Because I think he is doing it wrong? Do they hold class's for this? Where can I send him?At what age is it too late to teach your husband new tricks in the bedroom?
As long as he has the will and you have the patience. It's Never too late nor he too oldAt what age is it too late to teach your husband new tricks in the bedroom?
Teach him these two things..............
1. MALE-DOMINATION
Men are conquest-loving creatures, which is why they get so hot when you let them take over. ';If he feels like he's at the top of his game, your surrender is a power trip and a huge turn-on,'; says Fitzgerald.
During foreplay, let your legs fall open and hold the headboard or pillows above you so your whole body is exposed to him. Then invite him to slide on top of you. Meet his thrusts halfway by rocking your pelvis upward against his and lifting your legs in the air with your feet spread far apart. This gives him room to maneuver his body and alternate between deep thrusting and short pumping. Then drape your legs over his shoulders so he can grab your ankles and position them where he wants them. ';Tell him you want him to make you come,'; says Etkes. ';It says that you want him running the show because he has the skills to get you there.';
2. FEMALE-DOMINATION
If he's been doing all the pouncing and pawing lately, take the reins. But a truly titillating takeover has to be authentic and not staged, so wait until you're really randy, straddle him, and say, ';I'd love to be in charge tonight.'; Then gently grab his penis and rub it around your clitoris as if he were your personal sex toy.
Once you slip him in, pin his hands to the bed or tie him to the headboard with scarves or stockings while you grind against his lap in a circular motion. Or try this hot move: Stick your breasts in his face and instruct him to flick your nipples with his tongue — the only part of him that's free to move. He'll happily submit to your sexy request.
Another in-command position: girl-on-top 69. Rub your hot spot against his tongue and pivot your hips back and forth in sync with the lip service you're giving him.
How was that?
Let us know how it went!
You can buy book and videos on sexual techniques and positions. I don't think it's ever too late cause men love sex and most will be excited if their wives want to do something new and spice things up. I think they have couples sex therapy and maybe some kind of seminars but not too sure on how to get info on those. Just try the books and videos and if they doesn't work I would do the therapy. Good Luck! And oh by the way you need to be honest and tell him what to do that can better please you and then see what you can do for him!
I don't think age has anything to do with it, it is more of the willingness of your partner to learn new things and keep the home fires burning...
I have never heard of such classes because if they existed most women would be signing their partners up for it...
The best way to learn is reading books, doing research, asking your partner to teach you and practice practice....
when I read the quastion it was all serious then man when y say because i think he is doing it wrong. hahahahahaha i had to laugh a lot. u think? so u not sure. there is not age to teach ur husband, u shoulded teach him before u get marry so now he don't be surprise and askin himself if u cheating or because u now found out that he is doing it wrong.
how did u find out that he is doing wrong?
there is not better class than the one u give yourself, i like this. oh yeah keep doing like this oh there is it. just talk talk girl talk
I have the same sort of thing going on! I am not really verbal in bed and I have said something to him outside the bedroom and he got all defensive saying I need to talk about bettering our sex right before, during or right after. So, I try to talk more.
I've been thinking about the video thing myself. My sister recommended videos and or books, but she's more of an extrovert than I.
Good Luck and I think I need to get on the ball myself!
You might have to hire a tutor. Check the local community colleges for a 19 year old member of the dance team who could help you.
It's never too late to learn new tricks and believe me most men would love to have a lovely gal teach them some new tricks.
u think he is doing it wrong, as in what is he doing, and if u dont know, maybe u both need some help
when he stops learning or doesnt want to learn it cant be from 35 to 95 depends on if he lov to please you or himself hoping that he spoils you real good ,yes!!!!
It's never to late to learn and/or show your partner some new tricks in the bedroom...
there is no age to study or teach anything in life..if you think he's doing it in a wrong way.., tell him how the way u want him to do.. problem solved..
Its never too late...
Saturday, January 9, 2010
Why does my husband listen to songs about sex and drugs?
