Why does my husband make excuses for all his actions?

It could be anything........if i ask him to take out the trash he will tell me he will get it in a minute and he never gets around to do it,then the next day i would ask him why he did'nt take out the trash and he says something like the phone rong or you called me for someone.What i want to know is why they make up so many excuses for everything?Why does my husband make excuses for all his actions?
There is NO reason why he can't at least take out the trash for you when you ask him to. This is what I would call being just plain lazy %26amp; using dumb excuses why he didn't do it. You should NOT have to keep asking him over %26amp; over to do such an easy thing for you. Next time you ask him tell him you expect him to do it NOW, not later, no excuses of any kind just to please do it when you ask. I hope you're NOT doing it for him, because IF you are, this is why he's not doing it, he knows you will. He's not treating you fairly or w/respect. Say what you mean, mean what you say...best to you...:)Why does my husband make excuses for all his actions?
HA!...Sounds like my husband....whenever I ask him to do something he ALWAYS makes an excuse not to do it at that moment. Then the next day it obviously didn't get done and then I have to do everything on top of all the sh*t I already have to do...while he does nothing. So I have complained about this over and over again.....so now when I ask him to do something..he just does it right then and there. I'm not a b*tchy nagging wife...but I deserve some help around the house when he's at home not doing anything..
An excuse is easier than actions lots of times.





Maybe instead of just asking him what to do...give him a reason why you want it done. Guys like to be problems solvers.





He doesn't understand that his excuses are upsetting you - maybe you should talk with him about it before it gets to be a bigger deal!
I think we are married to the same man!





ME: PLEASE TAKE OUT THE TRASH.


husband: I did last night.


ME: WELL IT NEEDS TO BE TAKEN OUT AGAIN.


okay, I will. In a minute.


ALRIGHT.


*hours later I take it out*





or


ME: WILL YOU DO ME A FAVOR IN THE NEXT HOUR AND WASH THE DISHES.? I CAN MAKE DINNER WHEN I GET BACK FROM THE STORE.


husband: sure not a problem.


* I get back from the store and end up washing the dishes myself.*(don't have a dishwasher).
I think the question is, why do you have to nag him about little things like taking out the trash?


Who cares if he had an excuse, whats your excuse for being a nagging wife. I mean take out the trash, thats the oldest nag in the book.
It is a disease called ';exercusitise';. If you want to understand read ';The Magic of Thinking Big';.





http://www.amazon.com/Magic-Thinking-Big鈥?/a>
People who make excuses are pretending. He needs to get real and take out the trash.

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