A married woman whose husband is recovering from cancer wants me to impregnate her. What should I do?

I know this is a very rare question but it is real. The woman says she will raise the kid in her family and that no one will know about it. She loves her husband but due to the sickness and recovery he is not capable to father a baby. I was shocked at the beginning when I as offered this unsual deal. I am single guy, had girlfriends but no kids. I am not sure about the legal consequences either though she says everything will be taken care of. Any suggestions and thoughts?A married woman whose husband is recovering from cancer wants me to impregnate her. What should I do?
Child support. Plain and simple. Regardless of any promises or claims she (or her spouse) may make the State doesn't negotiate or take in to account ANY sort of ';arrangements'; to avoid child support obligations. They can and will garnish up to 50% of your income to support the child. Don't do it. Save this special ability to conceive for when you are ready to be a parent on your own.





During such an emotional and stressful time in her life ~ wanting to conceive is the last thing she should be concerning herself with!





It sounds as if she doesn't want to disclose to her spouse that the baby isn't his ~ dishonesty this blatant is a definite RED FLAG.





My opinion: Steer clear!A married woman whose husband is recovering from cancer wants me to impregnate her. What should I do?
Don't you think this sounds shady? If the woman would not tell her husband, she is not an open and honest person. Would you want a dishonest person raising YOUR child? YOUR ONLY child???
WHOA WHOA WHOA WHOA!,NO NO NO NO!...DONT DO IT MAN IT WILL HURT LATER! THAT DONT SOUND LIKE THE RIGHT THING TO DO
If you want to help (and you seriously need to think about this), you need to get a legal document prepared stating that you are in no way responsible for the child. If her husband dies, she might go after you for child support, no matter how good of a friend you are. Just remember, you may feel an emotional bond with this baby knowing it's yours, and you need to be sure you can keep your distance.
are you people serious? you just wanna make ';cheating'; a something easy to do without having any morals ';take a lawyer with you??!!!';..... what the...??, and if she really love her husband or whatever, she won't even think about such a thing. And shame on you man to have a relation with a married woman what is gonna be your feelings if you were in her husband's shoes and you wanna take our opinion about this? what is the wrong with you???!!
I would definitely get a lawyer involved just to be safe. Also, only if the husband is aware and agrees to it.








You don't want to get stuck with child support!!!
Don't do it! she might put child support on you
make sure a lawyer is involved... it can be handled as a sperm donation....

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