My husband and I don't listen to the same kind of music.Most of the music he listens to Iv never heard of.
I started going through some of his music today and its all about doing drugs and having sex.
I think its disgusting.
Why does he want to listen to this garbage?Why does my husband listen to songs about sex and drugs?
It's probably better than rap were they sing about beating and killing their wives and baby mommasWhy does my husband listen to songs about sex and drugs?
Well if your into classical, like Debussy and Beethoven like I am, he probably isn't into it. Knowing guys, he either just likes the beat to it, or he's trying to be cool. You should look through his play-list again because not all rap, or whatever he listens to, is bad and has a bad purpose. Now, it is kind of stupid if he accuses you of that also, but he shouldn't. My point is, the garbage is ';in'; but try to help him see the light to this situation, and be sweet about it. He is your spouse.
Okay...
1. Not everyone is big on lyrics. My dad is a huge music freak and he barely knows any lyrics. He just likes the music.
2. For some people it's the passion behind it. I've never been cheated on, but when I'm angry I like to sing along with ';You Oughta Know'; because it just expresses my anger and bitterness at the moment.
3. Sometimes it's just a fantasy. I love belting out ';Rockstar'; by Nickelback. I don't honestly want to be popping pills from a Pez dispenser or having sex with easy women. I don't even want 15 cars, that's wasteful. But it's cool to fantasize for a moment about being that fifthly rich and careless about life and my body. And then I remember how so many rock star types end up, addicted, without a SO, empty, STDs, broke... and I know why I'm living my life the way I am.
4. Finally, remember you don't have to like the same music. Like the other person said, your music probably annoys him too. Don't read too much into it, unless of course he is out having sex on cocaine.
My husband use to hear that stuff until I told him of how uncomfortable I felt with it. He got rid of it without hesitating. Not to metion I didnt want our children to hear him playing that trash full blast. Honestly the words in those songs just reminded me of bad memoriies or the past and my husband didnt want me to go through a depression after all I had been through. I thought that was sweet of him. Talk to your husband about it. It' s not healthy not to communicate in a marriage.Always have a mutual respect for each other.
OMG! He has his own personality and musical tastes! And yours are different! The sky is falling! The sky is falling!
I think country music is garbage, along with hip-hop and rap. That's MY personal taste. Your personal taste is your personal taste.
Get over it, princess.
You know ';Pearl Jam'; meant sperm.
';Jazz'; and ';Rock'n'Roll'; mean sex.
You seem a little to prissy for my taste.
Maybe your husband has a nice fantasy life with you not being so close minded.
Oh my God ';Puff the Magic Dragon'; was about marijuana!!!!!!
Two types of people in the world: Lyrics people and music people. Rarely both. JMO
Then there's this other stuff they call music and I call noise pollution, because it isn't music and the lyrics are terrible.
Just ask him.
it's just music.
give the guy a break.
he should be able to listen to whatever you want.
you don't have to agree on everything :)
but if you really want to know, why don't you ask him?????
maybe then you'll get an answer :)
My husband listens to stuff I can't stand. I don't even understand what it is saying. It just sounds like screaming to me. I never really thought about it or cared. I still love him just the same.
cuz that's what mainstream music is about!
I'm the same way... my husband likes what I call n*gger music because it's all rap style music with multiple references to sex, drugs, putting down girls, etc.
cuz he likes the music....why do you listen to the stuff you listen to?? why are you trying to read into something that is nothing
Probably because it's the kind of music he enjoys. Your music would probably want to make him slit his own wrists.
He likes the music. I am sure he (and others) could ask the same question about whatever it is you listen to!!
Sex, Drugs and Rocking roll baby...wohooooo....It is what it is maybe hes not into the lyrics but more of the music...thought!!!
Probably because it's good. Don't like it? You don't have to listen to it.
im surprised you two got married and you didn't know his musical taste. your making it into a big deal. its just music and if hes not indulging in sex (with others) or drugs whats the problem?
