Why does my husband always assume I am accusing him of cheating on me?

If I ask my husband how his day was, I am accusing him of cheating on me. If I sit in the same room as him, trying to talk to him, while he is on the computer I am hanging over his shoulder or checking up on him. I do not understand this. I continue to tell I do not even think he is cheating on me, but that is the first thing out of his mouth.





What do I do?Why does my husband always assume I am accusing him of cheating on me?
Read this book. ';never be lied to again'; great book by David J. Lieberman. He must be guilty if he does that maybe parinoid. when he goes to work or isn't home go on the computer see where the guys looking by going into the cookies part.Why does my husband always assume I am accusing him of cheating on me?
Hon,


Take it from someone who has been there, he is either cheating or on the way to cheating. As his wife you have every Right to look at what he is doing on the computer or ask him how his day was. Unless you are examining his clothing and giving him the third degree making him account for every second of his day then you have done nothing wrong. He is just trying to reflect his indiscretions on to you!!! In other words he is trying to put the blame on you. ( Your accusations caused him to cheat!!)
Tell him:





';Honey you aren't that goodlookin for me to be worried about you cheatin on me....just be glad you're with me...cause baby I upgrade you.';





Next time he'll probably be confused but he won't assume that you're acussing of him cheating on you.
He's probably cheating on you. Sorry =[


But you deserve better. No offence but any guy that does that kind of stuff is rude, and stupid. He isn't worth it, and you are a human being, not a dog, so if I were you I would leave him.


YOU DESERVE BETTER!


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so what is so wrong with sitting with him when he is on computer.he must have something to hide,so you are right.also 9/10 times when they act like that they are , sorry.
Sounds to me your husband is very paranoid about you finding out about whatever he got going on you need to really talk with your husband because somethings not right
Sounds fishy to me, guys never know how to be sneaky. That's a tell tell sign '; reverse psychology';.
Honey...he IS cheating on you.





It's one of the most obvious signs, he's practically dobbed himself in with you.
Wake up,, he is cheating on you, or at the very least, hiding something from you.
Projection!! Don't feel bad about snooping around..
That is his answer because: He is cheating on you!