to find other COUPLES to do stuff with. That way, you both get to have fun and spend time with each other. But you should have time with your friends and he should have some time with his friends.
You will have a lifetime together and you just have to work through problems like this all the time if you are going to make it.
You're being to strict...he has a right to go out sometimes with his friends...you say he's home early and all and that he's even stopped going out now...you're being way to strict, the poor guy in only 21...you should go out with your own friends too...and let him go out with his friends......Also, I warn you that he'll eventually get tired of you being a pain in the ***...
I got married young and honestly I know how it is to want to spend all your time with him, but you can't have him cut them off completely. It will make him resent you and possibly regret his decision. Let him go Once in a while. As long as he's home at a reasonable time. I think it'll be good for you both. Sometimes short absences does make the heart grow fonder.Don't you have friends too?
everybody is different, some like to be attached at the hip and others don't both relationships work which one are you? which one is he? I can't say for sure this is going to cause issue that lead to bigger problem but these things all add up. I think there is more behind this story to be honest, perhaps that is why you two got married so young, before you have completely grown and understand what you want to focus on for a life. What is so wrong with either one of you having personal time with friends?
I think he has a right to have guys night without you.
As long as its not every nite of the week, then I don't see a problem with forcing him to be home with you. Let the man have some friends... its healthy to have friends and a social life outside of marriage. Its unhealthy to completely rely on your spouse for all your social interactions.
Why don't you call up a girlfriend, join your husband and his friends for outing. Go as a couple and plan outings like amusement parks, get some bikes or go house hunting. Also check for activities in your area, use the web to find some. Cook a dinner for two. Heck make a baby. Be creative you both are young have fun and enjoy each other.
there is absolutely nothing wrong with your hubby spending time with his friends, nor you with yours. it is important to have some alone time in a relationship. i assume you trust your husband and his love for you, so letting him ';out'; from time to time should not be a bit stressful for you.
at this age this is completely normal. let him do what he wants. if you stop him he will get frustrated and start to hate you. a man at age 21 is not supposed to sit at home. he should do it now, rather than at age of 37 with children isn't it?
you need to let him have time with his friends too. agree on one nite of the week for guys nite but not on the weekends those should be for the two of you to spend together. and on other side you should have girls nite to go out with your friends too
Wow since you guys are so young this is going to be a tough road. I would still encourage him to go, but i would also let him know that you are also coming. I think its ok for him to have his guy time, but that doesn't mean the bar. Just my opinion though
Guys need a little guy time to stay mentally healthy. If he's home early and it's just once in a while I don't think you have any right to complain.
Do you have friends you go out with? If you don't, maybe you should start doing that, so you feel some fairness here.
Hold on to him too tight, and you'll lose him because he will come to resent you.
This won't last long.
You both still get to be people, you know. Individuals. Not two parts of the same animal.
Keep your own life. If you spend every moment together, what the hell will you have to talk about?
Maybe you should try to have nights where you know that you will BOTH be going out - with different groups of people. That way he can go out with his friends and you won't feel left out.
Let him have one night a week with his friends, and you go with yours the same night. Any more than that is too much.
You got married way too young!
just let him go don't you trust him
sure !!!
well that depends in what kind of friends he go out with
Speaking as someone who got married really young- I used to feel the same way. My husband always had a Night out with the boys but when he wanted to go out 3+ nights a week, I started getting annoyed and asked him to make an effort to spend more time at home.
His solution was valiant, and he stopped going out at all, trying to be committed to our marriage. I immediately felt guilty because I hadn't asked him not to go out at all, but that's what he did.
Trust me, it didn't take long at all before he resented me- a lot! He got really depressed being home all the time and isolated from his friends, and it was my fault because he was only staying in to make me happy.
We ended up having a really long talk about both sides of what happened, and he started going out again 1-2 nights a week. He was happier- and I was happier too. I hated seeing him that way, and it wasn't fair. Our was more of a Mis-Communication- but the effects can still be devastating. Don't make that same mistake. A new marriage has it's own difficulties, and marrying young only makes for more... pick your battles, or no matter how much you love each other- your marriage will suffer.
Hope this helps. Good Luck!
Hell no you are not wrong. But....umm he is young...and wants to party....so....you guys were too young to get married anyways.how to apply acne
im 17 and married,i love how you being young has anything to do with your husband going out. People are so stupid!
Neway, my husband and i have a rule, the only time we go out without each other is when the other cant go. (work, tired, w.e)
if you dont feel comfortable with him going out by himself, try to talk to him! You guys are newlyweds so I totally understand!
Its natural for you to want him for yourself !!
I personally dont think its right for him to be at the bar or club, but maybe at a friends watching sports or something i could understand.
My husband and i had a long talk before we got married and went over what was ok with us!
I think its time for you guys to do the same!!
Good Luck and congratulations!!!! I think its awesome your married young, you have the rest of your lives together!!!!!!
Just to add my husband doesnt hangout with any single men, we thought that woulb be another good thing so we are both comfortable!Should i let my husband have so much liberty?
If you continue to stifle your husband by ';chaining'; him to you 24 hours a day and not allow him to have friends outside of your marriage you run the risk of having him dislike you and more. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership. That means that he should be able to continue to see his friends so long as he respects you and spends time with you as his primary but he can interract with friends as well. By the same token there is no reason why you can't continue to see your girlfriends so long as you don't do so at the exclusion of your husband. You'll have your time with each other too. You just have to manage your time like every other married couple.
No, you are not wrong for feeling the way you do. Long-term marriages are successful when couples do everything on weekends as a couple. He's trying to have it all--married benefits and a bachelor's weekend.
But you are newlyweds, so it will probably take a little time for him to sever the male friendships he has. However, be aware that if his friends are still single, he is going to be put in some awkward situations. The more is gets out with his buddies on the weekend, the more he's going to feel like a bachelor again, and that's not healthy for a married man.
Keep wearing him down, and keep a close eye on him. Don't let him go out when you intuition tells you that there could be trouble where his friends are going. Long-term, he should be able to get out with guy friends less than a dozen times per year, but even then, most of his guy friends need to be married as well.
I am not being mean here, but if you don't know the answer to this you had no business getting married to begin with. I know from my own experience that getting married, having children are really the biggest things in most people's lives. People who get married as young as you have, have a fairytale approach to marriage. Little cottage, white picket fence and all. But the reality sets in sooner or later it does not work that way. You are already treading in dangerous waters with the inference in your question about YOU giving him liberty. You are not over him nor he you. But it is a partnership. You state he does not stay out late and he only wants to go out sometimes, you should count your blessings. Now, what would you think or feel if it was you wanting to go out with your friends and he got all upset? You two fell in love with the persons you are. don't try and change each other and don't try and control each other! If you push this, he will resent you and start pulling away from you.
I understand that you are newly married but you have to understand too that a man needs his friends just as much as a woman needs hers. They love you and they come home to you but they need that alone time and even though you may not realize it now you will want that girl time as well. My husband is a homebody but every now and then one of his friends will ask him to go out and the first thing he does is ask me if that is alright. I trust him and love him very much and as long as he doesn't lie to me about where he is going then I don't care what he does. A strong relationship has to have trust and communication or it will eventually fall apart. Give him this time alone with just the guys until he proves that he can't do it. Don't limit him because if you do it will push him farther away a little at a time. You are young and so is he and I am willing to bet there is a little dis trust between the two of you and that is probably why you feel that it is not right to go out with the guys. There should be no problem as long as it is not a every night thing. Good Luck
you need to let him go out. Obviously you got married to young and didnt realize that just because you are married does not mean that you cannot have friends and have nights out with those friends. You husband has every right to go out without you and you have every right to go out with ur friends. If you make him stay home all the time he is going to start getting pissed about it. I mean he comes home early, he doesnt come home trashed, he isnt cheating on you so what is the issue with him going out?
You haven't been married long enough to figure out how to live with each other and yet you are trying to conceive...Good luck with that.
He's right to want to go out with his friends. He is himself outside of your marriage...Marriage doesn't mean you stop being who you are or stop hanging out with friends or stop watching movies your wife doesn't like. It means you commit to another person - not submit yourself over to their every whim.
Until you can figure that out - stop trying to make a baby - a baby will rip apart an already troubled marriage.
You should give him some freedom but a good leeway. Always ask him to text you or call you on where he is and who he is with, and when he is coming home. Don't get too paranoid because a lot of times men get scared away that way. You just got married and I understand that there are insecurities. When he doesn't take you just be calm and ask him the details and try to look in to what he says. It helps a lot with your judgment. If he stopped for you, good for both of you. Just trust him and try to make the most of building a healthy and happy marriage.
I'm no psychologist but this is out of seeing other peoples many mistakes.
You both are going to have to compromise. You don't want to suffocate him by not letting him ever go out with friends. However, he is married now and can't go out all the time like he is single again.
The answer is to find other COUPLES to do stuff with. That way, you both get to have fun and spend time with each other. But you should have time with your friends and he should have some time with his friends.
You will have a lifetime together and you just have to work through problems like this all the time if you are going to make it.
You're being to strict...he has a right to go out sometimes with his friends...you say he's home early and all and that he's even stopped going out now...you're being way to strict, the poor guy in only 21...you should go out with your own friends too...and let him go out with his friends......Also, I warn you that he'll eventually get tired of you being a pain in the ***...
I got married young and honestly I know how it is to want to spend all your time with him, but you can't have him cut them off completely. It will make him resent you and possibly regret his decision. Let him go Once in a while. As long as he's home at a reasonable time. I think it'll be good for you both. Sometimes short absences does make the heart grow fonder.Don't you have friends too?
everybody is different, some like to be attached at the hip and others don't both relationships work which one are you? which one is he? I can't say for sure this is going to cause issue that lead to bigger problem but these things all add up. I think there is more behind this story to be honest, perhaps that is why you two got married so young, before you have completely grown and understand what you want to focus on for a life. What is so wrong with either one of you having personal time with friends?
I think he has a right to have guys night without you.
As long as its not every nite of the week, then I don't see a problem with forcing him to be home with you. Let the man have some friends... its healthy to have friends and a social life outside of marriage. Its unhealthy to completely rely on your spouse for all your social interactions.
Why don't you call up a girlfriend, join your husband and his friends for outing. Go as a couple and plan outings like amusement parks, get some bikes or go house hunting. Also check for activities in your area, use the web to find some. Cook a dinner for two. Heck make a baby. Be creative you both are young have fun and enjoy each other.
there is absolutely nothing wrong with your hubby spending time with his friends, nor you with yours. it is important to have some alone time in a relationship. i assume you trust your husband and his love for you, so letting him ';out'; from time to time should not be a bit stressful for you.
at this age this is completely normal. let him do what he wants. if you stop him he will get frustrated and start to hate you. a man at age 21 is not supposed to sit at home. he should do it now, rather than at age of 37 with children isn't it?
you need to let him have time with his friends too. agree on one nite of the week for guys nite but not on the weekends those should be for the two of you to spend together. and on other side you should have girls nite to go out with your friends too
Wow since you guys are so young this is going to be a tough road. I would still encourage him to go, but i would also let him know that you are also coming. I think its ok for him to have his guy time, but that doesn't mean the bar. Just my opinion though
Guys need a little guy time to stay mentally healthy. If he's home early and it's just once in a while I don't think you have any right to complain.
Do you have friends you go out with? If you don't, maybe you should start doing that, so you feel some fairness here.
Hold on to him too tight, and you'll lose him because he will come to resent you.
This won't last long.
You both still get to be people, you know. Individuals. Not two parts of the same animal.
Keep your own life. If you spend every moment together, what the hell will you have to talk about?
Maybe you should try to have nights where you know that you will BOTH be going out - with different groups of people. That way he can go out with his friends and you won't feel left out.
Let him have one night a week with his friends, and you go with yours the same night. Any more than that is too much.
You got married way too young!
just let him go don't you trust him
sure !!!
well that depends in what kind of friends he go out with
Speaking as someone who got married really young- I used to feel the same way. My husband always had a Night out with the boys but when he wanted to go out 3+ nights a week, I started getting annoyed and asked him to make an effort to spend more time at home.
His solution was valiant, and he stopped going out at all, trying to be committed to our marriage. I immediately felt guilty because I hadn't asked him not to go out at all, but that's what he did.
Trust me, it didn't take long at all before he resented me- a lot! He got really depressed being home all the time and isolated from his friends, and it was my fault because he was only staying in to make me happy.
We ended up having a really long talk about both sides of what happened, and he started going out again 1-2 nights a week. He was happier- and I was happier too. I hated seeing him that way, and it wasn't fair. Our was more of a Mis-Communication- but the effects can still be devastating. Don't make that same mistake. A new marriage has it's own difficulties, and marrying young only makes for more... pick your battles, or no matter how much you love each other- your marriage will suffer.
Hope this helps. Good Luck!
Hell no you are not wrong. But....umm he is young...and wants to party....so....you guys were too young to get married anyways.
Can anybody suggest a 1st anniversary present for a non-sentimental husband?
I've like to get something paper-based, but I'm open to suggestions. He like music, surfing and walking, and I'm stumped for ideas!Can anybody suggest a 1st anniversary present for a non-sentimental husband?
Paper based could be a book on a topic he'd enjoy...or new CDs he'd enjoy, surfing accessories, or a new pair of walking shoes or maybe an mp3 to listen to.
If he likes to build/repair things, tools are always a good choice. Maybe a power tool he doesn't already have.
He's your husband, you know him better than we...we can only guess at what he might like.Can anybody suggest a 1st anniversary present for a non-sentimental husband?
One unique idea you should think about is a personalized Photo Collage Jigsaw Puzzle. This can bring together all your husband's favorite things into one composite photo collage layout and the enjoyment of solving the puzzle.
A Photo Collage is easy to order. Just send the guys at jigsaw2order.com a collection of his favorite photos and specify other themes such as Boston Terriers, Snoopy and favorite movies that you want to include. 10-20 photos usually works best. You can also specify the words to a favorite song or poem. Based on your photos and input, let the professional designers at jigsaw2order.com create a unique photo collage layout for your approval before making it into a puzzle. Don't worry, you get a chance to review and approve the photo collage design before they make a puzzle. Once completed, it can be framed and put on the wall as a great keepsake.
My husband and I are celebrating our one year anniversary in September. We're flying down to Vegas for 4 days (long weekend) so the paper element will be our plane tickets!
We're going to have Elvis renew our wedding vows on the day of our wedding anniversary. We had the huge, expensive wedding in Toronto last year so we're going to do a crazy ';wedding'; this year. Neither of us have been to Vegas so we've already got a ton of stuff we want to do when we're down there (suggestions are always appreciated for those who've been !!)
We've agreed to renew our vows every year some place we've never been before %26lt;3 %26lt;3 I think it's a really special way to celebrate a marriage that people so often forget to cherish!
Just see if you can find a copy of sheet music for his favorite group or song %26amp; frame it %26amp; wrap it your self.
If he is truly non sentimental these events will mean more to you every time, it does not matter how many years or which event, he just may never ';get it';.
Spend the money on some good food and wine. Stay home, but be wearing a garter belt, stockings and high heels, but nothing else! Have dinner cooking and let him find you dressed like this.
Make passionate love all night, in different rooms, but not the bedroom! Kitchen, dining room (on the table)in the slower.
Re-live the honeymoon!
When you both are out shopping, what does he usually stop and look at for longer time? Cd? Hp gadgets? Cd player? Surfing boards?Tour packages? These can give you clues on what to get for him.
Or a pic of you and him together with a hand-written love note to remind him that you still appreciate being his wife. That is lovely too.A good sentimental night with him will be a great way to melt his heart.:)
I think you'll like this one...
