Do you think my husband should be talking to the ladies at the office?

My husband talks to a couple of ladies at his office. He works out in the field not in the office. The ladies he says are a couple years older then him. I ask him if they are pretty and he says no. He told them that I am going to make just hot wings as a meal and bean dip as an appetizer. That is what I am making when his family comes over. The ladies laughed and said for the meal all she is making is hot wings and nothing else. The ladies said isn't hot wings already appetizer. First of all I don't see why my husband has to talk to the ladies.Do you think my husband should be talking to the ladies at the office?
Sounds like you have jealousy issues...and it sounds like your husband enjoys stirring you up by telling you every detail of his conversations.





Ugg..you two need to give the games a rest at least for Christmas holidays.Do you think my husband should be talking to the ladies at the office?
Grow up, your husband can talk to whomever he wants at work. He is just being friendly. If he loves and comes home to you and you have no reason to believe he is cheating, why do you care who he has as friends at work.
You need to get your jealousy under control or you could drive him away. Is he not supposed to be sociable. Just because he's married he can't talk to anyone? If you trust him then what little talk of wings and appetizers with women is going to hurt. Trust is everything.
Tell him to shut his mouth or you are gonna start looking for friend elsewhere..male or female. And I suggest making something more. If you have the means to do so.





There is nothing wrong with conversing with others but he shouldn't be complaining about what you are making...if that in fact is what he was doing.
He works with them. Grow up and stop making his job difficult.
Talking to people is a necessary part of a job.





There is a social aspect to working too and that is what your husband is doing.





You have a large jealousy streak and you need to get this under control. If you love and support your husband and work at having a good marriage, chances are you will. If you let jealousy rule your relationship with your husband, your marriage will be in jeopardy.
You worry to much, he really doesn't have a choice because he works with them.
First of all I don't see why you are going to marry some one being so insecure and jealous! Your husband is grown up enough to talk to whoever he wants to. See a therapist. And a marriage counselor. I feel bad for your husband.
They're his co-workers. Of course he talks to them.





You have some serious jealousy issues.
first off, hot wings can be whatever you want to make them. you husband better had took up for you. the reason he may talk to them is because they are older and always holding conversation. older women love to talk to younger men, even if it is just for conversation. does he show signs of a cheating husband, if not, do not worry.
you are very insecure and jealous... nothing wrong with talking to people in your company... good business practice...





perhaps you should look to yourself before judging his actions...
All he is doing is talking to them. I think you are blowing him talking to them out of proportion because of your jealousy. Also you might want to make a little more when his family comes over, if you are able to do so.
Talking is no crime. Seems you might be getting upset over something they said and you don't know the context it was said in. Personally I'd tell hubby to keep it at the office. You don't care to hear what they've got to say and he should keep his personal life at home. They don't need to know what you say or do.
Nobody wants a jealous spouse. Jealousy ruins a marriage. Control it or there'll be trouble ahead.
I wonder what he said when they reacted that way? I would think he should stick up for you and its none of their concern what you decide to make. The ladies were out of line and picturing the event myself, not the people you want your husband talking to. My husband works in the field too but he needs to go in the office now and then and Im sure your husband wouldnt be keeping his job if he was always chatting it up and npt doing his job. from my view its hard to tell if he's flirting with them or if theyre even anything to flirt with or if they are just people to have a quick chat with. The women that work at my husband's plant are very nice(actually, theres just one),she's very nice, I know he talks to her occasionally but I know thats it. If your aching to know, I know its hard to fight jealousy but you have to understand alot of what jealousy is made up of is in our heads. Can you bring him lunch one day as a suprise, it would be great for your relationship,too and bonus,you can meet these women yourself. You may see, theres nothing to worry about :) And actually if he comes home after work,then really you need to get this out of your head, If he's coming home, he isnt cheating.
Good luck with this. Coming from a very jealous person I understand your anger with this. To me when a woman disses a mans wife or finds problems to point out to the husband then she is looking to cause problems. Being a friend to a married man is fine until you take any shot toward the wife. Woman know better! Good luck ...