I'd say that when he starts listening to Barbara Streisand and Celine Dion is when you have to worry.
in all seriousness its prob cause hes a guy i listen to songs like that all the time
Probably for the same reason you watch brad Pitt lol he likes it
It's just music......you like one genre of music and he likes another.
some of the best songs are about drugs and sex. what else do people write songs about?
bc its what hes into
I started going through some of his music today and its all about doing drugs and having sex.
I think its disgusting.
Why does he want to listen to this garbage?Why does my husband listen to songs about sex and drugs?
It's probably better than rap were they sing about beating and killing their wives and baby mommasWhy does my husband listen to songs about sex and drugs?
Well if your into classical, like Debussy and Beethoven like I am, he probably isn't into it. Knowing guys, he either just likes the beat to it, or he's trying to be cool. You should look through his play-list again because not all rap, or whatever he listens to, is bad and has a bad purpose. Now, it is kind of stupid if he accuses you of that also, but he shouldn't. My point is, the garbage is ';in'; but try to help him see the light to this situation, and be sweet about it. He is your spouse.
Okay...
1. Not everyone is big on lyrics. My dad is a huge music freak and he barely knows any lyrics. He just likes the music.
2. For some people it's the passion behind it. I've never been cheated on, but when I'm angry I like to sing along with ';You Oughta Know'; because it just expresses my anger and bitterness at the moment.
3. Sometimes it's just a fantasy. I love belting out ';Rockstar'; by Nickelback. I don't honestly want to be popping pills from a Pez dispenser or having sex with easy women. I don't even want 15 cars, that's wasteful. But it's cool to fantasize for a moment about being that fifthly rich and careless about life and my body. And then I remember how so many rock star types end up, addicted, without a SO, empty, STDs, broke... and I know why I'm living my life the way I am.
4. Finally, remember you don't have to like the same music. Like the other person said, your music probably annoys him too. Don't read too much into it, unless of course he is out having sex on cocaine.
My husband use to hear that stuff until I told him of how uncomfortable I felt with it. He got rid of it without hesitating. Not to metion I didnt want our children to hear him playing that trash full blast. Honestly the words in those songs just reminded me of bad memoriies or the past and my husband didnt want me to go through a depression after all I had been through. I thought that was sweet of him. Talk to your husband about it. It' s not healthy not to communicate in a marriage.Always have a mutual respect for each other.
OMG! He has his own personality and musical tastes! And yours are different! The sky is falling! The sky is falling!
I think country music is garbage, along with hip-hop and rap. That's MY personal taste. Your personal taste is your personal taste.
Get over it, princess.
You know ';Pearl Jam'; meant sperm.
';Jazz'; and ';Rock'n'Roll'; mean sex.
You seem a little to prissy for my taste.
Maybe your husband has a nice fantasy life with you not being so close minded.
Oh my God ';Puff the Magic Dragon'; was about marijuana!!!!!!
Two types of people in the world: Lyrics people and music people. Rarely both. JMO
Then there's this other stuff they call music and I call noise pollution, because it isn't music and the lyrics are terrible.
Just ask him.
it's just music.
give the guy a break.
he should be able to listen to whatever you want.
you don't have to agree on everything :)
but if you really want to know, why don't you ask him?????
maybe then you'll get an answer :)
My husband listens to stuff I can't stand. I don't even understand what it is saying. It just sounds like screaming to me. I never really thought about it or cared. I still love him just the same.
cuz that's what mainstream music is about!
I'm the same way... my husband likes what I call n*gger music because it's all rap style music with multiple references to sex, drugs, putting down girls, etc.
cuz he likes the music....why do you listen to the stuff you listen to?? why are you trying to read into something that is nothing
Probably because it's the kind of music he enjoys. Your music would probably want to make him slit his own wrists.
He likes the music. I am sure he (and others) could ask the same question about whatever it is you listen to!!
Sex, Drugs and Rocking roll baby...wohooooo....It is what it is maybe hes not into the lyrics but more of the music...thought!!!