Why not get him a gift voucher for wakeboarding - that way you've given him something made of paper, but it's actually an experience to do something he'll love!
Check http://www.treathim.com/product/wakeboarding_discovery
The first anniversary is traditionally paper, so I would suggest a funny card with a ticket to a concert.
Go to the website of ';I want one of those'; where you will find dozens of gadgets and toys and ideas for event-treats like driving tanks or white-water rafting
paperbased?! What? How about you get him a new surfboard or anything related to something he likes to do.
carve his name in a tree trunk then take him for a picnic near the tree and tell him thats his gift, he'll be tickled pink.
Most men are unsentimental. Men like sex, so I agree with the first answer.
men like sex.. get a hotel room and go to victorias secret and learn how to do a strip tease.. he will like that.
concert tickets?? you said he liked music, and those are paper! Get two for a band you both like. Build some memories!
a wallet
Beer...all men like beer.
Paper based could be a book on a topic he'd enjoy...or new CDs he'd enjoy, surfing accessories, or a new pair of walking shoes or maybe an mp3 to listen to.
If he likes to build/repair things, tools are always a good choice. Maybe a power tool he doesn't already have.
He's your husband, you know him better than we...we can only guess at what he might like.Can anybody suggest a 1st anniversary present for a non-sentimental husband?
One unique idea you should think about is a personalized Photo Collage Jigsaw Puzzle. This can bring together all your husband's favorite things into one composite photo collage layout and the enjoyment of solving the puzzle.
A Photo Collage is easy to order. Just send the guys at jigsaw2order.com a collection of his favorite photos and specify other themes such as Boston Terriers, Snoopy and favorite movies that you want to include. 10-20 photos usually works best. You can also specify the words to a favorite song or poem. Based on your photos and input, let the professional designers at jigsaw2order.com create a unique photo collage layout for your approval before making it into a puzzle. Don't worry, you get a chance to review and approve the photo collage design before they make a puzzle. Once completed, it can be framed and put on the wall as a great keepsake.
My husband and I are celebrating our one year anniversary in September. We're flying down to Vegas for 4 days (long weekend) so the paper element will be our plane tickets!
We're going to have Elvis renew our wedding vows on the day of our wedding anniversary. We had the huge, expensive wedding in Toronto last year so we're going to do a crazy ';wedding'; this year. Neither of us have been to Vegas so we've already got a ton of stuff we want to do when we're down there (suggestions are always appreciated for those who've been !!)
We've agreed to renew our vows every year some place we've never been before %26lt;3 %26lt;3 I think it's a really special way to celebrate a marriage that people so often forget to cherish!
Just see if you can find a copy of sheet music for his favorite group or song %26amp; frame it %26amp; wrap it your self.
If he is truly non sentimental these events will mean more to you every time, it does not matter how many years or which event, he just may never ';get it';.
Spend the money on some good food and wine. Stay home, but be wearing a garter belt, stockings and high heels, but nothing else! Have dinner cooking and let him find you dressed like this.
Make passionate love all night, in different rooms, but not the bedroom! Kitchen, dining room (on the table)in the slower.
Re-live the honeymoon!
When you both are out shopping, what does he usually stop and look at for longer time? Cd? Hp gadgets? Cd player? Surfing boards?Tour packages? These can give you clues on what to get for him.
Or a pic of you and him together with a hand-written love note to remind him that you still appreciate being his wife. That is lovely too.A good sentimental night with him will be a great way to melt his heart.:)
I think you'll like this one...
Why not get him a gift voucher for wakeboarding - that way you've given him something made of paper, but it's actually an experience to do something he'll love!
Check http://www.treathim.com/product/wakeboarding_discovery
The first anniversary is traditionally paper, so I would suggest a funny card with a ticket to a concert.
Go to the website of ';I want one of those'; where you will find dozens of gadgets and toys and ideas for event-treats like driving tanks or white-water rafting
paperbased?! What? How about you get him a new surfboard or anything related to something he likes to do.
carve his name in a tree trunk then take him for a picnic near the tree and tell him thats his gift, he'll be tickled pink.
Most men are unsentimental. Men like sex, so I agree with the first answer.
men like sex.. get a hotel room and go to victorias secret and learn how to do a strip tease.. he will like that.
concert tickets?? you said he liked music, and those are paper! Get two for a band you both like. Build some memories!
a wallet
Beer...all men like beer.
I would like my husband to put a archway in my supporting wall ?
but the wall is made of concrete blocks, i know a lintel would have to go in , but how would he knock out the wall ?
any good building advice would be appreicatedI would like my husband to put a archway in my supporting wall ?
its not a case of supporting the ceilings as the guy here says a supporting wall supports the rafters to the roof if it is a Victorian house if it is a mo den house then it supports only the upper floors as they have trada trusses so have a survey done by a builder he will give quote and go for it properly as it is the most expensive thing you own and you might want to sell it one day and it will show up if it isn't done properlyI would like my husband to put a archway in my supporting wall ?
If your husband doesn't have any experience in this department, it really sounds like the sort of thing a licensed contractor should do. If things go wrong, damage to a supporting wall could result in serious structural damage to your house. Building temporary supports is a tricky business and if you're going to be messing around with a supporting wall, it's advisable to be really sure of what you're doing. Not really the kind of advice you're looking for, maybe, but...
You would have to support the ceilings on either side of the wall with ackro bars, and then take away enough of the wall to put in your RSJ, when the RSJ is sound take away the lower part of the wall.
You also by law have to get building regulation approval, showing plans of the structural alteration and making sure it complies. If you don't not only are you risking a fiasco, you may well have problems if you sell. Do it properly and professionally it will be cheaper in the end.
any good building advice would be appreicatedI would like my husband to put a archway in my supporting wall ?
its not a case of supporting the ceilings as the guy here says a supporting wall supports the rafters to the roof if it is a Victorian house if it is a mo den house then it supports only the upper floors as they have trada trusses so have a survey done by a builder he will give quote and go for it properly as it is the most expensive thing you own and you might want to sell it one day and it will show up if it isn't done properlyI would like my husband to put a archway in my supporting wall ?
If your husband doesn't have any experience in this department, it really sounds like the sort of thing a licensed contractor should do. If things go wrong, damage to a supporting wall could result in serious structural damage to your house. Building temporary supports is a tricky business and if you're going to be messing around with a supporting wall, it's advisable to be really sure of what you're doing. Not really the kind of advice you're looking for, maybe, but...
You would have to support the ceilings on either side of the wall with ackro bars, and then take away enough of the wall to put in your RSJ, when the RSJ is sound take away the lower part of the wall.
You also by law have to get building regulation approval, showing plans of the structural alteration and making sure it complies. If you don't not only are you risking a fiasco, you may well have problems if you sell. Do it properly and professionally it will be cheaper in the end.
Can my mr fixit husband install a cpu fan?
My husband can fix anything. If he's never done it, he can always figure it out. Does it take any special computer knowledge to install a cpu fan?Can my mr fixit husband install a cpu fan?
Yes, it's possible to almost everyone.
Take note: Many fan makes noises as they spin. This is because they spin too fast and its too close to the CPU and thus making a noise. But this only happens if the CPU is too hot OR the heatsink is not seated properly on the CPU, the contact is loose between CPU and the heatsink.
Check the heatsink and make sure it's fairly seated and the CPU is not overclocked.
Good luck!Can my mr fixit husband install a cpu fan?
its probably just in need of dusting
be careful not to dirty up your board
use a high pressure spray first and
clean it.
good luck
make sure ur grounded
One Important Point!! Make sure he cleans the old thermal paste off the CPU and apply NEW paste prior to putting the new fan on. If not..well within no time he'll be replacing the CPU and that could be expensive depending the the type of cpu.
1. Yes. It is very simple to replace a CPU fan. Power supplies are another story. Your husband could probably figure it out very easily.
2. Yes, it probably needs to be changed. This usually indicates that it is wearing out, and should be replaced to prevent damage to the CPU.
anyone can do it!
Yes, it's possible to almost everyone.
Take note: Many fan makes noises as they spin. This is because they spin too fast and its too close to the CPU and thus making a noise. But this only happens if the CPU is too hot OR the heatsink is not seated properly on the CPU, the contact is loose between CPU and the heatsink.
Check the heatsink and make sure it's fairly seated and the CPU is not overclocked.
Good luck!Can my mr fixit husband install a cpu fan?
its probably just in need of dusting
be careful not to dirty up your board
use a high pressure spray first and
clean it.
good luck
make sure ur grounded
One Important Point!! Make sure he cleans the old thermal paste off the CPU and apply NEW paste prior to putting the new fan on. If not..well within no time he'll be replacing the CPU and that could be expensive depending the the type of cpu.
1. Yes. It is very simple to replace a CPU fan. Power supplies are another story. Your husband could probably figure it out very easily.
2. Yes, it probably needs to be changed. This usually indicates that it is wearing out, and should be replaced to prevent damage to the CPU.
anyone can do it!
What course should my husband take about paying for state tax that was mistakenly not withheld from his pay.?
My husband's retarded company didn't take state tax out and now we owe a couple thousand. Is there a way to set up a payment plan with them?What course should my husband take about paying for state tax that was mistakenly not withheld from his pay.?
Since you failed to identify one VERY key piece of information...Which state you are even talking about.....the best course of action is to contact the state tax authority. By the way, your husband is not too smart either for not noticing that his company did not take out any taxes for the whole year! Take responsibility for your actions and don't look to always blame someone else for your blunder!What course should my husband take about paying for state tax that was mistakenly not withheld from his pay.?
You'd have to check with the state and see if that's possible.
Since you don't tell us what state you're talking about, it would be pretty hard for us to give you an informed answer.
(Didn't he ever look at his pay stubs during the year?)
If you can't pay it straight away, yes, contact the state tax agency and try to set up a payment plan. Correct his withholding and review pay statements carefully to prevent a repeat.
Since you failed to identify one VERY key piece of information...Which state you are even talking about.....the best course of action is to contact the state tax authority. By the way, your husband is not too smart either for not noticing that his company did not take out any taxes for the whole year! Take responsibility for your actions and don't look to always blame someone else for your blunder!What course should my husband take about paying for state tax that was mistakenly not withheld from his pay.?
You'd have to check with the state and see if that's possible.
Since you don't tell us what state you're talking about, it would be pretty hard for us to give you an informed answer.
(Didn't he ever look at his pay stubs during the year?)
If you can't pay it straight away, yes, contact the state tax agency and try to set up a payment plan. Correct his withholding and review pay statements carefully to prevent a repeat.
How to get my husband in the mood?
My husband and I do not have sex that often.I am 24 years old and he is 37 and he tells that he is just not that interested. I find that hard to believe. I have tried talking and I have tried a little bit of starting it myself, but I just don't know what to do anymore. I know that sex is not all of a relationship, but it does affect it. Please help me.How to get my husband in the mood?
Sex is one of those things that the less you have it, the less you want it.
So, because you two weren't having it that often, he felt like it less and less. Does that make any sense?
YOUR task is to get him interested again, and you might have to do that gradually. Why gradually? Because he is not that interested in the thought of it!
An e-book at website http://www.bringbackthespark.com helped couple friends get their ';spark'; back again - it might help yours. It doesn't cost a lot but seemed right on the money to get back that warmth and intimacy. It suggested things that brought them back to feeling ';together with each other and wanting each other';, but it did it in a gradual way.
Also, don't go all out bugging him for it all the time, or you may make it worse by putting undue pressure on him. Good luck.How to get my husband in the mood?
You really need to talk together about this issue. Your still a young vibrant woman, and your sexual peak is quickly approaching. If he has no interest in your sexual needs, then you both have some serious issues to address in this relationship. Sex is a major component in all marriages, and the loss of, or lack of will cause tensions and problems down the road. Maybe you could work out date nights in which you both can do something new and exciting together, to regenerate that spark in your marriage. You may need to roll play some activities in the bedroom, that will also spice up the action. Good luck to you and your husband.
You are right sex is not everything in a relationship. And just like air isn't everything you need to live take away water and see how long you can go before you have problems. Sex is the same way in a relationship. There is some underlying problem. Talk to him find out how much he would like to have in a week in a month.
If you asked my wife how often she would like to have sex she would say 2 to 3 times a week. ask me 5 to 7 times a week. But we compromise and we some times have sex 5 times a week sometimes 3.
just stop looking like you are desperate...i'd suggest to you that you stop mentioning sex in front of your husband and keep a stop on it for a while...start acting as if you are not interested anymore either.
the possible reactions to this is going to be that (add an air of carelessness in your attitude but don't over do it)
1)your husband will get curious...
2)it will make him think more about your new attitude...and he'll start fantasizing...
3)when he starts thinking a lot about you and your carelessness it will start stimulating him...(develop a new interest if he still does have libido) and it depends on you when to break the ice. But remember not to over do it...
This is probably because your husband has reached that point in life where his sexual peak is declining or has already declined. The best thing that he could probably do is get some Viagra. Talk to him about it. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. It works and that's why it sells. In addition you could try putting on some sexy outfits, flirting with him. Even suggest role playing to him. If he turns it down, you could always order the Viagra, crunch it up, and slit it into his portion of his food. I know, it's not a honest or good idea. But, it could re-unit the spark and get him in the mood.
Has your husband felt that way since you got married? Talking about it is good and not interested is not an answer to a serious question. There more going on with him then that and one should step on this lightly, you don't want him to feel as if he cant talk, stop asking for a while and find out whats going on with him inside. You can do little things for him that show him you were thinking about him, little post notes, breakfast in bed/ or cup of coffee. body rubs using lotions until he falls asleep. picnic in the living room watching one of his favorite movies things like that. But you should have other things that keep you busy that your focus isn't always on or about him. Go out with girls, read a book while he watching t.v. work out in the yard, take a class or join a gym or a club. Show interest but not. things will turn around.
If he won't get some viagra, find a guy like me who's wife has lost all interest in sex and have a mutually satisfying affair. Sex is a very important part of a relationship. If you're other wise happy, don't give everything up for this one aspect.
Get yourslef a soft and fluffy white robe. After supper one night, take a shower and put on a little perfume.
I find a freshly showered woman that smells nice and is wearing an easily accessible all white robe to be completely irresistable.
Look out baby!
if hes not interested in u thats a big problem but if hes still affectionate and shows u he loves u in other ways then i wouldnt worry so much,but if he is completley just not interested in you then hes going to look else where to get his,find out if hes having an affair
not interested in what?? well if he is still interested in you get some cute lingere high heels and a stripper pole do your hair and makeup sit him in a chair and tell him to get his dollars out and go from there
try buying some nice new lingerie and set the mood in the bedroom...lighting, satin bed sheets, wine...use your imagination...that might help a little...good luck.
you need to find out why he,s not interested and work on that hopefully he,s not cheating on you ?
good luck
Does he have a pulse,i am 40 and still have a healthy sex drive
I'll do it with you.
why did you marry such an old man?
take his *** to a doctor...
Sex is one of those things that the less you have it, the less you want it.
So, because you two weren't having it that often, he felt like it less and less. Does that make any sense?
YOUR task is to get him interested again, and you might have to do that gradually. Why gradually? Because he is not that interested in the thought of it!
An e-book at website http://www.bringbackthespark.com helped couple friends get their ';spark'; back again - it might help yours. It doesn't cost a lot but seemed right on the money to get back that warmth and intimacy. It suggested things that brought them back to feeling ';together with each other and wanting each other';, but it did it in a gradual way.
