Why would a husband have a secret myspace?

I've been married for 5 years and just found my husbands secret myspace page and it's set to private. What would you do? I think he's had it for a while.Why would a husband have a secret myspace?
you don't need anyone here to answer that question for you. you're only going to hear confirmations of what you already know but don't want to admit.





now, tell your husband you need to talk. decide if you want to go to couples counseling (i would strongly suggest it) - tell him that your marriage won't survive if honesty and trust can't be counted on in your relationship.





counseling will give you both a safe place to talk and find a way to communicate. don't wait any longer and keep torturing yourself - be calm and as non-judgmental as possible, but be forceful. tell him you are concerned and need to talk about this now. and someone needs to help navigate you through what is probably a much bigger issue.Why would a husband have a secret myspace?
Make up a profile of a woman with a fake name and find a picture of a very good looking woman for the main profile picture. Pick a song or two for your profile that he likes along with some others. For album pictures, pick ones of mountains, lakes, things like that and make the picture album only open to friends, this way he has to accept you as a friend to see the pictures. Make sure the profile you make up is of things that somewhat interest him (your husband) so that he feels he is meeting someone he has something in common with. Make your background a very nice and cozy one that is very inviting. OK, it's now time to invite him as a friend. Once he accepts you, lead him on and see where it takes you but remember, don't be yourself, be that person you made up.
there could be many reasons and i would not jump to conclusions if he seems well-behaved otherwise. if he has a history of being less than loyal, then yes, be suspicious.





but, there are many reasons to have a profile set to private. it may simply be that somebody was harassing him. it could be that he's more reserved and doesn't like his personal information for everybody to see. maybe there are things he'd like to say that he doesn't want family/friends to know about (doesn't mean they're ';bad';, though, he just wants privacy with it)





if he has a public profile and then also a secret public profile, that's a little fishy. don't make assumptions though. you can approach him and explain that you found his secret page (however you found it) and would like to know why he has it so that your imagination doesn't make it into something terrible. be civil about it, don't turn it into an argument. that'll just make the situation worse.
I believe that anything that is secret is questionable. It doesn't necessarily mean he's up to anything YET but it does mean that he has bad intentions.


Can I give you a suggestion? Find a pic of a beautiful woman around his age. Make up a profile that lists yourself as from his hometown and ask to be his friend on Myspace. You can then see all his contacts etc.


OR confront him right while you are at a computer. Ask him to sign into his page and let you look through it. If he refuses then he is hiding something.
I found out my husband had a myspace for years and didn't tell me. He would talk to women and flirt with them. I was and still am pissed. But What I wish I had done was make a fake Myspace with some fake Pictures and asked my husband to be my friend and start to flirt with him to see what he would do and say. I REALLY WISH I HAD DONE THIS. Then I would have known what he was up to FIRST HAND. Maybe you could find out what he is up to this way.
do you also have a myspace page? I have a myspace page that I hadn't told my husband about for awhile, just because he wasn't interested in it. but recently I talked him into getting one because it is an easy way to connect with old friends who have moved away, and he has a lot of those. I didn't intentionally not tell him, it just never came up. maybe it is nothing. I guess just ask him about it.
I kinda had a problem like this my fiance had a FanBox account and it wasn't secret but he didn't go on it when I was around and he would get admirers now and then and he would make sure to delete all the messages, also the main point of the site is to get fans and he only had a few and they were all slutty looking girls. So I confronted him and he ended up deleting it.





Maybe in your situation he has some friends that he thinks you would be uncomfortable with. Such as an ex girlfriend that he keeps in contact with or old friends. If that is the case just tell him it makes you uncomfortable. Definitely confront him. I know me and my fiance just went threw a few problems of Hidden things to do with the computer and had a massive confrontation.





