Why is my husband so obsessed with anal sex?

It's all he ever wants or talks about. We fight about it all the time, and no he isn't gay. He tells me I will enjoy it and that his guy friends talk about how their wives love it so much. How can I make him understand that just because his friends wives do it doesn't mean everyone does. I do not feel I would enjoy it and personally do not find it sexy. Anyone with a similar problem that can give me some help?Why is my husband so obsessed with anal sex?
Lots of people love anal sex. Your husband may just want to keep up with the boys, so to speak. It is perfectly alright for him to ask you to please him in different ways, but if you are uncomfortable about anything and choose to refuse then he should respect that. If he doesn't respect you and continues to brow-beat you about it, just stop talking about it with him. The best way to end any argument is just not to participate, then there can't be a fight. Each time he mentions it use the broken record routine. Repeat the same statement no matter what he says, don't get angry just repeat yourself. (Something like. I am not going to discuss this with you.) Eventually he will notice (I hope) and since he doesn't get the reaction he wants he will stop, or continue to look awfully foolish by talking to someone who just isn't responding.Why is my husband so obsessed with anal sex?
Maybe my husband is one of his friends? lol





I actually love it. I was pretty perplexed by the idea when he first mentioned it to me but after doing a little research, I decided to give it a try.





If you're not at all into it, then that's that and he needs to get over it. If you're a little bit curious about it then read up on it and give it a try. A couple of rules if you do try it. When you do it is up to you, not him and you should always, always, be in control. With the right lube and relaxation it can actually be a wonderful experience. The orgasm isn't the same as vaginal and it's pretty mind blowing for us both...
Well, I have two different opinions on this one...From the guys point of view they like change not the same old same old..And of course anal sex it's much tighter around there penis which can eel better or more pleasurable for them...Now from my point of view I think it all depends on the guy and how big his penis is, I have done it with a guy who was smaller and anal sex actually was quite exciting and pleasurable and then I have tried it with my husband who is much bigger and let me tell you did I cry..OMG!!! So, anyways I think it all depends on the girl the guy and the penis..LOL If you just simply don't want to do it, then tell your guy he needs to respect your wishes as you respect his!!! Think about all the things he doesn't like and the next time he tries to have anal sex with you bring it up....or if you want him to get it out of his system, let him try anal just barely let him get in and then start balling your eyes out and show him how much pain your in, he probably won't beg you anymore!! Good Luck
I'm a male and yes this very thought races in my head to my credit i actually found it discusting and horrible and my partner found it uncomfortable and extreemly painfull. And from a males point of view it's actually selfish not that a man would admit to that. and about his mates i really think he just made that up just to convince you that it is all good when really it's not.


Do yourself a favor say No! No! No! Never Ever Forever


It's an exit not an entry %26amp; if he doent like that then he doesnt respect or love you the way you may think he does i bet if you went and asked his friends wives the story would be totally different or more likely untrue.


Stick to your guns and Dont do it
My husband is the same way. Begs me all the time for it.


I have let him a couple of times but with tons of lube and I can honestly say...it is not that fun for me, but I know it makes him happy.


I just go with it a couple of times a month to keep him happy.


Sex, relationships...they are all about give and take. I know that he is not happy that it takes FOREVER to get me off sometimes, but he hangs in there until it happens. So I guess it is just the trade off. I make him happy, he makes me happy. Done.
No one should have to do anything sexually that they aren't comfortable with and if your husband pressures you then he's a real jerk. Go out and buy the most massive strap on you can find and tell him if he is so into trying it, why not try it out on him first....that should shut him up once and for all.
my husband asks for it all the time. i don't like it. i have done it a few times. he's non stop about it. i feel so disrespected. if some women enjoy it good for them. i'm not bashing them. i don't like it. while having sex he'll try and i say no and get up and get dressed. it's hurting us more than he realizes.
If you dont want to do it just say NO and if he loves and respects you then hopefully he will respect your decision and not keep pestering you about doing it.





And no i dont have that problem.





Me and my husband have used the ';back door'; a few times and we both enjoyed it.
Don't like it; don't care for it; won't do it ever again...I think your husband is BSing when he says all of his friends' wives like it. I doubt that's true. It's okay to do whatever you BOTH enjoy doing, but he shouldn't try to force you or coerce you into doing something you just don't wanna do. I totally agree with Ellie. Tell him you'll do it if he first lets you stick a vibrator up his b...u...t...t
Yup. My guy jokes about it and asks for it. Rule of thumb...anything you want to do to me, I get to do to you. I tried it, hated it, dont ever want to do it again. I dont think its natural, and I dont see how it can be pleasurable to women. Just tell him no. If he persists, ask him to let you stick a couple fingers in his butt, see how he likes them apples.
My boyfriend asks for it, but I never say yes and never will. I tried it before with my 1st boyfriend and it wasn't good for me(as I suspected). I wont really bend my ways to please a man, and i'd say ';You knew I wasn't into it before you even married me'; i'd tell him if he loves you/respects you to drop it.
Because it's the forbidden fruit....I guess...guys don't understand what it's like to be the receiver in that position....I'd tell him that if he goes to the store, gets an 8'; vibrator and lets you try it on him first that you'll consider, CONSIDER giving it a try.....see if he asks you again.
First of all not all women enjoy it, so thats a load of crap right there.


Second of all its your body, he should respect that. For me I like the position, but not so much the act itself..I would tell him that you dont enjoy it simple! that should be enough for him to stop asking
he's obsessed cause he isnt getting it. what worked for me was when i looked at my boyfriend and said ';OK. But I go first.'; he was all HUH? I said, ';You want me to try it... That makes me a lil uncomfortable, so if you let me put something up there on YOU...'; He hasnt mentioned it again.





Men.
Tell him if he lets you stick a vibrator up his butt 1st and let you screw him with it you MIGHT consider it, I'm sure if his friends wives knew that there husbands were discussing there sex life with others they would be very upset.
Yes everytime my bf brings up anal sex I tell him look if its so enjoyable why dont you bend over and let me ram a dildo up ur *** repeatedly and if u can tell me do it again baby then ill let u do me
When I met my husband I let him know from the very beginning that I would never do that.. and the only way I would do that if he would have sex with another man.. lets just say that subject has never been brought up !!
Stick to your guns you sure he never tried it with a guy