Also, don't go all out bugging him for it all the time, or you may make it worse by putting undue pressure on him. Good luck.How to get my husband in the mood?
You really need to talk together about this issue. Your still a young vibrant woman, and your sexual peak is quickly approaching. If he has no interest in your sexual needs, then you both have some serious issues to address in this relationship. Sex is a major component in all marriages, and the loss of, or lack of will cause tensions and problems down the road. Maybe you could work out date nights in which you both can do something new and exciting together, to regenerate that spark in your marriage. You may need to roll play some activities in the bedroom, that will also spice up the action. Good luck to you and your husband.
You are right sex is not everything in a relationship. And just like air isn't everything you need to live take away water and see how long you can go before you have problems. Sex is the same way in a relationship. There is some underlying problem. Talk to him find out how much he would like to have in a week in a month.
If you asked my wife how often she would like to have sex she would say 2 to 3 times a week. ask me 5 to 7 times a week. But we compromise and we some times have sex 5 times a week sometimes 3.
just stop looking like you are desperate...i'd suggest to you that you stop mentioning sex in front of your husband and keep a stop on it for a while...start acting as if you are not interested anymore either.
the possible reactions to this is going to be that (add an air of carelessness in your attitude but don't over do it)
1)your husband will get curious...
2)it will make him think more about your new attitude...and he'll start fantasizing...
3)when he starts thinking a lot about you and your carelessness it will start stimulating him...(develop a new interest if he still does have libido) and it depends on you when to break the ice. But remember not to over do it...
This is probably because your husband has reached that point in life where his sexual peak is declining or has already declined. The best thing that he could probably do is get some Viagra. Talk to him about it. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. It works and that's why it sells. In addition you could try putting on some sexy outfits, flirting with him. Even suggest role playing to him. If he turns it down, you could always order the Viagra, crunch it up, and slit it into his portion of his food. I know, it's not a honest or good idea. But, it could re-unit the spark and get him in the mood.
Has your husband felt that way since you got married? Talking about it is good and not interested is not an answer to a serious question. There more going on with him then that and one should step on this lightly, you don't want him to feel as if he cant talk, stop asking for a while and find out whats going on with him inside. You can do little things for him that show him you were thinking about him, little post notes, breakfast in bed/ or cup of coffee. body rubs using lotions until he falls asleep. picnic in the living room watching one of his favorite movies things like that. But you should have other things that keep you busy that your focus isn't always on or about him. Go out with girls, read a book while he watching t.v. work out in the yard, take a class or join a gym or a club. Show interest but not. things will turn around.
If he won't get some viagra, find a guy like me who's wife has lost all interest in sex and have a mutually satisfying affair. Sex is a very important part of a relationship. If you're other wise happy, don't give everything up for this one aspect.
Get yourslef a soft and fluffy white robe. After supper one night, take a shower and put on a little perfume.
I find a freshly showered woman that smells nice and is wearing an easily accessible all white robe to be completely irresistable.
Look out baby!
if hes not interested in u thats a big problem but if hes still affectionate and shows u he loves u in other ways then i wouldnt worry so much,but if he is completley just not interested in you then hes going to look else where to get his,find out if hes having an affair
not interested in what?? well if he is still interested in you get some cute lingere high heels and a stripper pole do your hair and makeup sit him in a chair and tell him to get his dollars out and go from there
try buying some nice new lingerie and set the mood in the bedroom...lighting, satin bed sheets, wine...use your imagination...that might help a little...good luck.
you need to find out why he,s not interested and work on that hopefully he,s not cheating on you ?
good luck
Does he have a pulse,i am 40 and still have a healthy sex drive
I'll do it with you.
why did you marry such an old man?
take his *** to a doctor...
What to get my husband for Christmas?
Ok my husband works i stay at home with our 2 year old. I never get him anything for Christmas because he says he dont want anything. But me and our son. LOL I wished i could think of something special to do. Just maybe for him even if it dont cost money. Any ideas?What to get my husband for Christmas?
have a friend or family member shoot some pictures of you and your son in a nice scenic spot! go out to the park, or even to the mall in front of their huge tree or something! just take a bunch of different poses..some of just you, some of just your son, and some of you both together..pick out the best ones and print them out and stick it in one of those frames that you can fit a few photos in..those are like $10-$15 in the stores for a nice one.
you can make him a coupon book also filled with things you can do for him...make your favorite meal, breakfast in bed, have control of the remote all day, wash your car inside and out, boys night out, and any naughty things you can think of!
burn a CD of all his favorite songs all on one CD that he can listen to all the timeWhat to get my husband for Christmas?
If he uses a computer at work [most of us do], how about a mousepad that has a picture of you and your son on it? It's an inexpensive yet personal gift.
You can order them on many websites, such as webshots.com, kodakgallery.com, etc.how to apply makeup 2009
have a friend or family member shoot some pictures of you and your son in a nice scenic spot! go out to the park, or even to the mall in front of their huge tree or something! just take a bunch of different poses..some of just you, some of just your son, and some of you both together..pick out the best ones and print them out and stick it in one of those frames that you can fit a few photos in..those are like $10-$15 in the stores for a nice one.
you can make him a coupon book also filled with things you can do for him...make your favorite meal, breakfast in bed, have control of the remote all day, wash your car inside and out, boys night out, and any naughty things you can think of!
burn a CD of all his favorite songs all on one CD that he can listen to all the timeWhat to get my husband for Christmas?
If he uses a computer at work [most of us do], how about a mousepad that has a picture of you and your son on it? It's an inexpensive yet personal gift.
You can order them on many websites, such as webshots.com, kodakgallery.com, etc.
Any suggestions on how to fall more in love with your husband?
What are some things I can do that might make me fall more in love? I mean, I am, already in love. But sometimes I get a little restless and I would like to feel more in love, more content, and more connected to my husband. He is already really loving and wonderful, so it isn't something he is not doing. So I would like some suggestions on things I can do.Any suggestions on how to fall more in love with your husband?
If you want to 'fall more in love';, then you are not in love at all. When you are in love with a person, you continue to fall in love with them everyday....when they smile, when they speak, when they touch you, hug you, kiss you, laugh with you, sing with you, play with you.....Any suggestions on how to fall more in love with your husband?
Any couple that has been with their spouse for a long time knows that there will be days when you don't feel the love. That is why your vows say through better and through worse because of course there will be worse. The only thing you can do is continue to go on dates, continue to do the little things that you did when you first got together. Also space it is always good to be away sometimes, When you are apart then you miss each other and you remember what you love about being around that person. I have been married 11 years and there are times when I just don't feel the way I did a few days ago. And days when I feel more in love with him then I did before. Its marriage and its part of being a woman we can't predict how we are going to feel some days.
There is nothing you can do, he has to do all the doing in your case. You have already acknowledged he is really loving and wonderful but he is not doing something that that can make you fall in love with him more. May the lack is in the sex, romance, humor, passion. Tell him what you want from him that you think might make you love him more.
I do agree somewhat with Jordan M, but you can always give it a try.
You can always think back and remind yourself of what made you fall for him in the first place.
You need to remember the guy you fell in love with.
This always helps me get out of a rut and even though my husband is so emotionally detached, I have to keep reminding myself of the past because the past is the only beautiful memory I have of us.
I think you have to work out your restlessness personally, I don't think your husband can do that for you.
But if you want to feel more connected to your husband, then do something that leaves you no choice whether it be something like camping with just him or just hiking or dancing...something that involves only the two of you and maybe something that gives him a chance to lead or shine.
your a woman and human lets face it we get bored easily and need excitement right? i say you should be in love with him after all you did marry the guy ha lol , maybe do things for him out of the blue bake him his favorite cake or watch a game with him ( bring him a sandwhich while he's watching it ) and then ...doing that for him will make him wanna show YOU how much he cares and adores you.
dont beat yourself up you love the guy just probly a little bored.talk to him.
Spend a lot of time alone together doing things you both enjoy - that means without kids, or anybody else present.
Go out on dates like you did when you first met.
Make a point of talking to each other every day.
Your either in love with him or you're not! plain and simple..Obviously you're not, because if you were you wouldn't be asking this question! Maybe seek counseling and figure out what exactly is going on with you.
either you are or you arent-there is no more or less in love-
what ever you are looking for you need to find it within yourself-
good luck
Buy your husband a special trip out of town without you. You might be surprised how you feel when he gets back.
Get a divorce if you don't see the light within him.
Just spend ';Us'; time together.
I'm trying to figure that out myself!
If you want to 'fall more in love';, then you are not in love at all. When you are in love with a person, you continue to fall in love with them everyday....when they smile, when they speak, when they touch you, hug you, kiss you, laugh with you, sing with you, play with you.....Any suggestions on how to fall more in love with your husband?
Any couple that has been with their spouse for a long time knows that there will be days when you don't feel the love. That is why your vows say through better and through worse because of course there will be worse. The only thing you can do is continue to go on dates, continue to do the little things that you did when you first got together. Also space it is always good to be away sometimes, When you are apart then you miss each other and you remember what you love about being around that person. I have been married 11 years and there are times when I just don't feel the way I did a few days ago. And days when I feel more in love with him then I did before. Its marriage and its part of being a woman we can't predict how we are going to feel some days.
There is nothing you can do, he has to do all the doing in your case. You have already acknowledged he is really loving and wonderful but he is not doing something that that can make you fall in love with him more. May the lack is in the sex, romance, humor, passion. Tell him what you want from him that you think might make you love him more.
I do agree somewhat with Jordan M, but you can always give it a try.
You can always think back and remind yourself of what made you fall for him in the first place.
You need to remember the guy you fell in love with.
This always helps me get out of a rut and even though my husband is so emotionally detached, I have to keep reminding myself of the past because the past is the only beautiful memory I have of us.
I think you have to work out your restlessness personally, I don't think your husband can do that for you.
But if you want to feel more connected to your husband, then do something that leaves you no choice whether it be something like camping with just him or just hiking or dancing...something that involves only the two of you and maybe something that gives him a chance to lead or shine.
your a woman and human lets face it we get bored easily and need excitement right? i say you should be in love with him after all you did marry the guy ha lol , maybe do things for him out of the blue bake him his favorite cake or watch a game with him ( bring him a sandwhich while he's watching it ) and then ...doing that for him will make him wanna show YOU how much he cares and adores you.
dont beat yourself up you love the guy just probly a little bored.talk to him.
Spend a lot of time alone together doing things you both enjoy - that means without kids, or anybody else present.
Go out on dates like you did when you first met.
Make a point of talking to each other every day.
Your either in love with him or you're not! plain and simple..Obviously you're not, because if you were you wouldn't be asking this question! Maybe seek counseling and figure out what exactly is going on with you.
either you are or you arent-there is no more or less in love-
what ever you are looking for you need to find it within yourself-
good luck
Buy your husband a special trip out of town without you. You might be surprised how you feel when he gets back.
Get a divorce if you don't see the light within him.
Just spend ';Us'; time together.
I'm trying to figure that out myself!
Do you think my husband will be excepted in the airforce during a dependency waiver?
my husband and i have one child and are expecting.
he will be enlisting as an e3
he did the dependency waiver and we are just waiting for the decision.Do you think my husband will be excepted in the airforce during a dependency waiver?
He has a much better chance than a person who has dependents with no alternative provider, i.e. were he a widower with three dependents. Then they wouldn't take him, but in this case, he has a chance.Do you think my husband will be excepted in the airforce during a dependency waiver?
Yes he can be excepted into the airforce if he picks a MOS that needs people and if Active duty wont the Reserves will but he can you can expect a deployment to Iraq soon there after.
Tell him to go Army. They promote faster which means more money and they have more lax requirements for enlisting, he can get in faster. The jobs they have are endless(like over 100) and they are highly funded.
maybe. depends on how the financial check turns out. the AF doesn't need to grant waivers.
he will be enlisting as an e3
he did the dependency waiver and we are just waiting for the decision.Do you think my husband will be excepted in the airforce during a dependency waiver?
He has a much better chance than a person who has dependents with no alternative provider, i.e. were he a widower with three dependents. Then they wouldn't take him, but in this case, he has a chance.Do you think my husband will be excepted in the airforce during a dependency waiver?
Yes he can be excepted into the airforce if he picks a MOS that needs people and if Active duty wont the Reserves will but he can you can expect a deployment to Iraq soon there after.
Tell him to go Army. They promote faster which means more money and they have more lax requirements for enlisting, he can get in faster. The jobs they have are endless(like over 100) and they are highly funded.
maybe. depends on how the financial check turns out. the AF doesn't need to grant waivers.
Why is my white husband so obsessed with breasts?
I know most guys love them but my white husband is a bit too much he likes to touch them all the time and to him it's like they're candy. I just think it's too much I mean whenever I change he becomes hard just by looking at them, what's wrong with him?Why is my white husband so obsessed with breasts?
You are the one with the problem. Why the heck do you have to put white in front of husband? No one cares! We're all so proud of you-you got a white guy to marry you. Great.Why is my white husband so obsessed with breasts?
Are you serious? It means he is very attracted to you physically. Nothing is wrong with him, he likes your body. Why does this bother you? He would be strange if he was obsessed with feet or worn underwear or women's shoes but breast obsession is normal to me.
Not just white guys most guys are...aside from the little furry package resting at the mid point of ';two leg river'; what else is left...Honestly, you should be happy that your husband adores you...if you have nice breast...any man of any color would probably be mesmerized to them as they were staring him the face...my ex-wife had huge breast...where ever we went, men stared at her...i took it as a compliment...breast are beautiful and in some way should be touched and massaged..be glad darling that you still have something that he becomes excited about...worry when he doesn't get excited about them...be happy...
it's TOTALLY NORMALL
mine, PLEEEEEEEEASE:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
If this bothers you, why did you marry him? You knew he was all about the boobs when you married him.
Men like: boobs, butts, legs and holes.
Oh, and alcohol.
another 'white husband' question..men love women's breast..regardless of race
Nothing.
Don't quit your day job, sweetie. I don't think comedy is your sport.
Because he was never breastfeed
there is nothing wrong with him he is just a boob man...
He is attracted to you. Why complain? At least he wants you.
His mother denied him....he was bottle fed, poor dear. He saw you and.....overload! lol....
You are the one with the problem. Why the heck do you have to put white in front of husband? No one cares! We're all so proud of you-you got a white guy to marry you. Great.Why is my white husband so obsessed with breasts?
Are you serious? It means he is very attracted to you physically. Nothing is wrong with him, he likes your body. Why does this bother you? He would be strange if he was obsessed with feet or worn underwear or women's shoes but breast obsession is normal to me.
Not just white guys most guys are...aside from the little furry package resting at the mid point of ';two leg river'; what else is left...Honestly, you should be happy that your husband adores you...if you have nice breast...any man of any color would probably be mesmerized to them as they were staring him the face...my ex-wife had huge breast...where ever we went, men stared at her...i took it as a compliment...breast are beautiful and in some way should be touched and massaged..be glad darling that you still have something that he becomes excited about...worry when he doesn't get excited about them...be happy...
it's TOTALLY NORMALL
mine, PLEEEEEEEEASE:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
If this bothers you, why did you marry him? You knew he was all about the boobs when you married him.
Men like: boobs, butts, legs and holes.
Oh, and alcohol.
another 'white husband' question..men love women's breast..regardless of race
Nothing.
Don't quit your day job, sweetie. I don't think comedy is your sport.
Because he was never breastfeed
there is nothing wrong with him he is just a boob man...
He is attracted to you. Why complain? At least he wants you.
His mother denied him....he was bottle fed, poor dear. He saw you and.....overload! lol....