Probably because it's good. Don't like it? You don't have to listen to it.
im surprised you two got married and you didn't know his musical taste. your making it into a big deal. its just music and if hes not indulging in sex (with others) or drugs whats the problem?
I'd say that when he starts listening to Barbara Streisand and Celine Dion is when you have to worry.
in all seriousness its prob cause hes a guy i listen to songs like that all the time
Probably for the same reason you watch brad Pitt lol he likes it
It's just music......you like one genre of music and he likes another.
some of the best songs are about drugs and sex. what else do people write songs about?
bc its what hes into
What is a kind gesture I can do for my husband?
We've been reading the ';Love Dare'; book from the movie Fireproof. We are on Day 2, and it says to do something for your spouse as an act of kindness. He's a truck driver and he won't be home until this weekend, so does anyone have any ideas as to what I can do for him today? What is a kind gesture I can do for my husband?
call him and let him know you love him. and tell him how much you miss him and give him a compliment and tell him your proud of him. this will give him a convidence boost and he'll get to hear from you!
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hope this helpsWhat is a kind gesture I can do for my husband?
i think a nice home cooked steak dinner with onions and mushrooms,with a chilled beer waiting for him would be nice,served by you in your sexiest underwear,what more could he want,please don't say your vegetarians lol.
Tell him that you love and appreciate him for being a good man who is good to you.
Most women spend too much time badmouthing good men. Be one of those rare women who appreciates men who are good to women.
call him and let him know you love him. and tell him how much you miss him and give him a compliment and tell him your proud of him. this will give him a convidence boost and he'll get to hear from you!
-鈾
hope this helpsWhat is a kind gesture I can do for my husband?
i think a nice home cooked steak dinner with onions and mushrooms,with a chilled beer waiting for him would be nice,served by you in your sexiest underwear,what more could he want,please don't say your vegetarians lol.
Tell him that you love and appreciate him for being a good man who is good to you.
Most women spend too much time badmouthing good men. Be one of those rare women who appreciates men who are good to women.
How should I take the comment made to my new husband on our wedding day from a family member, ';Keep it in the?
On our wedding day a comment was said to him from his family member ';Keep it in the marriage this time!'; Am I to worry about infedelity in our marriage? He denies it and say his wife cheated. But, common sense tells me then the remark should've never been told to him, right?How should I take the comment made to my new husband on our wedding day from a family member, ';Keep it in the?
I think maybe your looking too much into this. Maybe he was trying to make a joke aimed at you, you know about history repeating. If he hasn't given you reason to doubt him before, don't start now that your married.
I think maybe your looking too much into this. Maybe he was trying to make a joke aimed at you, you know about history repeating. If he hasn't given you reason to doubt him before, don't start now that your married.
What rock music do i play at our wedding? My husband to be is into his rock music?
After 10 when the grannie's have left i would like to have told the dj to play some songs he would like as a suprise but have no idea what rock music would be appropriate for a wedding...no swearing or to much screaming as our family will still be there? Please help the wedding is in 6 weeks!What rock music do i play at our wedding? My husband to be is into his rock music?
I don't know if it would be a good idea to play rock music at the wedding. It would depend on the guests that will be attending. I'm a metal/rock fan, but I had mostly traditional music played at my wedding, mostly because our families are old fashion. Rock music might be more suited to an after wedding baroque or party.What rock music do i play at our wedding? My husband to be is into his rock music?
White Wedding by Billy Idol.
Perfect answer. I win.
I Don't Wanna Miss A Thing by Aerosmith (:
Between The Buried And Me. lol
Arcade Fire
how about ac/dc you shook me all night longcartridge makeup 2009
I don't know if it would be a good idea to play rock music at the wedding. It would depend on the guests that will be attending. I'm a metal/rock fan, but I had mostly traditional music played at my wedding, mostly because our families are old fashion. Rock music might be more suited to an after wedding baroque or party.What rock music do i play at our wedding? My husband to be is into his rock music?