Best Of Luck Hun Xo
if you don't think you can get an honest answer by just asking then create a fake profile and get to the bottom of it...





all you need to do is send a message to him saying that you were just browsing people in the area and you came across his profile.. blah blah blah.. let him send you a friend request so that this allows you to gain first access and view all the comments and all his friends .





just make sure you upload an attractive picture of someone and set your profile to private.
Well my fiance had a secret one and he swears it was just for him and his friend to talk easier or something which doesnt make sense and the only one added was this girl he grew up with and not even that friend he said he used it for. so idk what his reason was but it could be a number of things if the login date isnt recent maybe its old or fake. but if not it could be cheating or just connecting with friends maybe he has friends you dont like him talking with so he uses it id just ask him tell him u stumbled upon it or someone you 2 know stumbled upon it. and see what he tells you and ask if he will login to show it to you. or you could try to be sneeky and create a fake one and see if he'll add you and bust him if hes cheating ro thinking of it it is a fact many upon many of men married or dating or engaged have hooked up with people on myspace and cheated over it and left there wives for people on there so i'd just ask him first and you'll be able to tell but what he says and make sure u remember the login date. he may try to say he forgot his password or sumthin you'll know whats true or false from him. Me and my fiance share our myspace and he rarely even gets on it but that way you know whats going onw ith each other and i know a few married couples that do this too. or you two can have your own and know the login infor you are married that doeant have to be secret anymore..
No spouse should have a my space for years without the other knowing about it. In fact, alot of married couples just have one. Calmly tell him that you came across his my space and you would like to look at it - now. Don't let him know you know when you are not there or he will completely change it all. I hate to not trust him, but it's odd you would not know about it. It sounds as though he keeps it hidden for a reason. Remain calm until you are convinced one way or the other. Good luck.
Set up a fake My Space and see if you can entice him to talk about himself and let you see his page. I am not very knowledgeable about MySpace so I would talk to a friend or fellow worker you trust to help. But I wold be concerned that you may not really know him as well as you thought. Or he is having an affair or something.
He's obviously talking with people (women) that he doesn't want you to know about. Me, I'd tell him he could get rid of the myspace account and share the computer with me - so I have access to everything he does on the computer OR he could move out and lawyer up.
i'm a teenager so i don't know if adult relationships work the same as teenage relationships but if i found out my gf had a secret myspace, hi5, facebook or whatever i'd just ask her if i could see it, do that and if he says no it means he's hiding something really important.
mine is set to private too! you need to be added as a friend to view it..... request being his friend and see who else he is friends with! dont accuse him of anything without proof. If he has nothing to hide he will add you no problem..... If for some strange reason he does not add you.... its trouble and he is hiding something.
C'mon, babe, do you really need peeps on here to answer that?





You know why he has it. If I had one it would be for one reason only. How naive are you?





Confront him about it. See if he can worm his way out of it. Get him to show it to you, without advance warning.





Be honest with yourself, gf.
He might never use it... unless he has his last login showing and it shows he was just on there.





You might be the jealous type that would throw a hissy cos he's got some random hot chick ';friends';





There's lots of reasons, but I doubt it's anything major... I doubt he's cheating.....
He is cheating on you. He is meeting other women on MySpace. A lot of married guys do that! It is a well known fact that 35% of all guys online looking for women are secretly married or in a serious relationship.
He is a married man and is not entitled to a secret anything! Tell him how you feel about it and get everthing out in the open. Ask him what else does he have a secret about.
Talk to him about it. Don't play little games, just confront him and communicate. Married couples are suppose to be able to communicate.
He probably using it to meet girls. It happened to me..a married man added me and we started talking online then we finally meet. He actually fly to my country just to meet me. I felt guilty but I couldnt resist him anymore.
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depends on what kind of information is on it....if he says he's married if he shows his picture, what kind of picture it is...?
Asking him would be the best option just be quick and to the point about it, no messing around.


or...


you could always make a myspace yourself, a fake one and try adding him, see what happens....?
It's set to private because he does not want you snooping %26amp; looking into it.





Looks like he had good reason to set it that way!
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For adulterous activities.
Probably because he is cheating or looking to cheat.





Isn't the answer obvious?
Get one of your own and set it to private and make sure he finds it
It doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating. Maybe he is, maybe he's just looking.. Ask him and read his face!





good luck!
Its not a Secret if you know about it. Ask him WTF
Something isn't right with that. I'd calmly approach him on the issue ASAP.