Would it bother you if you found out your boyfriend or husband donated sperm to a sperm bank?
Would it bother you if found out your boyfriend or husband had donated sperm to a sperm bank? That would mean your children would have brothers or sisters that you may never meet. That may mean 15 to 20 years from now a mysterious sperm baby will come looking for your boyfriend or husband. On the other hand, people who go to sperm banks need help procreating. Is there some nobility in donating sperm?Would it bother you if you found out your boyfriend or husband donated sperm to a sperm bank?
I would have serious issues with it. I've been married to my husband 10 years now. All his sperm is mine! I couldn't deal with my kids having half siblings running around out there. On the other side, I'd never donate eggs. When I married him, I expected that any children would be only ours. I can't imagine it any other way. I'd also not want a child that was biologically mine or his raised by anyone other than us.Would it bother you if you found out your boyfriend or husband donated sperm to a sperm bank?
I agree with Wanna-Be-Mommy... I wouldn't have a problem with it if he did it years before he met me. I think there is some nobility in donating sperm, as you put it. BUT, if he announced that he did this while we were together, I would have huge problems with it. Hubby and I are trying to conceive right now and donated eggs or sperm are not an option for us. But that's a personal decision to be made by each couple.
You can't hold someone's past over their heads, but what happens when you're together is a GROUP decision.
Interesting question!
i would be mad if he didnt talk to me about it first but if it was something he really wanted to do to help someone out and he came to me with the idea first then i wouldnt be mad. i would understand that people out there need help and if he was able and willing to help, why not. but if he just did it to earn some cash and didnt tell me, then yes i would be mad.
I am married and have been for 1 1/2 years now. If I suddenly found out my husband had donated sperm to a sperm bank I think I would be shocked at first but after letting it sink in I would probibly be quite all right with it. There are so many couples out there that have problems concieving or possibly are a lesbian couple that can ONLY concieve using donated sperm.... It's an honor, like donating your eggs....
Yes it would bother me. Not sure why but it would be weird and I wouldn't like the idea.
Heck yeah I would be mad if my husband donated his sperm. Especially without consulting me first. I think that any normal person would feel this way. Why would he donate his sperm? I guess people do it for money so that could be the reason. I personally couldnt go to a sperm bank and have a total strangers sperm inserted inside me. It just seems disgusting.
Me personally, I would be pissed. I couldnt even imagine my boyfriend having children with anyone but me.
Personally, I would have a problem with it. My boyfriend would have kids out there somewhere, and that thought bothers me.
Tough question! It would certainly bother me if my husband did donate sperm while we were together... I would probably stew on it a lot if he'd done it before we met though too. WOW... this is really a tough one. I think I would have to say yes. It would bother me.
I'd be more angry about it if we were together when he did it than if he did it before I even knew him. I'd still be a little bothered by it though, I think.
I would be upset becasue that would mean other women would be having his baby in a way
Yeah, I would have a big problem with it, especially if he hadn't discussed it with me first! Now if it was done before we got together, then it would be different.
I would have serious issues with it. I've been married to my husband 10 years now. All his sperm is mine! I couldn't deal with my kids having half siblings running around out there. On the other side, I'd never donate eggs. When I married him, I expected that any children would be only ours. I can't imagine it any other way. I'd also not want a child that was biologically mine or his raised by anyone other than us.Would it bother you if you found out your boyfriend or husband donated sperm to a sperm bank?
I agree with Wanna-Be-Mommy... I wouldn't have a problem with it if he did it years before he met me. I think there is some nobility in donating sperm, as you put it. BUT, if he announced that he did this while we were together, I would have huge problems with it. Hubby and I are trying to conceive right now and donated eggs or sperm are not an option for us. But that's a personal decision to be made by each couple.
You can't hold someone's past over their heads, but what happens when you're together is a GROUP decision.
Interesting question!
i would be mad if he didnt talk to me about it first but if it was something he really wanted to do to help someone out and he came to me with the idea first then i wouldnt be mad. i would understand that people out there need help and if he was able and willing to help, why not. but if he just did it to earn some cash and didnt tell me, then yes i would be mad.
I am married and have been for 1 1/2 years now. If I suddenly found out my husband had donated sperm to a sperm bank I think I would be shocked at first but after letting it sink in I would probibly be quite all right with it. There are so many couples out there that have problems concieving or possibly are a lesbian couple that can ONLY concieve using donated sperm.... It's an honor, like donating your eggs....
Yes it would bother me. Not sure why but it would be weird and I wouldn't like the idea.
Heck yeah I would be mad if my husband donated his sperm. Especially without consulting me first. I think that any normal person would feel this way. Why would he donate his sperm? I guess people do it for money so that could be the reason. I personally couldnt go to a sperm bank and have a total strangers sperm inserted inside me. It just seems disgusting.
Me personally, I would be pissed. I couldnt even imagine my boyfriend having children with anyone but me.
Personally, I would have a problem with it. My boyfriend would have kids out there somewhere, and that thought bothers me.
Tough question! It would certainly bother me if my husband did donate sperm while we were together... I would probably stew on it a lot if he'd done it before we met though too. WOW... this is really a tough one. I think I would have to say yes. It would bother me.
I'd be more angry about it if we were together when he did it than if he did it before I even knew him. I'd still be a little bothered by it though, I think.
I would be upset becasue that would mean other women would be having his baby in a way
Yeah, I would have a big problem with it, especially if he hadn't discussed it with me first! Now if it was done before we got together, then it would be different.
Why is my white husband so obsessed with breasts?
I know most guys love them but my white husband is a bit too much he likes to touch them all the time and to him it's like they're candy. I just think it's too much I mean whenever I change he becomes hard just by looking at them, what's wrong with him?Why is my white husband so obsessed with breasts?
You are the one with the problem. Why the heck do you have to put white in front of husband? No one cares! We're all so proud of you-you got a white guy to marry you. Great.Why is my white husband so obsessed with breasts?
Are you serious? It means he is very attracted to you physically. Nothing is wrong with him, he likes your body. Why does this bother you? He would be strange if he was obsessed with feet or worn underwear or women's shoes but breast obsession is normal to me.
Not just white guys most guys are...aside from the little furry package resting at the mid point of ';two leg river'; what else is left...Honestly, you should be happy that your husband adores you...if you have nice breast...any man of any color would probably be mesmerized to them as they were staring him the face...my ex-wife had huge breast...where ever we went, men stared at her...i took it as a compliment...breast are beautiful and in some way should be touched and massaged..be glad darling that you still have something that he becomes excited about...worry when he doesn't get excited about them...be happy...
it's TOTALLY NORMALL
mine, PLEEEEEEEEASE:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
If this bothers you, why did you marry him? You knew he was all about the boobs when you married him.
Men like: boobs, butts, legs and holes.
Oh, and alcohol.
another 'white husband' question..men love women's breast..regardless of race
Nothing.
Don't quit your day job, sweetie. I don't think comedy is your sport.
Because he was never breastfeed
there is nothing wrong with him he is just a boob man...
He is attracted to you. Why complain? At least he wants you.
His mother denied him....he was bottle fed, poor dear. He saw you and.....overload! lol....
You are the one with the problem. Why the heck do you have to put white in front of husband? No one cares! We're all so proud of you-you got a white guy to marry you. Great.Why is my white husband so obsessed with breasts?
Are you serious? It means he is very attracted to you physically. Nothing is wrong with him, he likes your body. Why does this bother you? He would be strange if he was obsessed with feet or worn underwear or women's shoes but breast obsession is normal to me.
Not just white guys most guys are...aside from the little furry package resting at the mid point of ';two leg river'; what else is left...Honestly, you should be happy that your husband adores you...if you have nice breast...any man of any color would probably be mesmerized to them as they were staring him the face...my ex-wife had huge breast...where ever we went, men stared at her...i took it as a compliment...breast are beautiful and in some way should be touched and massaged..be glad darling that you still have something that he becomes excited about...worry when he doesn't get excited about them...be happy...
it's TOTALLY NORMALL
mine, PLEEEEEEEEASE:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
If this bothers you, why did you marry him? You knew he was all about the boobs when you married him.
Men like: boobs, butts, legs and holes.
Oh, and alcohol.
another 'white husband' question..men love women's breast..regardless of race
Nothing.
Don't quit your day job, sweetie. I don't think comedy is your sport.
Because he was never breastfeed
there is nothing wrong with him he is just a boob man...
He is attracted to you. Why complain? At least he wants you.
His mother denied him....he was bottle fed, poor dear. He saw you and.....overload! lol....
Would it bother you if you found out your boyfriend or husband donated sperm to a sperm bank?
Would it bother you if found out your boyfriend or husband had donated sperm to a sperm bank? That would mean your children would have brothers or sisters that you may never meet. That may mean 15 to 20 years from now a mysterious sperm baby will come looking for your boyfriend or husband. On the other hand, people who go to sperm banks need help procreating. Is there some nobility in donating sperm?Would it bother you if you found out your boyfriend or husband donated sperm to a sperm bank?
I would have serious issues with it. I've been married to my husband 10 years now. All his sperm is mine! I couldn't deal with my kids having half siblings running around out there. On the other side, I'd never donate eggs. When I married him, I expected that any children would be only ours. I can't imagine it any other way. I'd also not want a child that was biologically mine or his raised by anyone other than us.Would it bother you if you found out your boyfriend or husband donated sperm to a sperm bank?
I agree with Wanna-Be-Mommy... I wouldn't have a problem with it if he did it years before he met me. I think there is some nobility in donating sperm, as you put it. BUT, if he announced that he did this while we were together, I would have huge problems with it. Hubby and I are trying to conceive right now and donated eggs or sperm are not an option for us. But that's a personal decision to be made by each couple.
You can't hold someone's past over their heads, but what happens when you're together is a GROUP decision.
Interesting question!
i would be mad if he didnt talk to me about it first but if it was something he really wanted to do to help someone out and he came to me with the idea first then i wouldnt be mad. i would understand that people out there need help and if he was able and willing to help, why not. but if he just did it to earn some cash and didnt tell me, then yes i would be mad.
I am married and have been for 1 1/2 years now. If I suddenly found out my husband had donated sperm to a sperm bank I think I would be shocked at first but after letting it sink in I would probibly be quite all right with it. There are so many couples out there that have problems concieving or possibly are a lesbian couple that can ONLY concieve using donated sperm.... It's an honor, like donating your eggs....
Yes it would bother me. Not sure why but it would be weird and I wouldn't like the idea.
Heck yeah I would be mad if my husband donated his sperm. Especially without consulting me first. I think that any normal person would feel this way. Why would he donate his sperm? I guess people do it for money so that could be the reason. I personally couldnt go to a sperm bank and have a total strangers sperm inserted inside me. It just seems disgusting.
Me personally, I would be pissed. I couldnt even imagine my boyfriend having children with anyone but me.
Personally, I would have a problem with it. My boyfriend would have kids out there somewhere, and that thought bothers me.
Tough question! It would certainly bother me if my husband did donate sperm while we were together... I would probably stew on it a lot if he'd done it before we met though too. WOW... this is really a tough one. I think I would have to say yes. It would bother me.
I'd be more angry about it if we were together when he did it than if he did it before I even knew him. I'd still be a little bothered by it though, I think.
I would be upset becasue that would mean other women would be having his baby in a way
Yeah, I would have a big problem with it, especially if he hadn't discussed it with me first! Now if it was done before we got together, then it would be different.how to apply makeup 2009
I would have serious issues with it. I've been married to my husband 10 years now. All his sperm is mine! I couldn't deal with my kids having half siblings running around out there. On the other side, I'd never donate eggs. When I married him, I expected that any children would be only ours. I can't imagine it any other way. I'd also not want a child that was biologically mine or his raised by anyone other than us.Would it bother you if you found out your boyfriend or husband donated sperm to a sperm bank?
I agree with Wanna-Be-Mommy... I wouldn't have a problem with it if he did it years before he met me. I think there is some nobility in donating sperm, as you put it. BUT, if he announced that he did this while we were together, I would have huge problems with it. Hubby and I are trying to conceive right now and donated eggs or sperm are not an option for us. But that's a personal decision to be made by each couple.
You can't hold someone's past over their heads, but what happens when you're together is a GROUP decision.
Interesting question!
i would be mad if he didnt talk to me about it first but if it was something he really wanted to do to help someone out and he came to me with the idea first then i wouldnt be mad. i would understand that people out there need help and if he was able and willing to help, why not. but if he just did it to earn some cash and didnt tell me, then yes i would be mad.
I am married and have been for 1 1/2 years now. If I suddenly found out my husband had donated sperm to a sperm bank I think I would be shocked at first but after letting it sink in I would probibly be quite all right with it. There are so many couples out there that have problems concieving or possibly are a lesbian couple that can ONLY concieve using donated sperm.... It's an honor, like donating your eggs....
Yes it would bother me. Not sure why but it would be weird and I wouldn't like the idea.
Heck yeah I would be mad if my husband donated his sperm. Especially without consulting me first. I think that any normal person would feel this way. Why would he donate his sperm? I guess people do it for money so that could be the reason. I personally couldnt go to a sperm bank and have a total strangers sperm inserted inside me. It just seems disgusting.
Me personally, I would be pissed. I couldnt even imagine my boyfriend having children with anyone but me.
Personally, I would have a problem with it. My boyfriend would have kids out there somewhere, and that thought bothers me.
Tough question! It would certainly bother me if my husband did donate sperm while we were together... I would probably stew on it a lot if he'd done it before we met though too. WOW... this is really a tough one. I think I would have to say yes. It would bother me.
I'd be more angry about it if we were together when he did it than if he did it before I even knew him. I'd still be a little bothered by it though, I think.
I would be upset becasue that would mean other women would be having his baby in a way
Yeah, I would have a big problem with it, especially if he hadn't discussed it with me first! Now if it was done before we got together, then it would be different.
How can my new husband get Perental Responsability of my children please ?
I am married and have 2 children from my ex husband who wants nothing to do with my children and has had no contact for over 3 years...he has PR as we were married at the time of there birth, but I want my new husband to have PR as he has been a good daddy to my children and think of him as there daddy, please can any one help ? thank you :0)How can my new husband get Perental Responsability of my children please ?
Your current spouse has to offer to adopt your children, and you two have to get your ex's consent for him to do so. Since he doesn't have any contact and this would get him out of having to pay child support I can't imagine he'd say no. Then go fill out the paperwork and go have the court hearing (or however they do it in your county and state).
Then he'll be their dad :-) Good luck, sweetie--you sound like a charming familyHow can my new husband get Perental Responsability of my children please ?
Your children's biological father must sign over his rights to the new father.
Just tell him that if he does not sign over his rights, you will file for child support. By the way, you are not entitled to child support once he signs over his rights to allow your husband to adopt them.
Also, if something happens between you and your new husband, he could try to take the children away from you are get joint custody.
I have the same problem I want to adopt my step daugther because her mother is worthless, she is refusing now but I know she is running from child support and soon she will give up her PR that is why I put her on child support to make her give up her rights. Good luck is the best way I can think off... without having to go to court to get the PR taken away by a judge. Is being three years I think that could work too consult a lawyer.. Again good luck.
The real father can give up his PR and your husband can then adopt them. Just ask any family attorney.
adoption
Your current spouse has to offer to adopt your children, and you two have to get your ex's consent for him to do so. Since he doesn't have any contact and this would get him out of having to pay child support I can't imagine he'd say no. Then go fill out the paperwork and go have the court hearing (or however they do it in your county and state).
Then he'll be their dad :-) Good luck, sweetie--you sound like a charming familyHow can my new husband get Perental Responsability of my children please ?