White Wedding by Billy Idol.
Perfect answer. I win.
I Don't Wanna Miss A Thing by Aerosmith (:
Between The Buried And Me. lol
Arcade Fire
how about ac/dc you shook me all night long
How can I be more exciting in bed for my husband?
I am an attractive and healthy young WIFE and I'm kind of BORING in bed because I have never just relaxed. I feel uncomfortable being naked with the lights on and I never really say much. How can I slowly start to be more open without being weird or too over the top?How can I be more exciting in bed for my husband?
This ones easy...Watch some porn, have a few drinks before hitting the sack (enough for a buzz, not enough to be sloppy), turn up the tunes you enjoy, turn out the lights and be yourself.How can I be more exciting in bed for my husband?
Dress up in more sexy fancy bra and panties or clothing. And if your a dark hair weir Red Fancy bra and panties. If your a blonde wear fancy pink underwear. And try shutting the lights off. And light candles in the bed room when your husband comes home. Guys like that.
Don't do the ';dead fish'; impression. If you enjoy something, gasp or moan. If you don't like something, let him know what you do like. Remember: HE wants YOU to feel good.
If you don't feel comfortable with the lights on, then keep them off.
during sex, say things like, ';harder, faster';. thats a start. Try to get totally relaxed and just concentrate on the feeling sex gives you. The pleasure alone should get you excited and unboring. hopefully
Be real. Ask him what he likes and then do it. You are his wife; he loves you for who you are and is comfortable with your body, even if you aren't. Try doing a strip tease...that's not way over the top.
You cant get around it ...thats part of banging....just saying !!
This ones easy...Watch some porn, have a few drinks before hitting the sack (enough for a buzz, not enough to be sloppy), turn up the tunes you enjoy, turn out the lights and be yourself.How can I be more exciting in bed for my husband?
Dress up in more sexy fancy bra and panties or clothing. And if your a dark hair weir Red Fancy bra and panties. If your a blonde wear fancy pink underwear. And try shutting the lights off. And light candles in the bed room when your husband comes home. Guys like that.
Don't do the ';dead fish'; impression. If you enjoy something, gasp or moan. If you don't like something, let him know what you do like. Remember: HE wants YOU to feel good.
If you don't feel comfortable with the lights on, then keep them off.
during sex, say things like, ';harder, faster';. thats a start. Try to get totally relaxed and just concentrate on the feeling sex gives you. The pleasure alone should get you excited and unboring. hopefully
Be real. Ask him what he likes and then do it. You are his wife; he loves you for who you are and is comfortable with your body, even if you aren't. Try doing a strip tease...that's not way over the top.
You cant get around it ...thats part of banging....just saying !!
Planning a 2 week escorted tour of Europe with my husband. Can anyone plz suggest a good tour company?
Tour budget approx.$2300 per person. Will start tour from London, May 25, 2008. preferred destinations: France, Italy, Austria, Belgium, Germany, Netherland, Switzerland (any 4 or 5). Travel by bus/train. Decent hotels, not 1st class or luxury ones. We are both 28 and more into museums, scenic locations than shopping or partying.Planning a 2 week escorted tour of Europe with my husband. Can anyone plz suggest a good tour company?
Contiki is great!!! My husband and I went on a Contiki tour through Europe, we went to London, Paris, Amsterdam, and Munich Germany, but they go everywhere in Europe, so just look on contiki.com or ask a travel agent and they can book you on a contiki tour. Contiki is only for people up to the age of 35, and no kids allowed. So it's great, it's all people your own age, so it's alot of fun!!
Contiki is great!!! My husband and I went on a Contiki tour through Europe, we went to London, Paris, Amsterdam, and Munich Germany, but they go everywhere in Europe, so just look on contiki.com or ask a travel agent and they can book you on a contiki tour. Contiki is only for people up to the age of 35, and no kids allowed. So it's great, it's all people your own age, so it's alot of fun!!
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