Your children's biological father must sign over his rights to the new father.
Just tell him that if he does not sign over his rights, you will file for child support. By the way, you are not entitled to child support once he signs over his rights to allow your husband to adopt them.
Also, if something happens between you and your new husband, he could try to take the children away from you are get joint custody.
I have the same problem I want to adopt my step daugther because her mother is worthless, she is refusing now but I know she is running from child support and soon she will give up her PR that is why I put her on child support to make her give up her rights. Good luck is the best way I can think off... without having to go to court to get the PR taken away by a judge. Is being three years I think that could work too consult a lawyer.. Again good luck.
The real father can give up his PR and your husband can then adopt them. Just ask any family attorney.
adoption
What games can my husband and i play together on our xbox 360?
i bought my husband an xbox 360 for christmas and he has so much fun playing games but by himself. are there any games out there that would be great for both of us to play together?What games can my husband and i play together on our xbox 360?
It really matters what your into.
Check some of the top games on
www.gamespot.com
Considering the fact that I don't know what you're into the best I can tell you is to check out that site for different games and such.What games can my husband and i play together on our xbox 360?
Guitar hero 3!
Skate
world series of poker
guitar hero 3
ha this guy is a *****....video games are not for children....thats why there rated m and t
lol video games are for children
Buy Guitar Hero and Dance Dance Revolution. lol
Rock Band........or get into the games yourself, then when you both play, just pass the controller between turns. Learn the first person shooter games. A girl that knows those is HOTT, lol. PGR 4 is a fun one if you like racing.
My brother and his Girlfriend play Surf's Up.
Viva Pinata may also be a good game.
guitar hero is a blast! its fun for any amount of players, taking turns or playing at the same time, but 2 guitars and you both can rock out.
if you like music ........rock band
It really matters what your into.
Check some of the top games on
www.gamespot.com
Considering the fact that I don't know what you're into the best I can tell you is to check out that site for different games and such.What games can my husband and i play together on our xbox 360?
Guitar hero 3!
Skate
world series of poker
guitar hero 3
ha this guy is a *****....video games are not for children....thats why there rated m and t
lol video games are for children
Buy Guitar Hero and Dance Dance Revolution. lol
Rock Band........or get into the games yourself, then when you both play, just pass the controller between turns. Learn the first person shooter games. A girl that knows those is HOTT, lol. PGR 4 is a fun one if you like racing.
My brother and his Girlfriend play Surf's Up.
Viva Pinata may also be a good game.
guitar hero is a blast! its fun for any amount of players, taking turns or playing at the same time, but 2 guitars and you both can rock out.
if you like music ........rock band
Unhappily married, emotionally abusive husband... How do I ';break the ice'; with engaged neighbor?
I am pretty sure he likes me because he keeps going out of his way to talk to me when my husband and his fiance are not home.
What can I do to ';break the ice'; and ';get things going';?Unhappily married, emotionally abusive husband... How do I ';break the ice'; with engaged neighbor?
Uhm get divorced first?Unhappily married, emotionally abusive husband... How do I ';break the ice'; with engaged neighbor?
If you are unhappy in your marriage, you need to ';break the ice'; with a good divorce attorney so you can ';get things going'; toward ending your marriage. Then you'll be free to pursue someone new.
If your marriage is in the crapper you feel it's OK to put someone else s marriage in the crapper.
I don't know if there are work strong enough to describe you.
Ask him around and greet him at the door stark naked. That will ';break the ice'; and '; get things going';
GET A DIVORCE.what can be stolen can be stolen from you.
He may just be being friendly. Visit www.illicitencounters.com and you will find like minded people
What can I do to ';break the ice'; and ';get things going';?Unhappily married, emotionally abusive husband... How do I ';break the ice'; with engaged neighbor?
Uhm get divorced first?Unhappily married, emotionally abusive husband... How do I ';break the ice'; with engaged neighbor?
If you are unhappy in your marriage, you need to ';break the ice'; with a good divorce attorney so you can ';get things going'; toward ending your marriage. Then you'll be free to pursue someone new.
If your marriage is in the crapper you feel it's OK to put someone else s marriage in the crapper.
I don't know if there are work strong enough to describe you.
Ask him around and greet him at the door stark naked. That will ';break the ice'; and '; get things going';
GET A DIVORCE.what can be stolen can be stolen from you.
He may just be being friendly. Visit www.illicitencounters.com and you will find like minded people
What might cause a sudden change in the smell of my husband's sperm?
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Have you been in a strip tease club with your boyfriend/husband.?How did you feel?
Im planning to go to a strip tease club with my boyfriend to just for fun (not to find a third one)
And i want to know the opinion of people that have been through that.
NO RUDE ANSWERS PLEASEHave you been in a strip tease club with your boyfriend/husband.?How did you feel?
i llove it- it's really funny because the guy is wants to get into it but knows ur sitting right there so they get nervous and squirmy. and then its kind of sexy cause u see ur man being ';wanted';Have you been in a strip tease club with your boyfriend/husband.?How did you feel?
I'm not going to tell you not to go, but honestly, what's the point of going? He'll be cheating on you with his mind, and yes that's just as bad as physically cheating.
And i want to know the opinion of people that have been through that.
NO RUDE ANSWERS PLEASEHave you been in a strip tease club with your boyfriend/husband.?How did you feel?
i llove it- it's really funny because the guy is wants to get into it but knows ur sitting right there so they get nervous and squirmy. and then its kind of sexy cause u see ur man being ';wanted';Have you been in a strip tease club with your boyfriend/husband.?How did you feel?
I'm not going to tell you not to go, but honestly, what's the point of going? He'll be cheating on you with his mind, and yes that's just as bad as physically cheating.
My sister and her husband want to start property development?
The thing is they can't get a big enough loan and asked me if I'd lend them 拢40,000. They said they'll give me the 拢40,000 back plus a percentage of the profit when they sell it and then we can put the money back in and buy more houses. I would like to do it but I'm not sure they'll make a profit and 拢40,000 is alot of money to lose. So what should I do?My sister and her husband want to start property development?
The saying is ';Neither a borrower or a lender be';. They tend to get complicated even in strong relationships. If things turn out the way it is planned often greed comes in. There is also the question of distribution i.e who did what and who deserves what etc, etc. If things do not turn out according to the plan, baby you are the one carrying thec can. This is a loose/loose proposition. Best advice for them is ';keep saving until they have enough';how to apply makeup 2009
The saying is ';Neither a borrower or a lender be';. They tend to get complicated even in strong relationships. If things turn out the way it is planned often greed comes in. There is also the question of distribution i.e who did what and who deserves what etc, etc. If things do not turn out according to the plan, baby you are the one carrying thec can. This is a loose/loose proposition. Best advice for them is ';keep saving until they have enough';
How can I prove that I sent medical bills to ex husband?
My former husband is legally obligated to pay 100% of the children's medical bills. I have notified him of what is due by certified mail but he is refusing to pick up the notification. Legally, could I take him to court for reimbursement since technically he didn't get the bill?How can I prove that I sent medical bills to ex husband?
that was really smart of you to send them certified!!!!
take the copies you have to an attorney, including the certified mail receiptsHow can I prove that I sent medical bills to ex husband?
Go to the court and ask the help desk to fill out some form, the court can demand your ex to open the letter.
CYA - Cover you A$$. in hindsight you should have copied them before you sent them. Although if you call the post office they might have some record of the delivery if you know where it was picked up and where it is going. That's what all those barcodes are for on envelopes.
yep! you can-
Yes take him back to court. You have proof that you sent a copy of the bills in certified mail and proof that he refused to pick them up. Talk to you lawyer but I am pretty certin you could get interest too!
Yes, since he is refusing to acknowledge them.
You should send them certified.
Yes, I believe you can, because the certified mail will have recorded the attempts to serve and the refusal to sign. For future, I would carry a copy of the court order showing the responsibility of medical bills for the children. And when signing your child(ren) up for medical care, make the responsible party him so the bills will go directly to him and you won't have to deal with him at all. Prayers and best wishes =)
YES, take your notifications to your lawyer, prove you sent them, and he would not sign for them. I would send them to his work from here on out, it is very hard for someone to refuse to sign at work when the boss is watching!
I should think you would be able to take him to court. You sent the bills by certified mail and you will have a receipt and probably notification from postal service that he has not picked up the mail within a certain amount of time. Him refusing to pick up the certified mail is negligence on his part, he can not tell you that he hasn't received anything from you. If you want to be extra sure that the law is on your side, you may want to see if you can get a process server or someone like that to try and hand deliver the bills to him. If he refused to take those as well then it's just more points in your favor when it comes time to court cases.
If this legal obligation of his comes from your custody hearings then maybe you can forward the bills to your lawyer and then his.
that was really smart of you to send them certified!!!!
take the copies you have to an attorney, including the certified mail receiptsHow can I prove that I sent medical bills to ex husband?
Go to the court and ask the help desk to fill out some form, the court can demand your ex to open the letter.
CYA - Cover you A$$. in hindsight you should have copied them before you sent them. Although if you call the post office they might have some record of the delivery if you know where it was picked up and where it is going. That's what all those barcodes are for on envelopes.
yep! you can-
Yes take him back to court. You have proof that you sent a copy of the bills in certified mail and proof that he refused to pick them up. Talk to you lawyer but I am pretty certin you could get interest too!
Yes, since he is refusing to acknowledge them.
You should send them certified.
Yes, I believe you can, because the certified mail will have recorded the attempts to serve and the refusal to sign. For future, I would carry a copy of the court order showing the responsibility of medical bills for the children. And when signing your child(ren) up for medical care, make the responsible party him so the bills will go directly to him and you won't have to deal with him at all. Prayers and best wishes =)
YES, take your notifications to your lawyer, prove you sent them, and he would not sign for them. I would send them to his work from here on out, it is very hard for someone to refuse to sign at work when the boss is watching!
I should think you would be able to take him to court. You sent the bills by certified mail and you will have a receipt and probably notification from postal service that he has not picked up the mail within a certain amount of time. Him refusing to pick up the certified mail is negligence on his part, he can not tell you that he hasn't received anything from you. If you want to be extra sure that the law is on your side, you may want to see if you can get a process server or someone like that to try and hand deliver the bills to him. If he refused to take those as well then it's just more points in your favor when it comes time to court cases.
If this legal obligation of his comes from your custody hearings then maybe you can forward the bills to your lawyer and then his.
How likely is my husband to lose his job?
He didn't call in or anything. He no showed. He didn't hear the alarm clock. if he loses his job when my mom moves in i am kicking him out!How likely is my husband to lose his job?
if it just happened once it won't be so bad, but if i were you i would watch out if it's him who's going to leave once your mother settles inHow likely is my husband to lose his job?
If he looses his job, its the time he will really need you to support him.
you shouldnt leave him alone at such a difficult time.
you should tell him that its ok, and you will sort out some thing.
I'm a supervisor and if he worked for me I'd write him up until I could fire him .I have 3 people who work under me and if I could,I would smack all 3 like the three stooges whenever they f-ed up.lol
He's an idiot for not calling in and he's an idiot for not leaving you.
I hope you have a job!
How old are you guys, 13? Only children would react this way.
Your mother's moving in?? lol- maybe he wants to be kicked out.
if it just happened once it won't be so bad, but if i were you i would watch out if it's him who's going to leave once your mother settles inHow likely is my husband to lose his job?
If he looses his job, its the time he will really need you to support him.
you shouldnt leave him alone at such a difficult time.
you should tell him that its ok, and you will sort out some thing.
I'm a supervisor and if he worked for me I'd write him up until I could fire him .I have 3 people who work under me and if I could,I would smack all 3 like the three stooges whenever they f-ed up.lol
He's an idiot for not calling in and he's an idiot for not leaving you.
I hope you have a job!
How old are you guys, 13? Only children would react this way.
Your mother's moving in?? lol- maybe he wants to be kicked out.
How likely is my husband to lose his job?
He didn't call in or anything. He no showed. He didn't hear the alarm clock. if he loses his job when my mom moves in i am kicking him out!How likely is my husband to lose his job?
if it just happened once it won't be so bad, but if i were you i would watch out if it's him who's going to leave once your mother settles inHow likely is my husband to lose his job?
If he looses his job, its the time he will really need you to support him.
you shouldnt leave him alone at such a difficult time.
you should tell him that its ok, and you will sort out some thing.
I'm a supervisor and if he worked for me I'd write him up until I could fire him .I have 3 people who work under me and if I could,I would smack all 3 like the three stooges whenever they f-ed up.lol
He's an idiot for not calling in and he's an idiot for not leaving you.
I hope you have a job!
How old are you guys, 13? Only children would react this way.
Your mother's moving in?? lol- maybe he wants to be kicked out.
if it just happened once it won't be so bad, but if i were you i would watch out if it's him who's going to leave once your mother settles inHow likely is my husband to lose his job?
If he looses his job, its the time he will really need you to support him.
you shouldnt leave him alone at such a difficult time.
you should tell him that its ok, and you will sort out some thing.
I'm a supervisor and if he worked for me I'd write him up until I could fire him .I have 3 people who work under me and if I could,I would smack all 3 like the three stooges whenever they f-ed up.lol
He's an idiot for not calling in and he's an idiot for not leaving you.
I hope you have a job!
How old are you guys, 13? Only children would react this way.
Your mother's moving in?? lol- maybe he wants to be kicked out.
What games can my husband and i play together on our xbox 360?
i bought my husband an xbox 360 for christmas and he has so much fun playing games but by himself. are there any games out there that would be great for both of us to play together?What games can my husband and i play together on our xbox 360?
It really matters what your into.
Check some of the top games on
www.gamespot.com
Considering the fact that I don't know what you're into the best I can tell you is to check out that site for different games and such.What games can my husband and i play together on our xbox 360?
Guitar hero 3!
Skate
world series of poker
guitar hero 3
ha this guy is a *****....video games are not for children....thats why there rated m and t
lol video games are for children
Buy Guitar Hero and Dance Dance Revolution. lol
Rock Band........or get into the games yourself, then when you both play, just pass the controller between turns. Learn the first person shooter games. A girl that knows those is HOTT, lol. PGR 4 is a fun one if you like racing.
My brother and his Girlfriend play Surf's Up.
Viva Pinata may also be a good game.
guitar hero is a blast! its fun for any amount of players, taking turns or playing at the same time, but 2 guitars and you both can rock out.
if you like music ........rock band
It really matters what your into.
Check some of the top games on
www.gamespot.com
Considering the fact that I don't know what you're into the best I can tell you is to check out that site for different games and such.What games can my husband and i play together on our xbox 360?
Guitar hero 3!
Skate
world series of poker
guitar hero 3
ha this guy is a *****....video games are not for children....thats why there rated m and t
lol video games are for children
Buy Guitar Hero and Dance Dance Revolution. lol
Rock Band........or get into the games yourself, then when you both play, just pass the controller between turns. Learn the first person shooter games. A girl that knows those is HOTT, lol. PGR 4 is a fun one if you like racing.
My brother and his Girlfriend play Surf's Up.
Viva Pinata may also be a good game.
guitar hero is a blast! its fun for any amount of players, taking turns or playing at the same time, but 2 guitars and you both can rock out.
if you like music ........rock band
How can I prove that I sent medical bills to ex husband?
My former husband is legally obligated to pay 100% of the children's medical bills. I have notified him of what is due by certified mail but he is refusing to pick up the notification. Legally, could I take him to court for reimbursement since technically he didn't get the bill?How can I prove that I sent medical bills to ex husband?
that was really smart of you to send them certified!!!!
take the copies you have to an attorney, including the certified mail receiptsHow can I prove that I sent medical bills to ex husband?
Go to the court and ask the help desk to fill out some form, the court can demand your ex to open the letter.
CYA - Cover you ***. in hindsight you should have copied them before you sent them. Although if you call the post office they might have some record of the delivery if you know where it was picked up and where it is going. That's what all those barcodes are for on envelopes.
yep! you can-
Yes take him back to court. You have proof that you sent a copy of the bills in certified mail and proof that he refused to pick them up. Talk to you lawyer but I am pretty certin you could get interest too!
Yes, since he is refusing to acknowledge them.
You should send them certified.
Yes, I believe you can, because the certified mail will have recorded the attempts to serve and the refusal to sign. For future, I would carry a copy of the court order showing the responsibility of medical bills for the children. And when signing your child(ren) up for medical care, make the responsible party him so the bills will go directly to him and you won't have to deal with him at all. Prayers and best wishes =)
YES, take your notifications to your lawyer, prove you sent them, and he would not sign for them. I would send them to his work from here on out, it is very hard for someone to refuse to sign at work when the boss is watching!
I should think you would be able to take him to court. You sent the bills by certified mail and you will have a receipt and probably notification from postal service that he has not picked up the mail within a certain amount of time. Him refusing to pick up the certified mail is negligence on his part, he can not tell you that he hasn't received anything from you. If you want to be extra sure that the law is on your side, you may want to see if you can get a process server or someone like that to try and hand deliver the bills to him. If he refused to take those as well then it's just more points in your favor when it comes time to court cases.
If this legal obligation of his comes from your custody hearings then maybe you can forward the bills to your lawyer and then his.
that was really smart of you to send them certified!!!!
take the copies you have to an attorney, including the certified mail receiptsHow can I prove that I sent medical bills to ex husband?
Go to the court and ask the help desk to fill out some form, the court can demand your ex to open the letter.
CYA - Cover you ***. in hindsight you should have copied them before you sent them. Although if you call the post office they might have some record of the delivery if you know where it was picked up and where it is going. That's what all those barcodes are for on envelopes.
yep! you can-
Yes take him back to court. You have proof that you sent a copy of the bills in certified mail and proof that he refused to pick them up. Talk to you lawyer but I am pretty certin you could get interest too!
Yes, since he is refusing to acknowledge them.
You should send them certified.
Yes, I believe you can, because the certified mail will have recorded the attempts to serve and the refusal to sign. For future, I would carry a copy of the court order showing the responsibility of medical bills for the children. And when signing your child(ren) up for medical care, make the responsible party him so the bills will go directly to him and you won't have to deal with him at all. Prayers and best wishes =)
YES, take your notifications to your lawyer, prove you sent them, and he would not sign for them. I would send them to his work from here on out, it is very hard for someone to refuse to sign at work when the boss is watching!
I should think you would be able to take him to court. You sent the bills by certified mail and you will have a receipt and probably notification from postal service that he has not picked up the mail within a certain amount of time. Him refusing to pick up the certified mail is negligence on his part, he can not tell you that he hasn't received anything from you. If you want to be extra sure that the law is on your side, you may want to see if you can get a process server or someone like that to try and hand deliver the bills to him. If he refused to take those as well then it's just more points in your favor when it comes time to court cases.
If this legal obligation of his comes from your custody hearings then maybe you can forward the bills to your lawyer and then his.
What might cause a sudden change in the smell of my husband's sperm?
I told myself I wouldn't ask this because my husband is notorious for spying on me, but I really need to know. However, the last month or so, I noticed that after we have sex, his scent is really strong and not very pleasant and I have never noticed this before. There doesn't seem to be any change with me and even ask him if he noticed any changes with me just to be sure. He said no.
So, what's going on? What would cause a sudden change in the smell of his semen? There's been no change in diet or anything unusual...help!! I did notice shortly after this started that he was suddenly drinking pineapple juice, but when I inquired about it to him, he got pretty defensive.What might cause a sudden change in the smell of my husband's sperm?
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';Smell %26amp; Taste Good For Her'; from:
http://ca.askmen.com/love/love_tip_100/1鈥?/a>
Although there is no scientific evidence to prove any of the following claims that are believed to improve the taste of your semen, they are nevertheless widely believed among drinkers and squirters alike.
Believe it or not, many of the things that affect body odor are believed to affect the taste of semen as well. For instance, alcohol and coffee are believed to give semen a bitter, pungent taste.
There are many ingredients composing semen, and its makeup is the same from man to man. Here are a few of the constituent elements: vitamin C, calcium, chlorine, cholesterol, citric acid, creatine, fructose, lactic acid, magnesium, nitrogen, phosphorus, potassium, sodium, vitamin B12, and zinc.
So what effect will all this have on her waistline? Well, not much of an effect at all. The caloric content of the average ejaculate is estimated to be approximately 5 to 25 calories -- hardly the most fattening meal.
As well, cigarettes, garlic, onions, broccoli, and cauliflower are also believed to alter the taste of your love juice. The cigarettes need no explanation; you're inhaling fire, let's get real. But because the aforementioned foods tend to have a distinct odor, it's believed that they will affect the way you taste.
If you're dehydrated, pig out on spicy foods or are taking medication, these factors may also contribute to an uninviting flavor. So maybe you should take it easy on Mexican delights and start downing water like there's no tomorrow.
What To Eat/Drink:
Plums
Oranges
Lemons
Limes
Cilantro
Spearmint
Grapefruit
Green tea
Beer
Pineapple
Mangoes
Chamomile tea
What To Avoid:
Broccoli
Brussels Sprouts
Spices
Coffee
Chocolate
Cigarettes
Asparagus
Chemically processed liquor
Onions
Garlic
Dairy Products
Red meat
Considering most guys are avid meat eaters, keep in mind that red meat apparently makes semen taste more acidic. Hmm, nothing like the taste of acid to end off a wonderful night of sexual fun.
To sweeten up your inner load, drink plenty of pineapple juice, and eat bananas and papaya. Their sweetness results in yours. And of course, lest we forget that parsley can do wonders for men worldwide -- it eliminates body odor, freshens breath and improves the taste of seminal fluid.
Fruits like kiwi, watermelon, celery, and pineapple are all said to make semen taste lighter. Beer and coffee are believed to have something of an opposite effect, and could leave her with a bitter taste in the mouth. Alkaline-based foods like meat and fish produce a buttery taste, while acidic fruits (cranberries, blueberries and plums) produce a pleasant, sugary flavor. Most liqueurs will do the same, while dairy products can make for a foul taste because of their high bacterial putrefaction levels.
Always keep in mind that everyone has a distinct taste and even if you do all these things, she might still find the taste of your fluid repulsive. But if she's more than willing and able to sacrifice for the greater good, then have her down a mint before she makes her way down south.
The mint will serve to hinder the flavor of your semen and will simultaneously provide you with indescribable sensations.What might cause a sudden change in the smell of my husband's sperm?
WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO ASK SUCH A PERSONAL
QUESTION LIKE THAT ON THE INTERNET?????
i would have him get checked for STDs. Some stds can be caught from simply using a public toilet (gonerea for example).
This is so normal. Scents can change for both men and women due to diet. Just ignore it and enjoy it as a part of him. Why change his diet just because of this natural phenomenon?
hmmm, I have no idea, why would he get defensive when asked about drinking pineapple juice?? Good luck with that one.
diet and stress
lol its ur mistake ok
he shouldn't get defensive.
he should grow the hell up and get that checked just in case.
odors from the body are signals.
diet, stress, certain elements can cause odors.
medications... lack of hydration, disease, toxins in the body can cause this odor.
he needs to see a doc and check out his 'area' just in case.
maybe he cheated and figured that pineapple helps with smell and taste of semen, as well as making it less acidic, but if it's an STD, in not all cases are both of you going to be affected with obvious symptoms.
During your next annual pap (and schedule one soon!) ask them to check for STD's just in case, and ask your hubby to go to a specialist, as it might be a prostate problem, or worse...
(ie-urine might be leaking out/dribbling.....yeah....yuck...).
In other words, you both need to go see doctors asap!!!
Good luck!
I'm not sure but it could be due to taking medications or eating or drinking something different such as the pineapple juice???? Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You basically answered your question, diet can directly affect body fluid scents. And the additional acidity of the pineapple juice may make your man more acidic, sperm is usually a base PH, so as not to interfere with the base PH of the vagina. That why using vinegar to douce can cause yeast infections cause you change the PH within a system.
Pineapple juice makes sperm taste better. Its his way of asking for a bl*w j*b. Just tell him the juice is instead causing an odor you don't like and you'd rather he go back to all natural.
Any foods that are pretty acidic can change the smell of semen. Onions, garlic, acidic fruit juices and spicy foods can all have that effect.how to apply makeup 2009
So, what's going on? What would cause a sudden change in the smell of his semen? There's been no change in diet or anything unusual...help!! I did notice shortly after this started that he was suddenly drinking pineapple juice, but when I inquired about it to him, he got pretty defensive.What might cause a sudden change in the smell of my husband's sperm?
----------------------------------------鈥?br>
';Smell %26amp; Taste Good For Her'; from:
http://ca.askmen.com/love/love_tip_100/1鈥?/a>
Although there is no scientific evidence to prove any of the following claims that are believed to improve the taste of your semen, they are nevertheless widely believed among drinkers and squirters alike.
Believe it or not, many of the things that affect body odor are believed to affect the taste of semen as well. For instance, alcohol and coffee are believed to give semen a bitter, pungent taste.
There are many ingredients composing semen, and its makeup is the same from man to man. Here are a few of the constituent elements: vitamin C, calcium, chlorine, cholesterol, citric acid, creatine, fructose, lactic acid, magnesium, nitrogen, phosphorus, potassium, sodium, vitamin B12, and zinc.
So what effect will all this have on her waistline? Well, not much of an effect at all. The caloric content of the average ejaculate is estimated to be approximately 5 to 25 calories -- hardly the most fattening meal.
As well, cigarettes, garlic, onions, broccoli, and cauliflower are also believed to alter the taste of your love juice. The cigarettes need no explanation; you're inhaling fire, let's get real. But because the aforementioned foods tend to have a distinct odor, it's believed that they will affect the way you taste.
If you're dehydrated, pig out on spicy foods or are taking medication, these factors may also contribute to an uninviting flavor. So maybe you should take it easy on Mexican delights and start downing water like there's no tomorrow.
What To Eat/Drink:
Plums
Oranges
Lemons
Limes
Cilantro
Spearmint
Grapefruit
Green tea
Beer
Pineapple
Mangoes
Chamomile tea
What To Avoid:
Broccoli
Brussels Sprouts
Spices
Coffee
Chocolate
Cigarettes
Asparagus
Chemically processed liquor
Onions
Garlic
Dairy Products
Red meat
Considering most guys are avid meat eaters, keep in mind that red meat apparently makes semen taste more acidic. Hmm, nothing like the taste of acid to end off a wonderful night of sexual fun.
To sweeten up your inner load, drink plenty of pineapple juice, and eat bananas and papaya. Their sweetness results in yours. And of course, lest we forget that parsley can do wonders for men worldwide -- it eliminates body odor, freshens breath and improves the taste of seminal fluid.
Fruits like kiwi, watermelon, celery, and pineapple are all said to make semen taste lighter. Beer and coffee are believed to have something of an opposite effect, and could leave her with a bitter taste in the mouth. Alkaline-based foods like meat and fish produce a buttery taste, while acidic fruits (cranberries, blueberries and plums) produce a pleasant, sugary flavor. Most liqueurs will do the same, while dairy products can make for a foul taste because of their high bacterial putrefaction levels.
Always keep in mind that everyone has a distinct taste and even if you do all these things, she might still find the taste of your fluid repulsive. But if she's more than willing and able to sacrifice for the greater good, then have her down a mint before she makes her way down south.
The mint will serve to hinder the flavor of your semen and will simultaneously provide you with indescribable sensations.What might cause a sudden change in the smell of my husband's sperm?
WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO ASK SUCH A PERSONAL
QUESTION LIKE THAT ON THE INTERNET?????
i would have him get checked for STDs. Some stds can be caught from simply using a public toilet (gonerea for example).
This is so normal. Scents can change for both men and women due to diet. Just ignore it and enjoy it as a part of him. Why change his diet just because of this natural phenomenon?
hmmm, I have no idea, why would he get defensive when asked about drinking pineapple juice?? Good luck with that one.
diet and stress
lol its ur mistake ok
he shouldn't get defensive.
he should grow the hell up and get that checked just in case.
odors from the body are signals.
diet, stress, certain elements can cause odors.
medications... lack of hydration, disease, toxins in the body can cause this odor.
he needs to see a doc and check out his 'area' just in case.
maybe he cheated and figured that pineapple helps with smell and taste of semen, as well as making it less acidic, but if it's an STD, in not all cases are both of you going to be affected with obvious symptoms.
During your next annual pap (and schedule one soon!) ask them to check for STD's just in case, and ask your hubby to go to a specialist, as it might be a prostate problem, or worse...
(ie-urine might be leaking out/dribbling.....yeah....yuck...).
In other words, you both need to go see doctors asap!!!
Good luck!
I'm not sure but it could be due to taking medications or eating or drinking something different such as the pineapple juice???? Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You basically answered your question, diet can directly affect body fluid scents. And the additional acidity of the pineapple juice may make your man more acidic, sperm is usually a base PH, so as not to interfere with the base PH of the vagina. That why using vinegar to douce can cause yeast infections cause you change the PH within a system.
Pineapple juice makes sperm taste better. Its his way of asking for a bl*w j*b. Just tell him the juice is instead causing an odor you don't like and you'd rather he go back to all natural.
Any foods that are pretty acidic can change the smell of semen. Onions, garlic, acidic fruit juices and spicy foods can all have that effect.
Why does my husband fall asleep within 5 minutes of hitting the pillow?
Whilst it takes me an hour or so. Which frustrates me even more! Why does my husband fall asleep within 5 minutes of hitting the pillow?
We have the same problem. I have always suffered from a mild form of insomnia.
I have on occasion taken over the counter sleep meds to help but basically I have to keep going until I am 'bobble headed' and completely exhausted.
The general rules are avoid caffeine, don't exercise or eat within 3 hours of trying to go to sleep.
You could talk to your doctor about prescription medicineWhy does my husband fall asleep within 5 minutes of hitting the pillow?
Why would you be frustrated that your husband falls asleep faster than you? That's not a good reason to become frustrated with him. You should ask yourself what's the real reason you're frustrated with this man, and also why you can't seem to get to sleep when you want to?
You seem to have a lot of cares on your shoulders and they're expressing themselves through trivial things that don't matter. You may want to not to get little attitudes with him(if this is the case at all) about things he has no control over. It's not a big deal really! Just talk to him about the major issues that are on your mind, and focus on all the things you love about him as opposed to what you feel are his minor flaws! Hopefully talking it over will help you get to sleep better! Good luck!
According to all that i have seen and read, it should take a healthy peron who gets enough sleep 10-20 min to fall alseep at night. If your husband is falling asleep that quickly, most health experts would say he is sleep deprived.
http://www.sleepdex.org/deficit.htm
';However, there are ways to tell if you are sleep-deprived without going to a sleep clinic. Experts say that needing an alarm clock in order to wake up is a sign that you are sleep deprived. Another is falling asleep within five minutes of your head hitting the pillow unlike well-rested people who tend to nod off after 10 to 15 minutes. ';
Nah - there's more to it than he's just tired. I'm the same way - I can just completely relax and fall asleep almost anywhere, any time - even if I'm not particularly tired. The only time that I can't is if I'm REALLY stressed, but that's not very often. He's just secure and comfortable.
It's not him you should worry about. Get your doc to send you to a sleep lab to find out what it is that is keeping you awake. You are frustrated because someone you love is able to sleep? Isn't that a little odd to you? Are you fighting and you want him to suffer too? Get help and leave him out of it.
I'm like you and I hate it. If you get 8 hours sleep you WILL sleep the next night at the same time. If you are deprived of sleep you will find it harder to sleep since your cycle is messed up. Get your 8 hour of 7 hour sleep and you should be fine.
cause guys do not have that much going on in their heads as women do. They do not constantly think about stuff and what they have to do or think over the day and what happened. That is what my doc says anyway. LOL! Men are more relaxed then us women.
I think it's a man thing! my hubby is the same i think they just switch off better than us girls, we lay a wake thinking of all the things that have gone on or that we need to do where as they dont.
he is probably more tired if he falls asleep a lot faster. If he has had a hard day he will drop off quite quick, especially if his work is physically demanding!
He is tired. I work 12 hour shift and usually sleeping soundly within 1 minute. Its total mental and physical exhaustion.
Same for me...it takes me ages to get to sleep but my sister, for example, falls asleep asap. I think its just a body thing some people just cant fall asleep quickly but oh well.
hes stress out from other problems and hes tierd of those problems which makes him more exhausted. releave some of the stress off his mind. DO IT TO HIM the naughty thing lol
because men are not worry warts like woman are. We have too much buzzing around in our heads. I am the same way. I take half a dose of Tylenol Pm and I'm out in 15 minutes.
He's just plain lucky, mine does the same, I don't usually fall asleep till 1 or 2 o'clock.
He's tired.
The end.
That's why people fall asleep.
If he works more and harder than you, then he's probably more tired.
most men are like that, it's because men are heavier sleepers than women
If this is the biggest problem you have, you don't have any. That's childish.
physical labor will do that
He is tired.
If the man works all day then that ';duh'; is probably why!
You sound boring....would put me to sleep too.
he might be tired from work or have alot of stress
We have the same problem. I have always suffered from a mild form of insomnia.
I have on occasion taken over the counter sleep meds to help but basically I have to keep going until I am 'bobble headed' and completely exhausted.
The general rules are avoid caffeine, don't exercise or eat within 3 hours of trying to go to sleep.
You could talk to your doctor about prescription medicineWhy does my husband fall asleep within 5 minutes of hitting the pillow?
Why would you be frustrated that your husband falls asleep faster than you? That's not a good reason to become frustrated with him. You should ask yourself what's the real reason you're frustrated with this man, and also why you can't seem to get to sleep when you want to?
You seem to have a lot of cares on your shoulders and they're expressing themselves through trivial things that don't matter. You may want to not to get little attitudes with him(if this is the case at all) about things he has no control over. It's not a big deal really! Just talk to him about the major issues that are on your mind, and focus on all the things you love about him as opposed to what you feel are his minor flaws! Hopefully talking it over will help you get to sleep better! Good luck!
According to all that i have seen and read, it should take a healthy peron who gets enough sleep 10-20 min to fall alseep at night. If your husband is falling asleep that quickly, most health experts would say he is sleep deprived.
http://www.sleepdex.org/deficit.htm
';However, there are ways to tell if you are sleep-deprived without going to a sleep clinic. Experts say that needing an alarm clock in order to wake up is a sign that you are sleep deprived. Another is falling asleep within five minutes of your head hitting the pillow unlike well-rested people who tend to nod off after 10 to 15 minutes. ';
Nah - there's more to it than he's just tired. I'm the same way - I can just completely relax and fall asleep almost anywhere, any time - even if I'm not particularly tired. The only time that I can't is if I'm REALLY stressed, but that's not very often. He's just secure and comfortable.
It's not him you should worry about. Get your doc to send you to a sleep lab to find out what it is that is keeping you awake. You are frustrated because someone you love is able to sleep? Isn't that a little odd to you? Are you fighting and you want him to suffer too? Get help and leave him out of it.
I'm like you and I hate it. If you get 8 hours sleep you WILL sleep the next night at the same time. If you are deprived of sleep you will find it harder to sleep since your cycle is messed up. Get your 8 hour of 7 hour sleep and you should be fine.
cause guys do not have that much going on in their heads as women do. They do not constantly think about stuff and what they have to do or think over the day and what happened. That is what my doc says anyway. LOL! Men are more relaxed then us women.
I think it's a man thing! my hubby is the same i think they just switch off better than us girls, we lay a wake thinking of all the things that have gone on or that we need to do where as they dont.
he is probably more tired if he falls asleep a lot faster. If he has had a hard day he will drop off quite quick, especially if his work is physically demanding!
He is tired. I work 12 hour shift and usually sleeping soundly within 1 minute. Its total mental and physical exhaustion.
Same for me...it takes me ages to get to sleep but my sister, for example, falls asleep asap. I think its just a body thing some people just cant fall asleep quickly but oh well.
hes stress out from other problems and hes tierd of those problems which makes him more exhausted. releave some of the stress off his mind. DO IT TO HIM the naughty thing lol
because men are not worry warts like woman are. We have too much buzzing around in our heads. I am the same way. I take half a dose of Tylenol Pm and I'm out in 15 minutes.
He's just plain lucky, mine does the same, I don't usually fall asleep till 1 or 2 o'clock.
He's tired.
The end.
That's why people fall asleep.
If he works more and harder than you, then he's probably more tired.
most men are like that, it's because men are heavier sleepers than women
If this is the biggest problem you have, you don't have any. That's childish.
physical labor will do that
He is tired.
If the man works all day then that ';duh'; is probably why!
You sound boring....would put me to sleep too.
he might be tired from work or have alot of stress
What did my husband mean by this comment?
We are separated and he lives with his mom. He has told me he doesn't love me anymore, but I think he is a liar.
He said ';Do you think we will get back together?';
Me: Nope.
Him: If you don't think we will get back together then why are you still talking to me?
Whats that supposed to mean? Does he want to?What did my husband mean by this comment?
He does not believe that you are truly gone. He thinks, and probably rightfully so, that you are still talking to him because you know you will eventually get back with him but are not done punishing him for whatever wrongs you feel he has done, actual or percieved.What did my husband mean by this comment?
He is confused and thinks he is being lead on because you are still talking to him. He is testing the waters by asking, and probably doesn't believe your answer, much the same way you don't believe his. My guess, is that if he even asked that he still wants you. Looks like the ball is in your court and you need to decide your next move and think about what you really want. Then open a serious dialogue of communication with him.
Hope this helps!
BTW-Don't listen to half of these angry women on here. It sounds like there are some ';bitter big'uns'; who had a bad experience or two and think all men are pigs. Its not the case, so try to keep an open mind while making your decision.
it sounds like he wants to know your intentions. He may be checking to see if you have any hope even if it is false. If he told yo he does not love you why do you think he would be lying? I don't know your situation but when someone says they don't love the other person anymore most likely they are telling the truth, as much as that will hurt.
He's asking you point blank why you are hanging on. Apparently he hasn't the guts to tell you its quits, he wants you to do it.
So do it, end it and stop talking to him. Have your divorce lawyer talk to him, or have the sheriff serve him his papers. Either way get on with it, you are wasting your time.
It sounds like you are both challenging each other. If he asked, then he is curious. You saying NOPE means yes because you are on Yahoo answers seeing what other people think. I think he wants to hear a maybe or something out of you. If you really mean NOPE, then you should be direct with him and give him the reasons why so he is not wondering what the future holds.
it could mean anything hun, what u guys need to do is just tell the truth about how u guys feel about one another, and stop playing mind games, if u still love the man and want it to work with him then just say so, and vice versa w/him too. If not then move on, and forget him.
Probably but why he said he does not love you anymore. Sounds like the type of guy that needs a mom instead of a wife. Those are words that cut like a knife I would never forgive my husband for saying that to me...
It means he's f**king with your head. Dump his sorry butt and find someone who doesn't go running back to his mommy everytime he has a fight with you. If you think he's a liar, he probably is.
ZI think he is fishing to see what your feelings are. Just based on those comments it could be either way, most likely he is having feelings about you still.
he doesn't want to live with mom but he OBVIOUSLY needs to grow up... quite a bit. I would start with living arrangements if I were him. Let him go. you are talking to him, I assume, due to unresolved issues
let him go, bottom line. maybe he wants u to let go and u just wont. he's told u he doesn't love u and maybe he doesn't?!! leave him alone and move on.
yeah he is trying to mess with your head! he is just trying to make you want him back and then dump you! just don't talk to this mamma's boy!
When he's done he's done and he is wondering why you aren't this way.
I have no idea
nah hes just a poor rat whose tryin to make sure he has another hole to crawl into...
He said ';Do you think we will get back together?';
Me: Nope.
Him: If you don't think we will get back together then why are you still talking to me?
Whats that supposed to mean? Does he want to?What did my husband mean by this comment?
He does not believe that you are truly gone. He thinks, and probably rightfully so, that you are still talking to him because you know you will eventually get back with him but are not done punishing him for whatever wrongs you feel he has done, actual or percieved.What did my husband mean by this comment?
He is confused and thinks he is being lead on because you are still talking to him. He is testing the waters by asking, and probably doesn't believe your answer, much the same way you don't believe his. My guess, is that if he even asked that he still wants you. Looks like the ball is in your court and you need to decide your next move and think about what you really want. Then open a serious dialogue of communication with him.
Hope this helps!
BTW-Don't listen to half of these angry women on here. It sounds like there are some ';bitter big'uns'; who had a bad experience or two and think all men are pigs. Its not the case, so try to keep an open mind while making your decision.
it sounds like he wants to know your intentions. He may be checking to see if you have any hope even if it is false. If he told yo he does not love you why do you think he would be lying? I don't know your situation but when someone says they don't love the other person anymore most likely they are telling the truth, as much as that will hurt.
He's asking you point blank why you are hanging on. Apparently he hasn't the guts to tell you its quits, he wants you to do it.
So do it, end it and stop talking to him. Have your divorce lawyer talk to him, or have the sheriff serve him his papers. Either way get on with it, you are wasting your time.
It sounds like you are both challenging each other. If he asked, then he is curious. You saying NOPE means yes because you are on Yahoo answers seeing what other people think. I think he wants to hear a maybe or something out of you. If you really mean NOPE, then you should be direct with him and give him the reasons why so he is not wondering what the future holds.
it could mean anything hun, what u guys need to do is just tell the truth about how u guys feel about one another, and stop playing mind games, if u still love the man and want it to work with him then just say so, and vice versa w/him too. If not then move on, and forget him.
Probably but why he said he does not love you anymore. Sounds like the type of guy that needs a mom instead of a wife. Those are words that cut like a knife I would never forgive my husband for saying that to me...
It means he's f**king with your head. Dump his sorry butt and find someone who doesn't go running back to his mommy everytime he has a fight with you. If you think he's a liar, he probably is.
ZI think he is fishing to see what your feelings are. Just based on those comments it could be either way, most likely he is having feelings about you still.
he doesn't want to live with mom but he OBVIOUSLY needs to grow up... quite a bit. I would start with living arrangements if I were him. Let him go. you are talking to him, I assume, due to unresolved issues
let him go, bottom line. maybe he wants u to let go and u just wont. he's told u he doesn't love u and maybe he doesn't?!! leave him alone and move on.
yeah he is trying to mess with your head! he is just trying to make you want him back and then dump you! just don't talk to this mamma's boy!
When he's done he's done and he is wondering why you aren't this way.
I have no idea
nah hes just a poor rat whose tryin to make sure he has another hole to crawl into...
How do i stop wanting to always cheat on my husband? Im constantly looking and craving for an outside affair?
I have a serious sex drive for married men only. Ive never cheated with a man who was not married.. I dont know.. its like a hormonal drug addiction to me...I crave it, i crave the sex from a married man.. i dont know why.. i dont understand it.. i know its wrong but has anyone else ever had such a powerful drive to do this?How do i stop wanting to always cheat on my husband? Im constantly looking and craving for an outside affair?
It's power.
You are doing this to prove to yourself you can do anything. You are attempting to ';punish'; your husband in your mind by proving that he doesn't own you, can't control you, etc.
You are seriously messed up. Sorry to put it so bluntly, but you are a user. You use people. You use your husband. You use these men (who are also guilty - but those are their own personal demons). You are an abusive power freak.
You are either being a power freak in this respect because it's in your nature, OR - you feel you are powerless in other areas of your life and are using this to compensate for them.
In either case, get yourself into a therapist before all hope of leading a good life is lost.
EDIT to ';Just Me';
Swinging is not about people who can't control their impulses. My wife and I are swingers and I promise you the vast majority of swingers would not recommend or approve of this at ALL.How do i stop wanting to always cheat on my husband? Im constantly looking and craving for an outside affair?
I have never had the urge to cheat on my husband, but I figured I would try to help you. You seriously need to go talk to a shrink, this could be psychological and could be overcome with therapy. These urges can be overcome, when you get these thoughts of looking to cheat, force the idea out of your head, force yourself to do something that will keep you busy. You could also go get a toy to help please yourself and use your imagination of a guy you would have liked to cheat with without actually cheating. You should really be honest with your husband about this but if your husband ever finds out, he will more than likely divorce you. When in bed with him, try doing positions that you don't see his face, this way you can imagine that he is someone else. Plus, with cheating with married men, you are not only risking your marriage, but theirs as well. Remember that your husband is married(granite it is with you), and it is wrong to cheat. I would honestly get out of the marriage, don't get into a relationship, and get help getting over your urges. Your husband doesn't deserve to be cheated on. I hope you are able to stop.
I kind of get what you mean... i think you feel powerless in your life and in no control of it... so the only thing you feel you can use is your sexual behavior towards men.. because face it.. women can usually control men with sex...now the fact that you are only after married men.. im not sure. Perhaps you want so much control.. you ever want the control over their wife.. knowing that you are using their husband and they dont even know it.. its a power trip thing since you seem to have no control in other parts of your life. Am i right?
Don't listen to all of these people on here.
They are all feeding you a line of buIIshit.
It's a statistical fact that 50% to 70% of these females on here are going cheat on their hubby.
About 60% to 90% of the men are going to cheat on their wifes.
Married men only? Honey you have a demon that is gonna drive you straight to hell. Whatever you want to call it you got a serious problem and you need to go get help to find out why you are this way and to find out how to stop it before you ruin your life and the lives of others.
Perhaps it comes from not being happy with what you get at home. And has long as you are married to a man you feel leaves you wanting.. you will always be searching in other men for what you feel or think you need. Like most of us married folks, you my dear are stuck.
You have a sex addiction.. checkout a group to attend to help...don't sweat it everyone has addictions that need tending to.
You lack self control, it must be a sad existence to be totally controlled by your sexual urges. You need professional help.
This actually has nothing to do with sex (although you THINK it does) and everything to do with a deep rooted problem stemming from your childhood.
That sounds like a psychological issue. I would HIGHLY suggest counseling to get to the root of your dysfunctional behavior.
You probably need to see a councilor to find out why you have such issues and see if there is something you can do.
Ask your husband if he wants to swing. Seriously. There are plenty of websites that offer information abouty ';The Lifestyle';
i feel sorry for you for having such a low opinion of yourself.maybe you get the feeling of self-worth from married men because their desperate for any attension
Get divorced and do what you want. As it is now you are hurting both your husband and someone elses.
Your husband has the same problem.
He needs hotter women.
Try marrying one. You will lose the urge rather quickly.
sex addiction -- classic. google. you need counseling...
When you figure it out please tell me.
Seriously
I'm married and pretty hot email me.
not all of us are sooo slutty that we cannot control our actions. you are nothing more than a ****.
Stop turning outside your marriage for fulfillment and put everything into having a better time with your husband. I dont know how long the two of you have been together and if the relationship is stale right now but if that is whats going on then sit down with your husband and figure out what you can do to spice things up, im sure he is feeling the same dissatisfaction,but may not be acting on it. You can go to a bar and act as though you dont know each other, then go hook up in the car or a cheap hotel. There's various role play, there new positions to try (karma sutra), new places(private and public). There are toys/lotions/potions of all kinds.Find a way to make your marriage more exciting.
Not to mention the type of man your craving,married, is offering you nothing but sex and I bet that although the high you feel from knowing what your doing is wrong is the biggest climax, and not the actual sex itself. I would agree that, you may have something in your past/childhood may have started this addiction. Did you fantasies about older/married men as a child. Did you lose your virginity under circumstances you were completely comfortable with. Professional help may help you unlock the underlying matter and make overcoming it easier.
You never know what you have until its gone.Your addiction can cost you your husband and possibly your life. If a married man is having sex with you do you think your the only one? If you say yes, your kidding yourself, and are vulnerable to so many diseases.
It's power.
You are doing this to prove to yourself you can do anything. You are attempting to ';punish'; your husband in your mind by proving that he doesn't own you, can't control you, etc.
You are seriously messed up. Sorry to put it so bluntly, but you are a user. You use people. You use your husband. You use these men (who are also guilty - but those are their own personal demons). You are an abusive power freak.
You are either being a power freak in this respect because it's in your nature, OR - you feel you are powerless in other areas of your life and are using this to compensate for them.
In either case, get yourself into a therapist before all hope of leading a good life is lost.
EDIT to ';Just Me';
Swinging is not about people who can't control their impulses. My wife and I are swingers and I promise you the vast majority of swingers would not recommend or approve of this at ALL.How do i stop wanting to always cheat on my husband? Im constantly looking and craving for an outside affair?
I have never had the urge to cheat on my husband, but I figured I would try to help you. You seriously need to go talk to a shrink, this could be psychological and could be overcome with therapy. These urges can be overcome, when you get these thoughts of looking to cheat, force the idea out of your head, force yourself to do something that will keep you busy. You could also go get a toy to help please yourself and use your imagination of a guy you would have liked to cheat with without actually cheating. You should really be honest with your husband about this but if your husband ever finds out, he will more than likely divorce you. When in bed with him, try doing positions that you don't see his face, this way you can imagine that he is someone else. Plus, with cheating with married men, you are not only risking your marriage, but theirs as well. Remember that your husband is married(granite it is with you), and it is wrong to cheat. I would honestly get out of the marriage, don't get into a relationship, and get help getting over your urges. Your husband doesn't deserve to be cheated on. I hope you are able to stop.
I kind of get what you mean... i think you feel powerless in your life and in no control of it... so the only thing you feel you can use is your sexual behavior towards men.. because face it.. women can usually control men with sex...now the fact that you are only after married men.. im not sure. Perhaps you want so much control.. you ever want the control over their wife.. knowing that you are using their husband and they dont even know it.. its a power trip thing since you seem to have no control in other parts of your life. Am i right?
Don't listen to all of these people on here.
They are all feeding you a line of buIIshit.
It's a statistical fact that 50% to 70% of these females on here are going cheat on their hubby.
About 60% to 90% of the men are going to cheat on their wifes.
Married men only? Honey you have a demon that is gonna drive you straight to hell. Whatever you want to call it you got a serious problem and you need to go get help to find out why you are this way and to find out how to stop it before you ruin your life and the lives of others.
Perhaps it comes from not being happy with what you get at home. And has long as you are married to a man you feel leaves you wanting.. you will always be searching in other men for what you feel or think you need. Like most of us married folks, you my dear are stuck.
You have a sex addiction.. checkout a group to attend to help...don't sweat it everyone has addictions that need tending to.
You lack self control, it must be a sad existence to be totally controlled by your sexual urges. You need professional help.
This actually has nothing to do with sex (although you THINK it does) and everything to do with a deep rooted problem stemming from your childhood.
That sounds like a psychological issue. I would HIGHLY suggest counseling to get to the root of your dysfunctional behavior.
You probably need to see a councilor to find out why you have such issues and see if there is something you can do.
Ask your husband if he wants to swing. Seriously. There are plenty of websites that offer information abouty ';The Lifestyle';
i feel sorry for you for having such a low opinion of yourself.maybe you get the feeling of self-worth from married men because their desperate for any attension
Get divorced and do what you want. As it is now you are hurting both your husband and someone elses.
Your husband has the same problem.
He needs hotter women.
Try marrying one. You will lose the urge rather quickly.
sex addiction -- classic. google. you need counseling...
When you figure it out please tell me.
Seriously
I'm married and pretty hot email me.
not all of us are sooo slutty that we cannot control our actions. you are nothing more than a ****.
Stop turning outside your marriage for fulfillment and put everything into having a better time with your husband. I dont know how long the two of you have been together and if the relationship is stale right now but if that is whats going on then sit down with your husband and figure out what you can do to spice things up, im sure he is feeling the same dissatisfaction,but may not be acting on it. You can go to a bar and act as though you dont know each other, then go hook up in the car or a cheap hotel. There's various role play, there new positions to try (karma sutra), new places(private and public). There are toys/lotions/potions of all kinds.Find a way to make your marriage more exciting.
Not to mention the type of man your craving,married, is offering you nothing but sex and I bet that although the high you feel from knowing what your doing is wrong is the biggest climax, and not the actual sex itself. I would agree that, you may have something in your past/childhood may have started this addiction. Did you fantasies about older/married men as a child. Did you lose your virginity under circumstances you were completely comfortable with. Professional help may help you unlock the underlying matter and make overcoming it easier.
You never know what you have until its gone.Your addiction can cost you your husband and possibly your life. If a married man is having sex with you do you think your the only one? If you say yes, your kidding yourself, and are vulnerable to so many diseases.
What's the best thing to get rid of my husband's dandruff?
My husband has had REEEALLY bad (blizzard) dandruff lately. He uses the same shampoo as I do and I don't have any dandruff. He also gets it in his eyebrows (weird, I know). What would be the best thing to use?
He's already tried Head and Shoulders and he's used conditioner...... He said T-gel doesn't work for him.What's the best thing to get rid of my husband's dandruff?
Its ok most men go bald so soon he wont have a problem lol. mind u it doesnt help the eyebrows. if he had a shaved head he could use baby oil in the bath. he could try it anyway without using conditioner. i do that every second day .and my hair doesnt go greasy. if not then ask a barber. maybe its some kind of skin condition on his head and thats why it wont go with anti dandruff treatments. is it itchy/irritating a lot? maybe try something natural thats kinder to the scalp.What's the best thing to get rid of my husband's dandruff?
Try Tegrin medicated coal tar shampoo. It works. http://www.everydayhealth.com/DrugsAZ/Or鈥?/a>
I dont understand. my experience is that if I get depresed sya for a period SO I DONT SHOWER DAILY (HAIR WASH INCLUDED) THEN ';dandruff'; happens.
Solution is always to wash more. Specialty shampoos are only actually shampoo-so not worth expense) Just wash hair twice a day for three days see if it's gone bet it will
To keep dandruff away, take a tablespoon of lemon juice with 2 tablespoon of coconut oil, massage it well on scalp and hair regularly.Wash your hair with warm water. More simple remedies for dandruff at http://usefulinfo-dandruff.blogspot.com/
Extreme mositurizer shampoo and conditinor. Try Hello Hydration Herbal Essence. Worked for my sister!
And the dandruff in his eyebrows is just from the 'snow' in his hair thats fallen off and got caught in it. I've seen that before.
garnie fuites
Does your husband ever get spots of dry skin that also seem to 'shed dandruff' that are on his head but not in his hair? My husband has seborrhea, and we tried EVERYTHING until a clerk told me that it's an allergy to sodium laureth, which is in virtually EVERY shampoo in the world. It's even in most pine tar soap, which did help some of his dandruff but still didn't rid him of it. She sold me a very expensive bar of 'pure shea oil soap' ... since my husband started bathing with that, his seborrhea is nearly gone, and he has little dandruff. The thing is that if you try this, your husband has to bathe daily and use ONLY this soap on his whole body, because the whole body is allergic to sodium laureth, and getting any on his skin can cause the dandruff to get bad again.
Find a shamppo with lots of moisturizers. You could also get him to use a moistureizing lotion on his face forehead and neck so it will ease onto his scalp from these areas. If he always blowdries his hair, then stop for a while. Let his hair dry naturally and turning the temp down in the shower will help too. Really hot water aggrevates dry skin., which is what dandruff is dry scalp.
head and shoulders does the job.you have to make sher that hes using it right though
Rinsing your scalp with a rinse of 1/4 cup apple cider vinegar to 3/4 cup water may help the problem. The natural acids will help loosen any sebum (dead skin and oils) that clings to your scalp and flakes to form dandruff. Rinse thoroughly with WARM, not hot, water. If you don't rinse well, you will smell like vinegar.
To treat a bad case of dandruff, wash your hair with your usual shampoo and then rinse with an alcohol-based mouthwash. You can follow with an ordinary conditioner.
Tea tree oil has antiseptic qualities that may help kill the fungus, and keep your scalp moisturized. You can buy a small bottle at many groceries and health food stores, and add 5-6 drops to your regular shampoo. Or just purchase a shampoo that contains tea tree oil.
Plain old fashioned Listerine (the original amber formula) works wonders on dandruff! In fact, up until the 1980s, the label even mentioned that it was effective on infectious dandruff. Daily or several times a week, saturate a cotton ball with Listerine and swab over your scalp. It really works!
Tell him to rub onions on his head.
A shampoo called T-gel worked for me really well but, the only problem is that i personally think that T-gel smells a little bad so if you do buy wash your hair after with different type of shampoo.
The trick is to cut his hair short and then begin a treatment with a medicated dandruff shampoo....Once his dandruff is gone , he can continue to use Head %26amp; Shoulders.
Proactiv has a shampoo for dandruff.
Or, make an appointment to go see the dermatologist and get a prescription dandruff shampoo.
I think it is better to use natural remedies, because they have not side effects.
Add 2 or 3 drops, for a dose of shampoo, among the essential oils listed below :
- Essential oil of tea tree
- Essential oil of juniper
- Essential oil of Patchouli
good luck
Make sure you try Head and shoulders, the one for dandruff, not the normal one.
if u have any doctor or dermatologist friends just ask cassually about it, or try the general brands for head and shoulders like the wal-mart or sams club brands...sometimes they work better...and an old trick is to wash your har with mayonaise. i know it sounds weird but it got rid of one of my bffs dandruff for like 2 or 3 weeks. : ) or if it doesnt go away, go the extra mile and see a good dermatoligist.
He's already tried Head and Shoulders and he's used conditioner...... He said T-gel doesn't work for him.What's the best thing to get rid of my husband's dandruff?
Its ok most men go bald so soon he wont have a problem lol. mind u it doesnt help the eyebrows. if he had a shaved head he could use baby oil in the bath. he could try it anyway without using conditioner. i do that every second day .and my hair doesnt go greasy. if not then ask a barber. maybe its some kind of skin condition on his head and thats why it wont go with anti dandruff treatments. is it itchy/irritating a lot? maybe try something natural thats kinder to the scalp.What's the best thing to get rid of my husband's dandruff?
Try Tegrin medicated coal tar shampoo. It works. http://www.everydayhealth.com/DrugsAZ/Or鈥?/a>
I dont understand. my experience is that if I get depresed sya for a period SO I DONT SHOWER DAILY (HAIR WASH INCLUDED) THEN ';dandruff'; happens.
Solution is always to wash more. Specialty shampoos are only actually shampoo-so not worth expense) Just wash hair twice a day for three days see if it's gone bet it will
To keep dandruff away, take a tablespoon of lemon juice with 2 tablespoon of coconut oil, massage it well on scalp and hair regularly.Wash your hair with warm water. More simple remedies for dandruff at http://usefulinfo-dandruff.blogspot.com/
Extreme mositurizer shampoo and conditinor. Try Hello Hydration Herbal Essence. Worked for my sister!
And the dandruff in his eyebrows is just from the 'snow' in his hair thats fallen off and got caught in it. I've seen that before.
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Does your husband ever get spots of dry skin that also seem to 'shed dandruff' that are on his head but not in his hair? My husband has seborrhea, and we tried EVERYTHING until a clerk told me that it's an allergy to sodium laureth, which is in virtually EVERY shampoo in the world. It's even in most pine tar soap, which did help some of his dandruff but still didn't rid him of it. She sold me a very expensive bar of 'pure shea oil soap' ... since my husband started bathing with that, his seborrhea is nearly gone, and he has little dandruff. The thing is that if you try this, your husband has to bathe daily and use ONLY this soap on his whole body, because the whole body is allergic to sodium laureth, and getting any on his skin can cause the dandruff to get bad again.
Find a shamppo with lots of moisturizers. You could also get him to use a moistureizing lotion on his face forehead and neck so it will ease onto his scalp from these areas. If he always blowdries his hair, then stop for a while. Let his hair dry naturally and turning the temp down in the shower will help too. Really hot water aggrevates dry skin., which is what dandruff is dry scalp.
head and shoulders does the job.you have to make sher that hes using it right though
Rinsing your scalp with a rinse of 1/4 cup apple cider vinegar to 3/4 cup water may help the problem. The natural acids will help loosen any sebum (dead skin and oils) that clings to your scalp and flakes to form dandruff. Rinse thoroughly with WARM, not hot, water. If you don't rinse well, you will smell like vinegar.
To treat a bad case of dandruff, wash your hair with your usual shampoo and then rinse with an alcohol-based mouthwash. You can follow with an ordinary conditioner.
Tea tree oil has antiseptic qualities that may help kill the fungus, and keep your scalp moisturized. You can buy a small bottle at many groceries and health food stores, and add 5-6 drops to your regular shampoo. Or just purchase a shampoo that contains tea tree oil.
Plain old fashioned Listerine (the original amber formula) works wonders on dandruff! In fact, up until the 1980s, the label even mentioned that it was effective on infectious dandruff. Daily or several times a week, saturate a cotton ball with Listerine and swab over your scalp. It really works!
Tell him to rub onions on his head.
A shampoo called T-gel worked for me really well but, the only problem is that i personally think that T-gel smells a little bad so if you do buy wash your hair after with different type of shampoo.
The trick is to cut his hair short and then begin a treatment with a medicated dandruff shampoo....Once his dandruff is gone , he can continue to use Head %26amp; Shoulders.
Proactiv has a shampoo for dandruff.
Or, make an appointment to go see the dermatologist and get a prescription dandruff shampoo.
I think it is better to use natural remedies, because they have not side effects.
Add 2 or 3 drops, for a dose of shampoo, among the essential oils listed below :
- Essential oil of tea tree
- Essential oil of juniper
- Essential oil of Patchouli
good luck
Make sure you try Head and shoulders, the one for dandruff, not the normal one.
if u have any doctor or dermatologist friends just ask cassually about it, or try the general brands for head and shoulders like the wal-mart or sams club brands...sometimes they work better...and an old trick is to wash your har with mayonaise. i know it sounds weird but it got rid of one of my bffs dandruff for like 2 or 3 weeks. : ) or if it doesnt go away, go the extra mile and see a good dermatoligist.
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